🎙️ This Is Our Life Podcast — EP [#]: “Designing Yourself: Self-Acceptance, Body Love & Creativity” (Live Recap)

Every time you talk to Davia Williams Stevenson, you walk away with nuggets of wisdom that pour straight into your spirit. I’m so grateful for our connection — from her having me on her podcast to now joining me on mine. 🙌🏽

This episode is a little different — it’s a live recap of our conversation, giving you a raw and authentic look at how it went. We discussed self-acceptance, designing for yourself, body acceptance as a radical act, and becoming your own muse.

Already available on our website, Buzzsprout, and YouTube, with snippets on Instagram, this episode is packed with insight, inspiration, and practical takeaways you can start using today.

🔎 Episode Highlights

Self-Acceptance & Designing for Yourself

Body Acceptance as a Radical Act

Becoming Your Own Muse

• One small step for listeners to begin loving their bodies
• Wisdom for anyone struggling with self-love today

🎧 Watch/Listen now: https://youtube.com/@kissedbybo5719?si=JU9vltTjpu2jiN3f
 

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

🎙️ This Is Our Life Podcast — EP9: “Grieving the Past Self: Motherhood, Identity & Healing” (Live Recap)

This episode is a little different — and a little extra special. 🌿

This  live episode, we were joined by Debraisha Toney Hale  

DeBraisha is an Educator, real estate agent, a Paparazzi consultant & sales pro, a motivational speaker, and an evangelist. She’s living proof that you can balance it all and thrive!

We dove deep into what it means to grieve your past self while growing into motherhood. This live conversation explored how identity shifts, how women silently navigate that sense of loss, and how healing and self-compassion bring us back home to who we truly are.

We Explore the multifaceted journey of motherhood, touching on themes of identity, self-compassion, and the importance of maintaining a relationship with God. They discuss the challenges of grieving one's past self while embracing the new roles of being a mother and a wife. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-reflection, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the chaos of parenting. Debracia shares her personal experiences and insights, encouraging mothers to reclaim their identities and prioritize their well-being.

Originally recorded LIVE on Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook, this raw, open-floor episode gave space for honesty — the kind that reminds us we’re not alone in our transitions.

Now that the live is over, we’re just recapping the heart of the convo and showing you how it all went down. 💬

You can catch the full replay now on our website, Buzzsprout, and YouTube, with snippet clips on Instagram — so check it out, share it, and tag us with your reflections.

🔎 Episode Focus:

• Grieving your past self after motherhood
• Navigating identity loss & rediscovering who you are
• Healing through self-compassion and boundaries
• Real stories from mothers learning to feel whole again

💭 Guiding Questions from the Conversation:

Segment 1: Grieving the Past Self

• When you became a mother, did you feel like you were grieving your old self?
• Why do you think this feeling is often silent or dismissed?
• How can mothers honor that grief without guilt or shame?

Segment 2: Navigating Identity Loss

• How did motherhood reshape your

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

🎙️ This Is Our Live EP3: “AskME: Wife, Mom, Designer + God” (Live: Highlight Reel vs. Real Life)

This episode is a little bit special. We were originally supposed to have a live guest join us, but when plans shifted, we decided to keep it real and open up the floor — connecting directly with our live audience instead.

Unlike a typical solo episode, this one was truly live — streaming on Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook — raw, unscripted, and full of heart. 💬 It turned into an honest conversation about the difference between the highlight reel and real-life progress, touching on self-worth, mental health, and staying grounded when life doesn’t go as planned.

Even without our guest, the chat turned into something powerful — real stories, real-time reflections, and reminders that your worth isn’t measured by your feed.

This live recap of Episode 3 is already available on our website, Buzzsprout, and YouTube, with snippets over on Instagram. Tap in and catch the real moments that made this one special.

🔎 Episode Highlights

• When plans change — showing up anyway
• The pressure of “highlight reel” culture
• Comparison, childhood conditioning & self-worth
• Real-time reflection and community connection
• Real progress over performance

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

"Called to This: Breaking Up with Imposter Syndrome"

✨ Episode Description:
Yoo!!… this one is a mirror moment.

In this season finale, we get deeply honest  in this episode, Braisha Owens Mount — wife, muva, and luxury denim designer — shares her journey of confronting imposter syndrome in every area of her life: as a creative, a wife, and a mother.

From shrinking her voice in the fashion world, to being lovingly checked by her husband in the kitchen, to facing the raw fears of new motherhood — Braisha takes us through the hard truths, the grace-filled corrections, and the divine reminders that called her back to herself.

If you’ve ever questioned your worth, doubted your calling, or waited for permission to fully step into who you are — this episode is your wake-up call.

You’ll walk away reminded that:
 💎 Being present isn’t enough without purpose
 💎 Your gifts deserve to be priced with clarity
 💎 God already called you — now it’s time to believe Him

Hit play, sis. It’s time to stop shrinking and start walking in your truth — because you’re already her.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

Podcast Description – Episode: “Motherhood Took My Mirror (And I Want It Back)”

Motherhood shifts everything—including the way we see ourselves. In this deeply personal episode, host Braisha Owens Mount—luxury denim designer, stylist, wife, and mama—opens up about the mirror motherhood tried to take from her. Not just the one on the wall, but the inner reflection of identity, confidence, and self-worth.

From the tug-of-war between fashion and wellness to the challenge of honoring a body that feels unfamiliar, Braisha invites listeners into an honest conversation about loss, reclamation, and redefining identity in the “Now season.”

This episode is for every woman who has ever looked in the mirror and felt a disconnect between who she was and who she’s becoming. Together, we’ll talk about:
 ✨ The subtle ways identity shifts after motherhood
 ✨ Fashion as both language and lifeline
 ✨ Learning to love the “now” instead of chasing the “before”
 ✨ Why it’s okay to feel powerful and lost at the same time

If you’ve ever wrestled with your reflection, this conversation is for you.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

Episode Description:
Motherhood transforms us in ways we never imagined — but with that transformation often comes a quiet grief for the woman we once were. In this deeply reflective episode, we explore the tender journey of honoring our past selves, navigating the shifting landscape of identity, and reclaiming who we are beyond the roles we play.

What You’ll Hear:

• Grieving the Past Self – Why it’s okay to mourn the version of you that existed before motherhood.
• Navigating Identity Loss – Understanding that your identity isn’t gone — it’s evolving.
• Healing & Reclaiming – Practical ways to integrate who you were with who you are becoming.

This isn’t about going back — it’s about moving forward with grace, strength, and self-compassion.

Join the conversation: What part of your pre-motherhood self do you miss most? How are you reclaiming your identity today?

Special Note: Stay tuned for our live session this Thursday with a guest who has walked this journey — and come out stronger.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

Ask Me: Wife, Mom, Designer = GOD

Hosted by Braisha Owens Mount — luxury denim designer, stylist, wife, mama, and unapologetic woman of faith.

This is where grace, grit, garments, and GOD meet.
Because couture, chaos, and calling? They can coexist.

In this episode, Braisha gets real about something rarely spotlighted:

✨ Feeling sexy after motherhood.

Bodies change. Confidence doesn’t have to. In fact, motherhood might just unlock a deeper, more powerful sense of sexy.

Together, we’ll explore:

• Redefining sexy beyond waistlines and validation
• Sensuality after motherhood — desire shifts, body image, intimacy, and the power of softness
• A heartfelt moment with her King on seeing your partner in a new light
• A confidence timeline from before baby to now
• Listener reflections on the moments they felt their most radiant post-baby

This isn’t about “bouncing back.”
 It’s about standing taller, walking in new skin, and realizing: You’re still her. Maybe even more.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

🎙️ Episode: Becoming the Muse — Designing for a Body Like Mine

In this deeply personal and empowering conversation, luxury denim designer and stylist Braisha Owens Mount opens up about the art — and the heart — of creating for a body like your own.

From celebrating curves to breaking free from beauty standards, Braisha shares how self-acceptance fuels her creativity, transforms her design process, and inspires a radical kind of confidence.

You’ll hear:

• How designing for your own body sparks authentic creativity
• Why body acceptance is a revolutionary act in today’s world
• Practical ways to become your own greatest muse
• A special announcement about this week’s live series with a guest who embodies radical self-love

Whether you’re a designer, a dreamer, or someone learning to love the skin you’re in, this episode is a reminder: you are the inspiration you’ve been waiting for.

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and get ready to see your body — and your creativity — in a whole new light.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

Episode Summary:

This week, Braisha Owens Mount is pulling the covers off hustle culture — and handing us the permission slip to pause.

In “Rest is the New Flex,” we unpack the truth behind burnout, the sacredness of rest, and why exhaustion should never be your evidence of worth. From emotional fatigue masked as ambition to the quiet power of saying “no,” this episode is a clarion call for women to stop performing and start preserving.

Inside this episode:

• Why burnout isn’t bravery — it’s branding gone wrong
• How to shift from hustle culture to holy hustle
• What it really means to treat rest as obedience, not laziness
• Practical steps to build a rest-forward life without guilt

✨ And don’t forget: We’re taking this convo LIVE on Thursday with a special guest who’s bringing bold truth about boundaries, restoration, and redefining what “doing enough” actually means.

📲 Tap in. Bring your journal. This one is for every woman tired of being tired.

Rest isn’t weakness — it’s the new flex.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.

🎙️ Episode Title: “When Priorities Clash: Choosing Me or Them”

Podcast Series: Life + Style Series | New Episodes Every Sunday and Lives every Thursday

Summary:

In this powerful and personal episode, Braisha Owens Mount — luxury denim designer, stylist, wife, and muva to a tiny CEO — gets real about the unspoken tug-of-war so many women face: choosing themselves or choosing everyone else.

From emotional labor and silent expectations to the guilt that creeps in when we even think about rest — this episode holds space for every woman who’s ever felt stretched too thin.

You’ll hear about:

• The hidden weight of motherhood and womanhood
• The truth about emotional labor and why it drains more than just energy
• How to silence guilt and redefine what it means to “choose you”
• Practical ways to reclaim time, presence, and peace — unapologetically

Because choosing you isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.

✨ PLUS: Don’t miss this Thursday’s Live Series episode featuring a special guest with powerful insight on navigating motherhood, burnout, and boundaries with boldness and grace.

Tune in now, sis. Your soul needs this one.

Support the show

If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML to donate or join the community on all socials

• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
  Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0
• Social Media – Follow @askme_godpod on all socials for full visuals as well as Youtube @askmewifemomdesignergod to keep the conversation going.