Ask Mom and Dad

In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and his co-host revisit previous conversations to tackle one of the most common — and personal — spiritual questions: How do we hear God’s voice? They explore the tension between practical wisdom and divine guidance, how cultural expectations can cloud spiritual clarity, and why following God is ultimately about relationship, not rigid rules. With honesty and humor, they invite you into a deeper journey of trust, discernment, and spiritual growth.

Hearing God’s Voice vs. Our Own Thoughts
The Role of Relationship in Hearing God
God’s Will vs. Cultural Norms
Practicing Faith in Practical Areas
Walking the Tension Between Wisdom and Trust

In this episode of Ask Mom & Dad, we dive into a deep (and surprisingly fun) discussion about money, savings, tithing, and trust. Should Christians build up savings accounts, or does that reveal a lack of faith? How do we balance being wise stewards with living generously? What does the Bible really say about tithing and offerings?Drawing from Proverbs 21, Psalm 112, and the teachings of Jesus, we explore the heart behind giving, the dangers of hoarding or spending carelessly, and how true wealth is measured. This isn’t about formulas—it’s about relationship. Join us as we wrestle with questions that touch every family, every church, and every paycheck.

In this episode of Ask, Mom and Dad, the conversation goes deeper into what it means to trust God in seasons of uncertainty. From shifting roles in ministry to personal identity and emotional growth, Greg and Tonya reflect on how to move forward when clarity is lacking and control is out of reach.
Topics include:

• Wrestling with God in grief and transition

• Letting go of what was in order to receive what’s next

• What to do when your calling feels unclear

• Learning to follow the Spirit’s lead without a roadmap

• Why biblical stories like Jacob’s still matter today

• The tension between needing answers and living by faith

Key takeaway: Sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is to keep walking—even when the way ahead feels uncertain—because God meets us in the wrestle and leads us with His whisper.

In this episode of Ask, Mom and Dad, we talk about what it means to face change with faith. From the history of a 180+ year-old church to parenting adult children, we reflect on how God uses transition to shape us.
Topics include:

• How churches adapt for future generations

• Trusting God’s guidance when the way isn’t clear

• Moving from fear to faith in leadership

• Walking with others through change—both in church and at home

This episode offers wisdom for anyone navigating a season of uncertainty, inviting you to lean into prayer, community, and the Word of God. It’s both a reminder and a challenge: the hardest part of change is often just stepping out the front door.
Key takeaway: Real transformation happens when we stop trying to recapture the past and instead trust God for what’s ahead.

In this episode of Ask, Mom and Dad, the conversation shifts from playful catch-up to real-life reflections on aging, responsibility, and how faith sustains us in hard seasons.
Topics include:

• Facing the realities of aging, health challenges, and caring for loved ones

• Finding gratitude in the middle of financial stress and daily pressures

• How God’s faithfulness carries us even when life feels overwhelming

• Encouraging grown children without controlling them

• The value of vulnerability in church and community life

• Staying grounded in Scripture and joy-filled in marriage through humor and prayer

Key takeaway: When life doesn’t slow down, faith doesn’t have to fall apart. God meets us in the pressure and provides what we need, one day at a time.

Episode Description:In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, we dive deep into the story of Jacob, exploring how wrestling with God reshapes our identity. What does it mean to embrace the limp that comes from an encounter with the Divine? How do we move from striving for identity to receiving it as a gift from God? Join us as we unpack Jacob’s transformation into Israel, the significance of family identity, and how our secure identity in Christ allows us to love God and others. Along the way, we share personal reflections, humor, and insights into how this story applies to our modern lives.This episode will leave you reflecting on one key question: Who are you when you know whose you are?

In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya discuss what it really means to live by faith, especially when circumstances or well-intentioned advice from others seem to conflict with one’s personal sense of God’s leading. They explore how “general wisdom” or common-sense advice—while often helpful—can sometimes clash with a believer’s individual calling or the specific way God may be directing them. Using scriptural examples, they illustrate that faith can require steps or decisions that look risky or even ill-advised to outside observers.They look at Job—whose friends offered standard spiritual “answers,” yet missed the unique work God was doing in Job’s life—and Paul, who was warned not to go to Jerusalem but felt strongly led by God to proceed. These stories highlight how each person’s faith journey can differ greatly, and how important it is to encourage one another in obedience to God rather than impose our own interpretations or cultural expectations. Overall, they emphasize that genuine Christian support means helping others stay close to Christ, trusting Him step by step, and resisting the urge to judge or rely solely on worldly reasoning.

In this episode, Greg and Tonya return from a long hiatus and catch everyone up on life happenings—from the busy holiday season on the road to the excitement of their son’s engagement. They discuss Greg’s new pastoral role in a small-town church, sharing the challenges and joys of stepping into ministry after a lengthy job search. The conversation then turns to a deeper reflection on worship, exploring how music, awe, gratitude, and personal connection with God all play pivotal roles in a believer’s life. They emphasize the importance of coming before God with humility and thanksgiving, whether through timeless hymns or modern praise songs. 

In this special episode, Greg and Tonya welcome their AI co-host, Ava, to discuss the unique challenges and principles of raising children with a Christian foundation in today’s culture. Ava plays the role of a curious interviewer, asking thoughtful questions about faith, parenting, and how Christian values influence family life. Tune in for an engaging conversation that explores the differences between secular and Christian parenting approaches, offering insights and practical advice for parents navigating the complexities of modern society.

In this episode, we talk about the challenges we face as Christian parents trying to raise kids who stay true to their identity in a culture that pushes back against biblical values.  We discuss insights from real-life situations, like how cultural shifts are affecting family dynamics, and how we’re trying to guide our kids through these identity challenges. We talk about the dangers of letting culture define who we are, and why it’s so important to root our identity in what God says about us. Plus, we explore how to balance protecting our kids from harmful influences while also preparing them to think critically about the world around them.
We keep it practical, encouraging fellow parents to build strong, biblical foundations early on, helping our kids develop a sense of belonging and purpose rooted in God's love. We chat about the cultural pressures that can shake this identity and share our thoughts on how Christian families can stick together and stay grounded in their faith.