Asking for a Neighbor

Asking for a Neighbor

By Brad Holcomb, Shawn McCorkle and Skye DaySociety & CultureHealth & FitnessReligion & Spirituality
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  • Truth, Trust, and the Traps of Conspiracy Culture (Part 1)

    Episode Title: Truth, Trust, and the Traps of Conspiracy Culture

    Episode Number: 007

    Guest: Taylor Locke / Brad Holcomb

    Episode Summary

    We are diving deep into a heavy but increasingly common question "asking for a neighbor" this week: How should Christians navigate the rapid rise of dark conspiracy theories when they start bleeding into ideologies like neo-Nazism and causing serious friction in marriages? Skye, Brad, and guest Taylor Locke discuss moving away from the addiction of the virtual echo chamber and grounding ourselves back into real-life community, biblical truth, and the calling God has placed right in front of us.

    Chapters / Timestamps

    00:00 – Intro & The "Neighbor" Question of the Week

    Skye kicks off the episode with Taylor subbing in for Shawn. They unpack a preliminary "neighbor" question about the boundaries of generosity, open-handedness, and the wisdom of stewardship.

    05:15 – The Core Question: Christians and Conspiracy Theories

    Brad introduces the primary topic: how to handle the modern obsession with dark conspiracy theories, specifically touching on real-world situations where men are falling into anti-Semitic and neo-Nazi rhetoric, creating division in their homes.

    10:42 – Why We Fall Into the Trap: Biological and Cultural Hooks

    The guys discuss the human nature of "doom scrolling" and seeking closed answers. Taylor points out that since 2020, we live in a full-blown "conspiracy culture" fueled by online personalities and an algorithmic world that replaces shared culture.

    16:30 – Villainization of Manhood and the Fatherless Internet

    Brad and Taylor explore why men specifically gravitate toward these spaces. A lack of earthly fatherhood and a mainstream culture that villainizes masculinity drives younger generations to online platforms like Twitter looking for strong figures, direction, and purpose—often leading them down dangerous paths.

    24:15 – Scriptural Deep Dive: 1 Timothy and Ancient Myths

    Taylor takes the team into 1 Timothy, drawing a parallel between modern conspiracy rabbit holes and the "myths and endless genealogies" that Paul warned Timothy to steer clear of because they promote vain speculation rather than love and a clear conscience.

    32:40 – Practical Takeaways: Diagnostic Questions & Community

    Taylor offers key diagnostic questions to gauge your attention span: What is making you the most angry? What are you most passionate about? Brad highlights the vital importance of real, flesh-and-blood community over virtual validation, alongside keeping a vertical focus on the holiness of God rather than a strictly horizontal focus on world affairs.

    41:10 – Closing Thoughts: Prioritizing Your Marriage & Outro

    Brad shares a direct word for any husband letting online research cause strife in his marriage, calling it spiritual warfare and urging men to repent, turn off the feeds, and choose their wives over the internet. Skye outlines a potential Part 2 as they close out the show.

    Key Verses & Quotes
    • 1 Timothy 1:3–4: "...charge certain persons not to teach any different doctrine, nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies, which promote speculations rather than the stewardship from God that is by faith."
    • Notable Quote [15:10]: "The more you dive into these things... it's a kind of deconstruction that says, man, the Jews are just behind everything that’s evil. And suddenly it warps your heart in such a way that there is hate there now instead of like a desire to pray for your enemies..." – Taylor Locke
    • Notable Quote [22:05]: "You can’t make an argument that consuming your mind with conspiracies or internet research on a particular group or a particular time period is actually enriching you and helping you love and worship Jesus Christ more." – Brad Holcomb
    • Notable Quote [27:50]: "God’s given you responsibility over a wife. And there’s better ways... you’re not an oracle, dude. You’re absolutely not going to have any effect on any of this stuff... prioritize your wife over all of this stuff. None of this stuff is worth it." – Brad Holcomb
    • Resources & Links
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        1 hr 1 min
      • Can you believe in Aliens if you believe the Bible?
        Episode Summary

        In this episode, we dive into the cultural fascination with government UFO disclosures, a surprising take on outer space from C.S. Lewis, and how a terrifying Texas thunderstorm can actually teach us the difference between dreadful and delightful fear. We are asking for a neighbor: If God is completely sovereign over the vast unknowns of the universe and the tragic storms of life, how do we anchor our hearts in His goodness instead of being paralyzed by fear?

        Chapters / Timestamps
        • 00:00 – Intro & The "Neighbor" Question of the Week
          • 05:40 – Government Disclosures & Psyops
            • 11:15 – The C.S. Lewis Trajectory (Space & The Image of God)
              • 18:50 – Humanity: The Only Broken Species?
                • 23:10 – Microevolution vs. Dystopian Timelines
                  • 31:45 – Deep Dive: The Fear of God (Dread vs. Delight)
                    • 42:10 – Discerning God in the Midst of Tragic Storms
                      • 54:30 – Narnia, Book Recs, and Closing Thoughts
                      • Key Verses & Quotes
                        • Isaiah 6: The foundational scene where the layers of the unseen realm are pulled back, revealing a holy God so otherworldly pure that even sinless angels cover their eyes.
                        • James 1:19: "Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger..."
                        • Notable Quote [00:19:12]: "I think we are the one species in the universe not doing what we are designed to do because we've rebelled against God, and that's the curse of sin." — Brad Holcomb
                        • Notable Quote [00:33:45]: "He’s not trembling because he’s terrified of his wife. He’s trembling because of delight. He’s so delighted to be with the object of his affection that his body is responding to it. That’s the fear of the Lord for the Christian." — Brad Holcomb
                        • Notable Quote [00:46:15]: "In moments of tragedy, you can uphold a good, big God theology... but as one Christian to another human, our job is to weep with those who weep, not explain everything." — Brad Holcomb
                        • Resources & Links
                          • Redemption Hill Church: https://www.redemptionhillfw.org/
                          • Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redemptionhillfw/
                          • Mentioned Essay: Religion and Rockets by C.S. Lewis (Found in The World's Last Night and Other Essays)
                          • Mentioned Books:
                            • The Pastor by Eugene Peterson
                            • Heaven by Randy Alcorn
                            • Chaos: Charles Manson, the CIA, and the Secret History of the Sixties by Tom O'Neill
                            • Leadership on the Line by Martin Linsky and Ronald A. Heifetz
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                              51 min
                            • How do you walk with someone who is going through deconstruction? | Asking for a Neighbor

                              [This week a neighbor asked us how we should walk with someone who is struggling with their faith or going through deconstruction]

                              In this episode of Asking for a Neighbor, we tackle three profound cultural and spiritual dynamics affecting modern Christian life: technology, youth gambling, and faith deconstruction. We begin by examining whether constant information exposure and AI are harming our critical thinking and emotional health. From there, we transition into a moral and regulatory discussion on the rapid rise of mobile sports betting among young adults and the vital role of parental discipleship. Finally, we explore how to patiently, prayerfully, and curiously walk alongside a friend or loved one who is walking away from their faith. How can we maintain deep relationships and speak truth in love without falling into the trap of manipulation?

                              Chapters / Timestamps
                              • 00:00 – Intro & The Question from a Neighbor: Overexposure to Information. A candid discussion on whether the modern 24-hour news cycle, doom scrolling, and constant information inundation are driving unprecedented levels of stress and anxiety compared to previous generations.
                              • 05:12 – Technology, AI, and the Human Soul: Evaluating the shift from critical thinking and manual skill sets to outsourced cognitive labor. The hosts unpack the pastoral framework of "Receive, Reject, Redeem" when engaging with technological advancements.
                              • 12:45 – Sports Betting & Parental Discipleship: Navigating the rapid legalization and societal ramifications of online gambling. The pastors distinguish between true investing (building objective value) and gambling, emphasizing that while government regulation has its place, the home and the church must serve as the primary moral anchors.
                              • 20:30 – Scriptural Deep Dive on Deconstruction: Defining the spectrum of faith deconstruction. The hosts contrast healthy theological refinement (reconstructing around truth) with total apostasy (abandoning core Christian doctrines like the Trinity and the Resurrection), grounding the discussion in Hebrews 6, 1 John 2, and the Parable of the Soils.
                              • 32:15 – Practical Takeaways for Walking with a Deconstructing Friend: Utilizing Proverbs 20:5 to draw out the deep waters of a friend's heart through slow, prayerful, and curious question-asking rather than defensive argumentation.
                              • 40:00 – Closing Thoughts & Outro: Embracing Christ's love for His broken bride, the church, and a robust 2-minute presentation of the Gospel message from Creation to Restoration.
                              • Key Verses & Quotes

                                Proverbs 20:5: "The purpose in a man's heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out."

                                1 John 2:19: "They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us."

                                Notable Quote: "Being a good friend oftentimes is this very slow, patient, prayerful, curious, drawing out of these deep waters within their heart in order to help them in a more helpful way... It allows stress to diminish from you because you no longer feel the weight of having to navigate the conversation a certain way." — Brad

                                Notable Quote: "As we keep our eyes on Jesus, that actually grows our love and affection for the church, as broken and flawed as the church is... because we see how much Jesus loves his bride." — Shawn

                                Resources & Links
                                • Redemption Hill Church: https://www.redemptionhillfw.org/
                                • Mentioned Book: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
                                • Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redemptionhillfw/
                                • Who was the guy that changed our news forever? William Randolph Hurst
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                                  1 hr 15 min
                                • Should Christians Gamble?

                                  Is gambling a sin, or is it a matter of Christian liberty? Today, we’re "asking for a neighbor" about the morality of modern sports betting and prediction markets, while diving deep into a difficult theological question: How do we hold our active responsibility to repent alongside God’s total sovereignty over our salvation? In other words…do we Repent ‘enough’?

                                  Chapters / Timestamps

                                  00:00 – Intro: The Great Pickle vs. Cucumber Debate

                                  04:42 – The "Neighbor" Question: Christianity and Gambling

                                  07:20 – Context: Legal Shifts, Technology, and Prediction Markets

                                  11:15 – Is Gambling a Christian Liberty Issue?

                                  14:30 – Stewardship: Time, Money, and the "Empty Thrill"

                                  18:10 – Why Men? Testosterone, Risk, and the Search for Adventure

                                  25:40 – Topic B: Is My Repentance "Repentant Enough"?

                                  30:15 – Justification vs. Sanctification: Distinction Without Separation

                                  34:50 – Scriptural Deep Dive: Worldly Grief vs. Godly Sorrow

                                  39:10 – Practical Takeaways: John Owen and the Mortification of Sin

                                  46:25 – Sovereignty vs. Responsibility: Psalm 51 and the Character of God

                                  53:00 – Closing Thoughts & The Power of Community Prayer

                                  Key Verses & Quotes
                                  • 2 Chronicles 7:14: "If my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear them from heaven and I will forgive their sin and heal their land."
                                  • Psalm 51: A scriptural blueprint of true repentance written by David after his sin with Bathsheba.
                                  • Notable Quote [23:18]: "One look at sin and 10 looks at Jesus."
                                  • Notable Quote [38:52]: "Always be killing sin or it’ll be killing you." – John Owen
                                  • Notable Quote [46:00]: "Children born after 1995 are overprotected from the real world and underprotected from the virtual one." – The Anxious Generation
                                  • Resources & Links
                                    • Redemption Hill Church: https://www.redemptionhillfw.org/
                                    • Featured Book: The Mortification of Sin by John Owen
                                    • Featured Book: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
                                    • Mentioned Article: Jim Essien (The Paradox) on gambling and testosterone
                                    • Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/redemptionhillfw/
                                    • Join the ConversationGot a question you’re "asking for a neighbor"?
                                      • Visit us in Fort Worth: Sundays at 10 AM | 6301 Granbury Rd Fort Worth TX, 76133
                                      • 1 hr 7 min
                                      • What happened on the Cross?

                                        Episode Summary: Was the death of Jesus merely a historical tragedy or a moral example? In this episode, we tackle the "neighbor" question: "What actually happened to Jesus on the cross, and why does it matter for us today?" We explore the difference between viewing the crucifixion as a mere "good example" versus the life-altering reality of substitutionary atonement.

                                        Chapters / Timestamps

                                        00:00 – Intro & The "Neighbor" Question of the Week: Public bathroom etiquette and practically sharing the Gospel.

                                        05:12 – Relational Evangelism: Is there a set timeline for sharing your faith with a neighbor?

                                        12:45 – The Substitution: Unpacking the core biblical truth of "God in our place."

                                        20:30 – Scriptural Deep Dive: A look at 1 Peter 2 and 2 Corinthians 5:21.

                                        32:15 – Historical Evidence: Addressing skepticism, the empty tomb, and the radical change in the Apostles.

                                        40:00 – Practical Takeaways: Why the resurrection is transformational, not just informational.

                                        48:00 – Closing Thoughts & Outro

                                        Key Verses & Quotes

                                        • 2 Corinthians 5:21: "For he made him, Jesus, who knew no sin, to be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God in him."
                                        • 1 Peter 3:18: "For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God."
                                        • Notable Quote: "[15:30] - 'Jesus took our place for our sins on the cross. And in exchange, when we trust in him, we are given his righteousness.'" — Brad Holcomb
                                        • Notable Quote: "[32:20] - 'What hasn't been assumed can't be healed.'" — Athanasius (quoted by Shawn McCorkle)

                                        • Resources & Links

                                          • Redemption Hill Church: https://www.redemptionhillfw.org/
                                          • Mentioned Book: Christianity and Liberalism by J. Gresham Machen
                                          • Mentioned Series: The Chosen
                                          • Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/redemptionhillfw/

                                          • Join the Conversation: Got a question you're "asking for a neighbor"?

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                                            2. Special Services: Good Friday at 6:00 PM and Easter Sunday at 10:00 AM

                                              1 hr 9 min
                                            3. How do Christians disagree without dividing?

                                              In this episode, we tackle one of the most pressing questions for Christians living in the information age: How do we engage with culture, politics, and current events without losing our witness? Brad and Shawn dive into the concept of "biblical anthropology," the wisdom of logging off social media, and how to tell the difference between closed-handed theological truths and open-handed cultural debates

                                              Chapters / Timestamps
                                              • (00:00) – What is your Bedtime Routine?
                                              • (06:30) – Back to Basics: What is the Gospel and What is a Christian?
                                              • (09:45) – Listener Question: Engaging Current Events as a Believer
                                              • (11:00) – Is it Wise to Engage Online? (And taking the log out of your own eye)
                                              • (16:45) – Biblical Anthropology: Seeing Every Person as an Image Bearer
                                              • (26:30) – Discerning Between Close-Handed vs. Open-Handed Issues
                                              • (30:30) – Practical Takeaways (Brad’s 30-Second Summary)
                                              • (31:30) – Closing Thoughts & Galatians 5
                                              • Key Verses & Quotes
                                                • Colossians 4: Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.
                                                • Matthew 7: Taking the log out of your own eye before taking the speck out of your brother's eye.
                                                • Galatians 5:13-15: "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another..."
                                                • Notable Quote: "22:40 - 'The primary goal of any engagement with another person who's not yet a Christian is not to convince them politically of your side. It's that they know Jesus.'" - Brad
                                                • Notable Quote: "14:00 - 'Am I wanting them to be conformed to the image of Christ as my primary motive internally? That changes the way that you think about it from just a, 'I need to tell this person they're wrong...''" - Shawn
                                                • Resources & Links
                                                  • Redemption Hill Church: https://www.redemptionhillfw.org/
                                                  • Mentioned Book/Article: [Link]
                                                  • Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/redemptionhillfw/
                                                  • Join the Conversation

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                                                    1 hr 8 min
                                                  • What is Lent and why do we observe it?
                                                    Episode Summary

                                                    In the kickoff episode of Asking for a Neighbor, pastors Brad and Matt Allen tackle a question often shrouded in tradition and confusion: What is Lent? Moving past the idea that it is strictly a "Catholic obligation," they explore Lent as a 40-day invitation to return to the Lord. From a debate on the greatest raw-talent musicians to the theological "why" behind fasting, this conversation refocuses the season on communion with God rather than legalistic checklists.

                                                    Chapters / Timestamps

                                                    (00:00) Intro: Welcome to the podcast & the heart of Redemption Hill.

                                                    (01:00) Icebreaker: The greatest raw-talent artist alive (according to Matt Allen)

                                                    (05:40) Defining Lent: Returning to the Lord through Joel 2.

                                                    (09:15) History & Hesitation: Why do Protestants/Baptists observe Lent?.

                                                    (12:30) Position vs. Experience: Why Lent won't make you "more right" with God.

                                                    (15:45) Personal Rhythms: Fasting from food, social media, and screens.

                                                    (20:10) The Goal of Communion: Life lived before the face of God.

                                                    (23:50) Modern Distractions: Screens, the news cycle, and professional pressure.

                                                    (28:15) Joy with His people: Joy and spiritual sustenance in the wilderness.

                                                    (33:20) How to Start: Practical advice for first-time observers.

                                                    (37:45) The Gospel: The "Exchange" and finding our identity in Christ.

                                                    (42:00) Outro: Repenting, believing, and an invitation to the Lent season

                                                    Key Verses & Quotes
                                                    • Joel 2:12-13: "Return to me with all your heart, with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning; and rend your hearts and not your garments."
                                                    • 2 Corinthians 5:21: "For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God."
                                                    • The Big Idea: "Lent is when we fast from things to have more of Jesus."
                                                    • On Legalism: "Anytime where the things we do precede our identity in Christ... that order of operations gets flipped, we start living out in an unhelpful way."


                                                    • Resources & Links
                                                      • Redemption Hill Church: https://www.redemptionhillfw.org/
                                                      • Mentioned Book/Article: N/A
                                                      • Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/redemptionhillfw/
                                                      • Join the Conversation

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                                                        Visit us in Fort Worth: 10AM | 6301 Granbury Rd Fort Worth, TX  76133

                                                        51 min
                                                      • The Cause For Life (feat. Cindy Leach)

                                                        In this episode, Pastor Shawn, Pastor Brad, and Taylor are joined by Cindy Leach, the director of the Fort Worth Pregnancy Center. Together they discuss the competing worldviews around the issue of abortion in our culture as well as what the church can do to be involved in championing the cause for life in our communities. 

                                                        1 hr
                                                      • The Bible and Gender Identity

                                                        In this episode, Pastor Shawn, Pastor Brad, and Taylor discuss gender and gender identity from a biblical worldview and walk through ethical scenarios that Christ followers may encounter along the way. 

                                                        1 hr 7 min

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