Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.  She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.  Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years. She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life. Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.&nbsp; She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.&nbsp; Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Ask A Man 06 Oct '26: 'Our financial downfall has broken our relationship.'

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

Ask A Man: GBV Roundtable

Anonza is sick and tired of his abusive serial cheater girlfriend

Serial Cheater

Anonza's man doesn't go down and her neighbor is tempting her by offering to do what her husband won't...

He doesn't go down

Anonza is the breadwinner but each time she is away her man brings another woman into their home. She always finds out...

Is it love or is he using me?

Anonza misses her ex boyfriend but has a new bae

Love back

Anonza is 28 years old and is dating a woman 5 years her senior with 2 kids and another woman who is a year older than him with four kids...

Between a rock and a hard place

Anonza's man changed it up on her and went from wanting to lobola her to wanting to focus on his rap career

SKrrr skrrr boys

Anonza wants to turn a new leaf and give up her bad bad lifestyle

I'm a bad bad

Anonza is confused, her bae has recently started to introduce her as his wife but they are not married

My wife

Anonza's man is unemployed and he is making no effort to improve his situation which is putting a huge strain on Anonza

Bare minimum lover

Anonza took a paternity test and the results are very conflicting

Who is the father?

The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man.

Society & Culture

News

The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man.

The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man.&nbsp;

Share #AskAMan

Sign up to save your podcasts

#AskAMan

#AskAMan episodes

About #AskAMan