As 2025 draws to a close, we’re catching up with some of the people we’ve had on ‘Ask a Man’ over the last year! If you have any Ask a Man anonymous you think we should definitely catch up with, WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303, letting us know which anonymous you’d like to hear from. 

As 2025 draws to a close, we’re catching up with some of the people we’ve had on ‘Ask a Man’ over the last year! If you have any Ask a Man anonymous you think we should definitely catch up with, WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303, letting us know which anonymous you’d like to hear from. 

Anonymous has a problem with how her wife treats him and deals with conflict. 

He says she doesn’t listen to him and doesn’t admit when she’s wrong. He adds that she also confronts and shouts at him in public spaces, and he feels like she doesn’t treat him like an equal partner in the relationship.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 15 years now and they a child together. 

He moved to another city this year because of a better job offer and says he took this job because finances were a problem in their relationship. 

He started to notice that she became emotionally distant when he’d call her and wasn’t giving him much attention….

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 21 years now and they have three children together. 

Their marriage has had its challenges over the years, especially the fact that he doesn’t get along with her family. 

He’s now confessed to anonymous that he’s been in a relationship with a lady that works in their business for 14 years now and he has 4 children with her. 

He told her that he ended up being in a relationship with this lady because of how her family treats him.

Anonymous met a man about 6 months ago and says when they started dated he told her that he was in a complicated relationship with the mother of his children. 

She says communication was fine in the beginning but it hasn’t been so great in recent weeks. When she questioned him about his change of behaviour, he told her that the mother of his child is giving him a hard time and that’s what’s affected him. 

She’s not sure what to read into all of this and wonders if she should wait it out and see what happens in this relationship, or just  move on.

Anonymous has been married to his partner for 9 years now and things were fine in their relationship until she lost her job.

He feels like she blames him for losing her job, he has now also lost his job and feels frustrated by her expectations of him.