Anonymous moved to a new province for work purposes, she met a guy at the office, they hit it off and started dating. 

She soon realised that this guy has a partner and she is a side to him. She gave him an ultimatum to decide whether he moves forward with her or his partner. 

She started engaging with another guy while he was still deciding on them. The guy found out that anonymous was busy with someone else and he got upset especially because she was pregnant. 

She terminated the baby as result of all this chaos…

Anonymous’ fiancé got arrested 8 years ago and has been in prison since then. 

This situation put a strain on their finances and has affected their relationship. He also got into a seemingly transactional relationship with another woman that he met on social media. He said this is to help them financially but she feels like she’s not benefitting from this. 

She feels drained by the situation and is not sure what to do.

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now. 

He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him. 

Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyone else.

Anonymous has been with her current partner for over a year now and says they had a child together after being together for about a month. 

At the beginning of their relationship her partner told her that he had just broken up with the mother of his child. About a month ago she realised that he has actually continued his relationship with the mother of his other child despite being in a relationship  and living with anonymous. 

He has now said that relationship with the mother of his other child is over. But she’s struggling to live on from this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now and in the last two months she’s found herself in a relationship with a woman. 

She says he’s been cheating on her but she let all of that go. She feels like she’s discovering herself and her sexuality right now. She’s cheated on him before with other women but this particular relationship is more intense & serious. 

Her partner wants to marry her and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about six years now and says their relationship has been going well and he’s the man she prayed for. 

Her problem is that he never pays attention to his phone when he’s out with family and friends and doesn’t give her any attention when she tries to reach him. 

They’ve recently had a fight about this and as usual, he’s now giving her silent treatment. They have also been together for 6 years now and she’s yet to meet a member of his family. 

Anonymous has been with his wife for about two years now and they are in a long-distance relationship.

They recently had a fight because he found out, for the first time, that she’s in communication with the father of her child. While their chats were mostly about their child, there are also texts where he refers to anonymous’ wife as “my love”, however, she doesn’t reply in the same way. 

They got into a fight because of this and he ended up saying to her that this is why he didn’t want to marry someone who already has children. She was hurt by this and has now blocked anonymous.

Anonymous and his partner have together for a while and they live together.  They often go out together and recently, while they were at a party, his girlfriend joined her friend, who was with some other guys. 

He spotted her flirting with one of the other guys and at some point it looked as if she wanted to leave the party with the other guy. This angered anonymous, he confronted her, and even got physical with her, and they needed up going home together. 

He’s frustrated and angered by this behaviour and it’s even led him to violent acts and thoughts against her.