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SEASON 2 FINALE: Delays and Divine Timing

In this reflective and faith-centered episode, we unpack the weight of what we often call “delays” and challenge the way we’ve been taught to view timing in our lives. Is it truly a delay—or is it something deeper?

This conversation explores the difference between real, measurable delays and the emotional, spiritual pressure we place on ourselves when life doesn’t move as quickly as we expect. You’ll be invited to reconsider the narratives shaped by culture—where speed equals success—and instead lean into a perspective rooted in trust, surrender, and divine timing.

We dive into how releasing control over timelines can break the anxiety of feeling “behind,” and how what feels like a setback may actually be protection, preparation, or alignment. Through powerful imagery and honest reflection, this episode reminds you that surrender isn’t passive—it’s a posture of faith.

You’ll also hear encouragement around releasing internal pressure, trusting unseen growth, and choosing God’s pace over hustle culture. Because not everything in your life is meant to be rushed—including who you are becoming.

If you’ve been questioning your timing, feeling stuck, or wondering if you’ve missed your moment, this episode offers a grounding truth:

You’re not late. You’re not behind. And what’s meant for you is still unfolding—right on time.

Take a breath, release the pressure, and lean into the pace that was always meant for you.

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In this heartfelt episode, we’re diving into the sacred, often overlooked role of friendship and community in our everyday lives. Beyond curated moments and surface-level connections, this conversation explores what it really means to experience authentic, evolving relationships—especially through the shifting seasons of womanhood, motherhood, and personal growth.

We begin with a gentle wellness check-in, inviting you to reflect on your current state of connection—whether you feel supported, stretched thin, or quietly longing for something deeper. From there, we unpack the truth about changing friendships and how grace allows us to honor where we are without forcing relationships to remain the same.

This episode is a reminder that sisterhood isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline. We talk about the power of having women who uplift, pray, and stand beside you without competition or comparison. You’ll also hear an honest take on navigating jealousy, embracing discernment, and learning how to genuinely support other women from a place of security and alignment.

At its core, this conversation reframes community as a vital part of wellness—something that heals, restores, and strengthens us in ways we can’t achieve alone. And as always, we close with a meaningful reflection: who you surround yourself with matters just as much as how you show up in the world.

If you’re in a season of building, rebuilding, or simply longing for deeper connection, this episode will meet you right where you are.

Because friendship is ministry—and community is medicine. 💛🎧

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In this deeply personal and faith-centered episode, we’re redefining what it truly means to live a “soft life.” Because the truth is—there’s nothing soft about a life without rest.

This episode is your intentional wellness check-in. A moment to pause, reflect, and be honest about where you are—mentally, physically, and spiritually.

Rooted in Matthew 11:28, we explore the truth that rest is not a luxury or a reward—it’s an act of obedience. Through real-life reflections on burnout, motherhood, purpose, and pace, this conversation unpacks why exhaustion isn’t always about doing too much—but sometimes about doing what isn’t aligned.

We talk about:

•  Recognizing the signs of burnout and honoring your body 
•  Letting go of hustle culture and embracing intentional rest 
•  The connection between self-care, soul-care, and self-love 
•  Surrendering goals to stay aligned with God’s will 
•  Why slowing down is essential for clarity and purpose 
•  Protecting your peace through boundaries and discernment 

This episode is a reminder that:
 Rest is foundational.
 Alignment requires stillness.
 And peace is something you must steward intentionally.

If you’ve been feeling stretched, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself—this conversation will meet you right where you are.

Because you don’t have to exhaust yourself to prove you’re called.

Rest is not optional.
 Peace is not negotiable.

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This is a podcast for women who want to get dressed—and live—from a place of wholeness, self-love, and stewardship of their God-given gifts.

Hosted by luxury denim designer, stylist, and creative entrepreneur Braisha Owens Mount, this show explores the truth that getting dressed is never just about clothes—it’s about identity.

Here, we move beyond the pressure of “having it all” and instead focus on honoring who you are now while becoming who God is calling you to be.

Through real, unfiltered conversations, we explore:

• Faith and obedience
• Motherhood and marriage
• Creativity and entrepreneurship
• Identity, calling, and personal style

This is a space where grace meets grit, where style begins on the inside, and where you’re मुक्त to show up fully—without guilt, masks, or performance.

Because how you get dressed matters… and calling and chaos can coexist.

Purpose Has a Design Language

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What if you’re not creatively blocked—but being divinely redirected?

In this episode, Braisha shares a deeply personal perspective on creativity, faith, and obedience. She unpacks the difference between feeling creatively blocked versus critically blocked, and how fear, discipline, and the desire for sustainability can impact how we show up in our gifts.

This conversation explores:

• Why creativity doesn’t stop—but fear can interrupt execution
• Trusting God as the ultimate designer of your life and calling
• The tension between creating freely and creating to sustain yourself
• How to discern between divine assignments and distractions
• The impact of motherhood on creativity, timing, and intention
• Staying faithful to your calling in a world full of noise and comparison

If you’ve been feeling stretched, uncertain, or overwhelmed by what to do next—this episode will remind you that obedience matters more than outcomes.

Because purpose isn’t random.
It’s designed.

If this episode resonated with you and you’re navigating motherhood, marriage, leadership, and identity—I’ve created a space just for you.

Inside my community, we focus on fashion wellness: learning to get dressed and show up from a place of self-love, purpose, and faith.

Join us for community, clarity, and alignment.
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Ask Me: Wife, Mom, Designer = God is a podcast for women who want to get dressed—and live—from a place of wholeness, self-love, and stewardship of their God-given gifts.

Hosted by Braisha Owens Mount—luxury denim designer, stylist, wife, and mama—this podcast is rooted in one truth: getting dressed is about identity.

We talk faith, marriage, motherhood, creativity, and showing up fully—without guilt or performance.

No fluff. Just grace, grit, garments, and God.

Because how you get dressed matters—and calling and chaos can coexist.

Episode 4: Marriage in the Messy Middle

The “messy middle” of marriage is the part no one glamorizes.

It’s not the honeymoon phase.
 It’s not the “we’ve made it” season.

It’s the in-between—where love and exhaustion exist at the same time… where intimacy shifts, responsibilities grow, and partnership is tested in real life.

In this episode, I’m opening up about what the messy middle looks like in my own marriage:

•  Raising a toddler who still sleeps with us 
•  Navigating two careers 
•  Adjusting to life beyond just “us” 
•  Learning how to be parents while still choosing to be partners 

This season is stretching—but it’s also sacred. And the only way I’m holding it all together is God.

We talk about:

•  What unconditional love really looks like in real life 
•  How to communicate when both partners are tired 
•  Giving each other grace while learning parenthood together 
•  Redefining intimacy and romance after kids 
•  Choosing each other daily—even in small, consistent ways 

Because marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about intentionality.

Closing

If you’re in the messy middle, you’re not failing—you’re forming.

Stay willing.
 Stay gracious.
 Keep choosing love.

Share this with a mom who needs it—and ask yourself:
 What would it look like to give more grace in your marriage right now?

Until next time—
 Get dressed with intention. Move with confidence.

Don’t ask me how I’m doing it—ask God.

Community Invitation

If this episode resonates with you—if you’re navigating motherhood, marriage, leadership, and still trying to remember who you are—I’ve created a space just for you.

Inside my Skool community, we focus on fashion wellness—learning to get dressed and show up from a place of self-love, purpose, and faith.

If you’re craving clarity, alignment, and real community, I’d love to welcome you.
 You can find the link in the show notes.

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When you hear the word legacy, what comes to mind?

For most people, it’s money. Inheritance. Something material left behind.

But legacy is so much deeper than that.

In this episode, we’re redefining what legacy really means—and shifting the focus from what you leave to people, to what you leave in people.

Because legacy isn’t just about wealth.
It’s about your name.
Your presence.
The way people feel when they encounter you.

It’s who you are when no one is watching.

As a wife, mother, and entrepreneur, I’m realizing that legacy is being built in real time—through daily choices, quiet obedience, and the way I show up even when it’s hard.

In this conversation, we talk about:

• Why obedience matters more than perfection
• How your everyday life is teaching legacy—whether you realize it or not
• The difference between building a brand and becoming a person of impact
• Why who you’re being matters more than what you’re building
• The seeds you’ve already planted—and how to start watering them

This episode is a reminder that legacy isn’t something you wait to create “one day.”

It’s being built right now:

• In your choices
• In your alignment
• In your presence
• In the unseen moments

We also dive into what it looks like to build with longevity—not chasing trends, but walking in truth, purpose, and identity.

And if you’ve been craving deeper alignment, real community, and a space to grow into the woman you’re becoming, this episode is an invitation.

Reflection Question:
What are you planting today that will still speak for you tomorrow?

Join the Community:
If this message speaks to you—if you’re navigating motherhood, marriage, leadership, and rediscovering yourself—you’re not alone.

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Let’s Connect:
If this episode resonated with you, share it with another woman who needs this reminder.

And in the comments, I’d love to hear from you:
What does legacy mean to you?

Until next time—
Get dressed with intention, move with confidence, and don’t forget who you are becoming.

And remember…
Don’t ask me how I’m doing all of this—ask God.

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This is a podcast for women who want to get dressed—and live—from a place of wholeness, self-love, and stewardship of their God-given gifts.

Welcome to Ask Me: Wife, Mom, Designer = God. I’m Braisha Owens Mount—luxury denim designer, stylist, fashion executive, wife, and mama. A woman who believes getting dressed is never just about clothes. It’s about identity.

This podcast isn’t about having it all—it’s about honoring who you are right now, while becoming the woman God is shaping you to be. Here, style starts on the inside. We talk faith, motherhood, marriage, creativity, ambition, and showing up fully—without guilt, masks, or performance.

No fluff. No filters. Just real conversations about grace, grit, garments, and God.

Because calling and chaos can absolutely coexist.

✨ This episode is for the moms.

The ones living real life.

Getting dressed while nursing. One hand holding a baby, the other trying to put on mascara. Your husband takes the baby so you can finish getting ready—and the moment he cries, you stop, pick him back up, and start again.

In this episode, Braisha opens up about what style looks like in the season of toddler motherhood—when your body has changed, your schedule is unpredictable, and the version of you from before motherhood doesn’t quite fit anymore.

We talk about redefining personal style after becoming a mom, honoring the body that carried life, and learning how to show up confidently in the clothes that support your real life.

Because style doesn’t disappear when you become a mother—it evolves.

🎙️ In this episode, we talk about:

• Why obedience doesn’t always feel good before it feels fruitful
• Letting go of the version of yourself that no longer fits
• Dressing for the life you actually live now
• Finding confidence in comfort and functionality
• The power of structured yet relaxed fashion in motherhood
• Sets, oversized silhouettes, and accessories that keep style effortless
• Stepping into the identity of a fashion executive while navigating motherhood

This season of style is about comfort, confidence, and identity.

Comfort that supports your life.
Confidence that reflects your authority.
Identity that stays rooted—even while everything evolves.

Because getting dressed isn’t just about looking good.
It’s about stepping into who you are becoming.

👑 Join the conversation LIVE this Thursday.

We’re continuing this topic in our Live Series with a special guest.

📍Streaming on Instagram, YouTube, Linkedin, and Facebook
Set your reminder—you don’t want to miss this one.

Also check out our Obedience merch, because  this is a season of obedience. they're on sale the entire  month of March.

✨ A reminder before you go:

Your style doesn’t disappear when your life changes.

It evolves.

Whether you’re getting dressed with a baby on your hip, in five stolen minutes, or in front of a mirror that feels unfamiliar—remember this:

You’re still allowed to feel confident.
You’re still allowed to feel powerful.
You’re still allowed to take up space.

So tell me—

What are you wearing in this season?

If this conversation resonates with you—if you’re navigating motherhood, marriage, leadership, and still trying to remember who you are—I’ve created a space just for that.

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Hey boo! Welcome back to Ask Me: Wife, Mom, Designer = GOD — Season Two.

I’m Braisha Owens Mount—luxury denim designer, stylist, muva to a tiny CEO, wife to a KING, and most importantly, a walking prayer.

This space is where grace, grit, garments, and GOD meet—because couture, chaos, and calling really can coexist.

In this powerful Season Two opener, Braisha gets real about what evolution looks like when life shifts all at once. Year two of motherhood. Year one of marriage. Six months back in Akron. And a deeper level of commitment to her calling as a designer and woman of faith.

This episode is a raw and honest reflection on identity, discipline, and obedience—the kind that stretches you, humbles you, and grows you.

From navigating toddler meltdowns in Macy’s to learning how to pray over a marriage instead of trying to control it, Braisha shares what it means to lead her life from her true identity first: a child of God.

Season Two is about showing up fully in every role—wife, mom, designer—without losing the woman God created underneath the titles.

Tune in for real talk on:

✨ Why discipline is the bridge between obedience and alignment
✨ The spiritual reality of marriage and covering your family in prayer
✨ The humbling lessons of motherhood in year two
✨ Learning to pause, listen, and let God lead your reactions
✨ Showing up in your calling without losing your identity

Plus — we are LIVE every Thursday at 7PM with powerful conversations and special guests you don’t want to miss. 👀

This podcast isn’t about perfection.
It’s about presence, obedience, and evolution.

Because when you remember who you are in God, everything else begins to align.

✨ You’re not behind. You’re being built.

🎧 Hit play and walk with Braisha through Season Two—a season of obedience, growth, and becoming.

🔖 Use the hashtags #AskMeWifeMomDesignerGod #ObedienceSzn #GraceGritGarmentsGod to join the conversation.

And if someone asks how you’re doing?

Don’t ask me.

Ask God.

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Obedience Season crewneck: by Kissed by BOBoutique

 Striped collared shirt: from my mama; 

dress layered underneath the top: from Akira. 

Glow from God. 

Music by C Side. ✨

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🎙️ This Is Our Life Podcast — EP [#]: “Designing Yourself: Self-Acceptance, Body Love & Creativity” (Live Recap)

Every time you talk to Davia Williams Stevenson, you walk away with nuggets of wisdom that pour straight into your spirit. I’m so grateful for our connection — from her having me on her podcast to now joining me on mine. 🙌🏽

This episode is a little different — it’s a live recap of our conversation, giving you a raw and authentic look at how it went. We discussed self-acceptance, designing for yourself, body acceptance as a radical act, and becoming your own muse.

Already available on our website, Buzzsprout, and YouTube, with snippets on Instagram, this episode is packed with insight, inspiration, and practical takeaways you can start using today.

🔎 Episode Highlights

Self-Acceptance & Designing for Yourself

Body Acceptance as a Radical Act

Becoming Your Own Muse

• One small step for listeners to begin loving their bodies
• Wisdom for anyone struggling with self-love today

🎧 Watch/Listen now: https://youtube.com/@kissedbybo5719?si=JU9vltTjpu2jiN3f
 

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🎙️ This Is Our Life Podcast — EP9: “Grieving the Past Self: Motherhood, Identity & Healing” (Live Recap)

This episode is a little different — and a little extra special. 🌿

This  live episode, we were joined by Debraisha Toney Hale  

DeBraisha is an Educator, real estate agent, a Paparazzi consultant & sales pro, a motivational speaker, and an evangelist. She’s living proof that you can balance it all and thrive!

We dove deep into what it means to grieve your past self while growing into motherhood. This live conversation explored how identity shifts, how women silently navigate that sense of loss, and how healing and self-compassion bring us back home to who we truly are.

We Explore the multifaceted journey of motherhood, touching on themes of identity, self-compassion, and the importance of maintaining a relationship with God. They discuss the challenges of grieving one's past self while embracing the new roles of being a mother and a wife. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-reflection, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the chaos of parenting. Debracia shares her personal experiences and insights, encouraging mothers to reclaim their identities and prioritize their well-being.

Originally recorded LIVE on Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook, this raw, open-floor episode gave space for honesty — the kind that reminds us we’re not alone in our transitions.

Now that the live is over, we’re just recapping the heart of the convo and showing you how it all went down. 💬

You can catch the full replay now on our website, Buzzsprout, and YouTube, with snippet clips on Instagram — so check it out, share it, and tag us with your reflections.

🔎 Episode Focus:

• Grieving your past self after motherhood
• Navigating identity loss & rediscovering who you are
• Healing through self-compassion and boundaries
• Real stories from mothers learning to feel whole again

💭 Guiding Questions from the Conversation:

Segment 1: Grieving the Past Self

• When you became a mother, did you feel like you were grieving your old self?
• Why do you think this feelin

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• Join the  Style Lounge: Style Lounge helps women discover their style personality, build confidence, and express who they are through fashion, wellness, and community, on the Skool platform.
• Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode.
• Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton!
• Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful!
• Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML Every bit helps- okurr!
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