Anonymous is ten years younger than his partner, she has three children and he has one daughter. 

He would like to have more children of his own, however, she can’t physically bare more children and he would like to have a male child of his own who will carry his legacy. 

He loves his partner and appreciates her contribution to his personal & professional development, however, this is a major drawback of staying in this relationship. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 3 years now and they moved in together about a year ago. 

Her partner has been struggling financially for a while now and has accused anonymous of not supporting him financially and not spending on their household. 

She has now found out that he’s been cheating on her with another lady who he says supports him financially. Anonymous wonders if his complaints about her lack of support are valid. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 8 years and have been married for two of those years. 

Her husband cheated on her with 7 different women, she reported this to their families, they resolved it and they’ve now moved on with their relationship.

She started using PrEP to protect herself she’s now in an interim and they need to use condoms, but her husband is refusing to do this.

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 7 years now and they have a child together.

It’s been rocky in their relationship with infidelity happening on both sides. At some point they addressed this situation in their relationship, forgave each other and decided to move forward in their relationship. 

However, she feels like their relationship is not the same anymore after all they’ve been through. They both want to make it work, but currently it seems to not be going anywhere. 

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 5 years now and they have a child together. 

Their relationship has been messy over the last two years and his partner now wants to leave him because she feels like he doesn’t communicate properly in the relationship and that he has anger issues…

Anonymous with her ex partner for about nine years and they have two children together. Their relationship ended after she cheated on her partner and he found out. 

She’s now in a new relationship and the guy is amazing to her and her kids. However,  she feels like she’s still healing from the wounds of her previous relationship. 

Anonymous has been with her boyfriend since late last year and they work together. 

She works in HR and when he had to apply for family responsibility leave in her office, she found out that his ex had just given birth to his child and he had been hiding that pregnancy from her.

Another issue in their relationship is family planning, anonymous wants her partner to share in the costs of the contraceptive she wants to use but he doesn’t agree. 

She’s wondering if he’s lying about the relationship he has with the mother of his children and whether she’s unreasonable for wanting him to contribute to the contraceptive. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2017, they immediately fell in love and, soon after they started dating, they had a child together. 

The guy then moved overseas to pursue his studies and during his time abroad their relationship took a turn for the worst and it faded away. 

Seven years later he’s back in the country and she is now back together with him, but feels like he’s not present in their relationship, and he’s not really there for their daughter, who he hasn’t been supporting this entire time. 

Anonymous took him back in so they could be a family but she feels like it’s not working out the way it should.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 8 years now and they have a 4 year-old child together. 

About two years ago his partner started becoming off-ish about sex and she eventually started scheduling sex between them to three times a month. 

This became a problem in their relationship and she told anonymous that if he wants more sex he can go outside of their relationship and find someone else to have sex with. 

Upon realising that he found someone to have sex with, she became upset and accused anonymous of cheating on her. 

She moved out of their home out of anger but was convinced by his family to go back to their home. 

Things haven’t been the same since she got back and she has now left their home again saying that she’s struggling with his “betrayal”. 

Anonymous still loves his partner and doesn’t know how to resolve this.