Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.  She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.  Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years. She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life. Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.&nbsp; She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.&nbsp; Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Ask A Man 06 Oct '26: 'Our financial downfall has broken our relationship.'

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

Ask A Man: GBV Roundtable

Can anonymous reignite the spark back into the marriage?

Panty or no panty

Anonymous man has fathered child outside of the relationship.Will she ever be able to trust this man again?

Chief administrator anonymous

Will anonymous keep chasing his married boyfriend?

The chickens have come to roost

Will anonymous break the spell that he is under?

The Muthi Chronicals

Anonymous wants to know whether she should continue to investigate,snoop,keep tabs on this man or just move on. Should she continue being Deborah Patta?

Private Investigator or Lover

anonymous would like to know whether to choose her lover over her child, he doesn't want to assist her financially and treats her child like an outcast

Vat en Sit

when inlove with both babydaddy's, how do you choose one before its too late

in love with both baby daddy's

Annonymous wants to know if 8 months is enough for an abusive partner to change

asking family for forgiveness

Should she tell the man that she loves dearly about her fling with his father?

Loving the blessers son

should annonymous give his wife a divorce?

Divorce or not to Divorce

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