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Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating. 

He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this.

After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant. 

She broke things off with him last year and they went their separate ways. Months later she called him and they are now back together but things are a bit dry between them. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years. 

She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media. 

He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it’s also women that look nothing like her, which leaves her wondering if that’s what he actually prefers. 

She’s confronted him about this behaviour and while he’s said he would change, he hasn’t. A week ago she tried to make him account for this but he got upset and they haven’t spoken since.

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now. 

She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl. 

She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child but things didn’t workout there and guy no.1 wanted her back despite the fact that she was pregnant with another men’s child. 

He took her in with her three children, including children from her previous marriage and the child she has with guy no.2. 

She says their relationship is now fine but he doesn’t seem to get along with her first born daughter.

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together. 

She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him. 

Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he’s still in contact with the lady that led to their breakup…

Anonymous started dating a guy in 2017 and their relationship was ok for the most part in the beginning stages.

Years later she fell pregnant and says during this time she lost interest in her partner and didn’t even want him to touch her. She believes this behaviour drove him into the arms of another woman and he also ended up impregnating her. 

She found out about this, they worked through it and continued with their relationship, however, he can’t seem to let this other woman go. 

Anonymous feels like she’s cast a spell on him as he’s changed a lot since being with her, and is not only neglecting their relationship, but he’s also neglecting his career and life in general.

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been dating her current partner for about 8 months now. She says this partner fits the description of the person a prophet once told her she would meet one day

At some point in their relationship she found evidence that he had someone else, and he confessed to this after she confronted him about it. 

She tried to break-up with him after this revelation but she went back to consult the same prophet who told her she can’t leave him as he is the one for her.

Anonymous cheated on his partner two years into their relationship back in 2014. They went through therapy following this incident but the process led to him finding out that she had cheated on him as well. 

They moved on with their relationship but he says she continued to bring up his cheating and their relationship broke down, when he took ill, they separated. 

Things were fine between them during the separation and they would even get intimate during this time. 

They got back together after the completion of his new house, but he says they live separate lives in the same house. To the public it seems they have the perfect relationship but nothing is happening at home, even sexually.

Anonymous says her relationship is generally fine but their sex life is problematic. She says she’s the one who always initiates, but he often rejects her advances towards him. This has been a problem for years in their relationship and she's not sure how to live with his lack of sexual interest. 

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.