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Anonymous met his wife in 2005, and they later got married after having a child in 2010.

After getting married they started attending the same church, which is his church. There’s an elderly lady on the worship team at their church who stated that there’s a prophecy that anonymous would need to leave his wife for this lady’s daughter. 

This information was shared with anonymous’ wife, but it was told to her as though it’s something that’s actually happening….

Anonymous is the eldest son in his family and only has sisters, and he’s now also married. 

Her wife has deep Christian beliefs and his mother is a sangoma, so his family tends to follow Traditional African religion. 

His younger sister has taken ill and his uncle suggested they visit a sangoma in Mozambique who could help his sister. 

He told his wife about his intention to support his family in taking his sister to this sangoma but she didn’t take this well and said anonymous is now inviting other spirits into their home. 

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Anonymous says when she met his partner he was clean and proper and was a great person towards her. 

However, after a while of dating each other, they moved in together and this is when she realised certain aspects of his personality. She says he was always moody and wasn’t as fun as he used to be before. 

As result of his behaviour, they agreed to continue with the relationship but live apart. He then moved out abruptly which took her by surprise. 

She confronted him about his move and he told her that he moved because he no longer felt welcomed in her space, the talked through it and he has now moved back to their place…

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 5 years, she’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his late twenties. 

Her problem with him is that he doesn’t seem to want to work. He’s not interested in looking and he currently doesn’t work. He’s been this way since she’s been with him and when she asks him why he’s not working he has many excuses, including his spirituality. 

She’s now broken up with him, however, he wants to get back together with her and she’s not sure if she should, because she does love him but worries about his lack of ambition.

Anonymous met a guy who lives in her complex mid-last year, they hit it off and started dating. 

Around September last year they had a miscommunication and things became a bit tense between them. They never really spoke about what happened between them and their relationship just fizzled out from there. 

Fast forward to this year, she needed closure about why things ended, so she confronted the guy, and while she felt like he left her, he thought she broke things off.

Right now she’s in a position where she’s wondering if he wants to be with her. 

Anonymous got married in her late teens and has now been with her husband for 13 years. 

Her marriage has been generally fine during this time and they have children with her husband. 

She met a man from another country through work, who she was in charge of taking care off while he was in the country, and there’s a spark between them. 

She hasn’t done anything with this man despite his advances and gifts, however, she does find herself feeling stimulated by him and this situation. 

She’s wondering if this is infidelity and what she needs to do. 

Anonymous was in a relationship for 5 years until her partner ended things between them abruptly in December last year. 

She’s struggling to get over him and they still communicate because of a business they work on together. 

She’s not sure if he’s moved on yet, and she still has many questions