This is the season finale of Assorted Immigrant Stories. Listener discretion is advised, as we will be discussing sensitive topics such as pregnancy loss, miscarriages, IVF (In Vitro Fertilization), and IUI (Intrauterine Insemination).

In this powerful two-part finale, Angela shares her healing journey through the pain of pregnancy loss. She opens up about the entire process—grieving, journaling, and writing heartfelt letters to her children as part of her healing.

Angela, a courageous woman from Zambia, talks about the cultural silence around miscarriage in our community. Traditionally, a woman is considered complete only when she is married and has children. But times are changing. I even conducted a small survey with my high school friends in our WhatsApp group and found that perspectives have evolved. Many now support women who choose not to marry or have children—whether by choice or due to circumstances.

Angela Dedelkovic also shares her Coming to America journey, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how writing helped her reclaim her voice.

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In this special Q&A episode of Assorted Immigrant Stories, I dive into a mix of questions you've sent me over time, from WhatsApp, DMs, and emails. No particular order, no filters — just honest answers to real questions.

🎧 Topics include:

These aren’t the top questions — just randomly selected 😄

If your question isn’t in this one, stay tuned , I just might answer it in the next Q&A next season .

Guests: Prisscah V, Mutsah M, Kola, Dr. Musoma

In this powerful episode, we unpack the concept of Black Tax — the financial expectations placed on immigrants by families back home. Rooted in love, culture, and care, this sense of duty is deeply embedded in African values. Giving back often brings pride and meaning. But what happens when cultural expectations clash with the realities of living in America?

We explore:

Should we help immediately or first understand America?

What happened to paying it forward?

When does helping turn into dependency?

Is lifestyle creep reducing our ability to give?

Why are needs sometimes exaggerated?

Can support be mutual — check-ins, indigenous food, or simply a “hello”?

This honest conversation brings warmth, laughter, tension, and a collective agreement: we love to give, but not at the cost of our well-being.

Quote of the Episode:

Book Mentioned: Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud

🔥 Real talk for real people. Part 2 is a must.

In this episode, I speak with Reuben Ndjerareou—a community leader, educator, and the visionary behind Speak African Series. He is also the host of The Think African Talks (TATT TALKS). Reuben shares his powerful, cross-continental journey: born in Chad, raised in the U.S. from ages 4 to 12, then sent back to Chad when assimilation became difficult. He later returned to the U.S. for high school and college, secured Optional Practical Training (OPT), but the company he worked for collapsed, cutting his plans short.

Reuben returned to Chad, eventually pursued a master’s degree in the U.S., and has since worked in Chad, Zambia, and the United States. He also lived as a refugee in Cameroon—an experience that shaped his worldview.

We discuss the importance of African think tanks, the struggles of international students, and Reuben’s commitment to shifting African narratives through storytelling and dialogue. Catch him every Thursday at 8 PM EST on LinkedIn, YouTube, and Facebook for TATT TALKS.

Links mentioned :

https://www.linkedin.com/company/kwanda/

Aseshi University :

https://g.co/kgs/kg3W9NZ

uwec.edu

bemidjistate.edu 

Some of the few other schools that offer In State Tuition in the US :

Texas A&M University-Kingsville, Texas A&M University-College Station, University of Texas at Dallas, University of Texas at Arlington, and University of Texas at Austin. Additionally, Minot State University,Dickinson State University, and Northern State University also offer this benefit. 

 Reviewing Americanah:A Conversation on Race, Identity, and Immigrant Stories

Americanah was the first novel I read that authentically captured the immigrant experience—and it reignited my mission to amplify immigrant voices through storytelling.

Kay and I first conected through afros and audios and became a guest on her show Pondering Thoughts, sharing my immigrant journey from Zambia( Season 3 episode 7).  During our chat, we realized we both loved Americanah, and together with Stella, we planned this rich discussion on race, identity, relationships, and cultural adjustment in America.

All three of us re-read the novel for this episode and discovered even more powerful insights. Whether you’re a fan of Adichie, interested in immigration narratives, or exploring Black identity in America, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I chat with Ben-Collins, CEO of BC Advantage LLC, an AI-powered company helping people and organizations connect with their purpose through innovative technology. Born and raised in Cameroon, Ben-Collins shares his powerful story of immigrating to the U.S., launching his business, and now contributing to the Global AI Summit in Rwanda and Zambia. A passionate advocate for community, equity, and impact, Ben-Collins offers actionable insights on how anyone can leverage artificial intelligence for career growth, entrepreneurship, and positive change.

Books Shared by Ben-Collins

Start with Why by Simon Sinek

The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale

My Recommendations:

Behold the Dreamers by Imbolo Mbue

How Beautiful We Were by Imbolo Mbue

Movie Recommendation:

The Fisherman’s Diary (available on Netflix)

Learn more about Ben-Collins work:

https://www.bcadvantagellcs.com

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Stella as we review Behold the Dreamers by Imbolo Mbue—a powerful novel about immigration, ambition, and the pursuit of the American Dream. As immigrants ourselves—Stella from Kenya and me from Zambia—now American citizens and nurses, we found so much of our own story reflected in the characters of Neni and Jende. We share our personal journeys, including the career dreams we left behind (pharmacy and finance) and how becoming nurses sometimes felt like taking a step back to move forward. This conversation blends book analysis with real-life immigrant experiences, exploring identity, sacrifice, and resilience.

Splitting the bill with my roomates helped me pay for my high tuition fees. In this episode I share my personal experience of having roommates and how it helped me save money on housing costs especially as a new comer. 

Join us as we shine a light on Zambian podcasts and podcasters! Inspired by Africa Podcast Day , we discuss the state of podcasting in Zambia and the diaspora with Pastor Nathan, Chulu, and Reuben. Tune in for our top Zambian podcast picks and recommendations for other african podcasters.