Anonymous has been with his partner for almost two years now and they now live together with her two children. 

His partner was in the middle of lobola proceedings when she broke up with the father of her children and they had gotten a joint-mortgage for the house they lived in. Anonymous wants to marry his partner but he’s worried that his partner is still jointly linked to a major asset with her ex. 

He wants her to give up on the house so that they can move on with their relationship on a clean slate.

Anonymous met a man on a dating site about three weeks ago, and she’s enjoying getting to know him but he seems to only be available to her during office hours. 

She confronted him about this behaviour and he said it’s because he’s struggled with insomnia in the past and is often off his phone in the evenings to remedy this. He also added that he’s been single for a long time and is readjusting to dating. 

His communication, after hours, hasn’t improved, and anonymous is not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for almost six years, they’ve been married for two of those years and they have a ten month old child. 

Their relationship is generally great, but the problem is a friend that her partner has, as she’s seen videos of them being cozy together and they’ve even exchanged messages declaring their love for each other. 

They’ve been fighting about this same girl for most of their relationship, however, she’s not sure if she should give up on what she’s built with him because of the relationship he has with this one girl.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for three years. He already had two children before they started dating and they have  since had a child together who is now 10 months old. 

They are in a long distance relationship and last week, when he came to visit her for her birthday, he was trying to post pictures of her on his WhatsApp stories when she noticed that he blocked 3 ladies from seeing his stories. 

She questioned him about this and he said it was people from work that he blocked from seeing his stories. Anonymous still finds this suspicious and wonders if he could be busy with other people.

Anonymous has been with his partner, on and off, for about a year and a half now. They broke up twice in their relationship mostly because he used to go out a lot and also cheated on her. 

They are now back together but he suspects that she might be in a relationship with the guy she was having a thing with before they got back together. 

He doesn’t have any concrete evidence of this but says she tends to be evasive about her whereabouts and has done some things that make anonymous question her commitment.

Anonymous met a lady at the gym in the latter part of last year, the lady had a boyfriend, but they ended up having an affair. 

Things got more serious between them as they were spending a lot of time together and she told this lady that she’d like to make things official between them which caused a rift between them because this lady was struggling to break up with her boyfriend. 

The lady then told anonymous that she’s broken up with her boyfriend, and they continued with their relationship, however, it turned out that this lady was actually still having a thing with her boyfriend. 

They fought about this but kissed and made up…

Anonymous is in her late twenties and is a mother of an 18 month old baby. She was with the father of her child for about three years but the relationship was toxic and after she gave birth she broke up with her partner and moved out of his family home. 

Months after the break up she went back to the house to fetch her things, and this is when she met her ex’s new girlfriend. The new girlfriend then offered to support her child. 

They continued to chill and the new girlfriend then kissed anonymous and they ended up having sex. 

She’s now confused by her relationship with the new girlfriend, who’s supporting her child, however she’s worried about their relationship being transactional.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for two years now and during that they moved in together and built a house together. 

A couple of months after they bought the house, her partner started behaving differently, going out more and having fun with friends. Anonymous addressed his changed behaviour, he agreed to spend more time at home but it’s been going on for months now. 

Her partner disappeared over the long weekend which caused a rift between them once again. Her partner has now told her that he still wants to have fun and doesn’t want to live like an old married couple. 

Anonymous is not sure how to interpret this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2017 and they got married in 2019, she adds that he was a virgin when they met in their late twenties. 

Her problem is in the bedroom as he struggles to pleasure her and when she tries to find out what he likes, he’s not sure. 

Anonymous has tried many different things to get them on the same page sexually, but their sex life has not been improving.

Anonymous has been with her partner, guy no.1, for about 4 years now and things were fine until he lost his job and it created a burden on their relationship. 

She started noticing things about his treatment of her, realising that he often body shames her and is always speaking down to her. 

She has now started dating other people: guy no.2, who’s married and has said he doesn’t mind marrying anonymous as a second wife, and guy no.3, who she’s also having a good time with currently but is not sure if it’s just vibes or something more serious.