#AskingForAFriend

#AskingForAFriend

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#AskingForAFriend episodes

  • Ep. 56: What’s in a name?
    Today’s episode comes from John Backman (she/her). John, who also goes by Janelle, shares about why she believes names are important & why it’s important to use the names that people prefer. For trans and gender non-conforming people, names are more than just a way to differentiate one person from another: they often reflect a deeper sense of who they are and the way they self-identify. Referring to someone by the name they prefer is a way to show that you care and respect that person’s sense of identity.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    6 min
  • Ep. 55: Do you think Side A churches can be a place where Side B LGBTQIA+ people can flourish?
    Today’s episode comes from Dr. Ben Huelskamp (he/they). As a gay Christian who is a part of progressive church spaces, Ben shares his thoughts about how those spaces can be welcoming & edifying for LGBTQIA+ Christians who hold a traditional sexual ethic.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    4 min
  • Ep. 54: Why do you not identify as bisexual if you are attracted to men and also married to a woman?
    In today’s episode, Aaron Munson (he/him) shares about his experiences as a gay man who is married to a woman. Because of his uniques story & experiences, Aaron shares about why he does or does not use certain labels. While labels can be helpful for some LGBTQIA+ folks, sometimes the complexity of people’s individual experiences means that typical labels don’t always fit.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    4 min
  • Ep. 52: Is it healthy for young people to experiment with different expressions of gender & sexuality?
    In today’s episode, our panelist Kelly Crouch (they/them) encourages those who care for & interact with children and young people to allow experimentation with different expressions of gender identity & sexuality. Kelly shares about their own personal experiences growing up in an environment that didn’t allow for much diversity of expression and the difficulties that produced in their life as a young person and now as an adult.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    4 min
  • Ep. 51: How can the church better support celibate people?
    Today’s episode features Carson Sotelo (he/his), a gay celibate Christian. Carson shares his thoughts about how the church can live more like a family & support those who are pursuing celibacy.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    5 min
  • Ep. 49: What do you think the impact of purity culture has been on LGBTQIA+ people?
    Today’s episode comes from our panelist, Liz Munson (she/her), a non-binary lesbian. As an LGBTQIA+ person who grew up in Christian spaces, Liz received many confusing & harmful messages related to expectations around sex, marriage and gender roles that she has had to process now in her adult life.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    6 min
  • Ep. 48: My pastor has said that my gay son’s identity "doesn't align with scripture." How do I respond?
    In today’s episode, our panelist Melinda Garza-Moran (she/her), the parent of LGBTQIA+ children, shares her advice on responding to someone whose beliefs about LGBTQIA+ issues are contrary to your own. She gives practical tips for studying the Bible and engaging in productive conversation with people of differing beliefs.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    11 min
  • Ep. 47: What is the constructive response when my child asks me "Is that person a boy or a girl?"
    Today’s episode comes from our panelist Kelly Crouch (they/them), a bisexual and genderqueer Christian. Kelly shares about how they would recommend responding when a child or someone else is curious about a person’s gender, in a way that helps that person consider their own ideas about what it means to be a certain gender.

    To submit your own questions for our panel & see what other questions we've answered, visit www.loveboldly.net/askingforafriend
    3 min

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Do you have questions regarding faith and sexual orientation or gender identity, but avoid asking them for fear of saying the wrong thing, sounding insensitive, or coming across as unloving?
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