Melissa Febos is the author of the critically acclaimed memoir, Whip Smart and Abandon Me . Her work has been widely anthologized and appears in publications including T in House, Granta, The Kenyon Review, Prairie Schooner, Glamour, Guernica, Post Road, Salon , and The New York Times . She serves on the Board of Directors of VIDA: Women in Literary Arts, the PEN America Membership Committee, and co-curated the Manhattan reading and music series, Mixer, for nine years. She curates literary