Astrology Magic Podcast

What if the secret to a long-lasting relationship isn’t avoiding conflict, agreeing on everything, or constantly keeping your partner happy?

After 10 years together, Rachel and Ryan have found themselves returning to the honeymoon phase again and again. But not because their relationship has been perfect. In fact, it’s been quite the opposite.

In this episode of the Astrology Magic Podcast, Rachel brings Ryan on for a conversation about love, relationships, and the deeper dynamics that have allowed them to continually reinvent their relationship while maintaining both deep intimacy and individual sovereignty.

Inspired by Venus retrograde in Libra, they explore what it means to create balance in a relationship without sacrificing your own needs, why letting things get messy can actually deepen intimacy, and how learning to recognize your own ego and projections can completely transform the way you experience love.

They share personal stories about navigating differences in sexual desires, holding boundaries without building resentment, challenging conventional relationship expectations, and learning to respond rather than react.

This isn’t about telling you how your relationship should look. It’s about inviting you to question the stories you’ve been told about love and discover what authentic relating looks like for you.

In this episode, we explore:

* Why Rachel and Ryan keep finding their way back to the honeymoon phase after 10 years together.

* The relationship between intimacy and sovereignty, and why you don’t have to sacrifice one for the other.

* Why constantly compromising to keep the peace can create resentment.

* How holding your boundaries can actually create deeper connection.

* Navigating differences in sexual desires without pressuring your partner or abandoning yourself.

* Why sometimes the biggest breakthroughs in relationships happen when you’re willing to let things get messy.

* The role of ego in relationships and how conflict can become an opportunity for growth.

* Why responding instead of reacting is one of the most important relationship skills you can develop.

* How to recognize your own projections instead of making your partner responsible for your emotions.

* The importance of resilience, discomfort, and staying power in long-term relationships.

* Why taking space during conflict can be more productive than trying to force a resolution.

* How to stop keeping score, bringing up past arguments, and building resentment.

* Why internal security and self-responsibility can make you more attractive to your partner.

* How laughter, playfulness, and love can emerge from even the messiest moments.

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The Libra New Moon wants to deliver what you’ve been wishing for. It’s a new beginning in you claiming MORE:

More money. More love. More freedom to be yourself.

But can you let yourself have it?

If guilt comes up when you claim what you want, and whats true for you in relationships— this transmission is for you. We’re getting into worth, receiving, and claiming your desires with your whole heart.

This is a Libra New Moon Activation for your soul. You’re allowed to want it. You’re allowed to receive it.

Work with me: I have three 1-1 astrology coaching spots open. $2,000/month, three month commitment. DEEP transformation to your fullest expression, to give less f***s, and unleash massive life force energy.

Email [email protected] if it’s for you!

Happy New Moon. I love you.

xoxo, Rachel

The Virgo new moon arrives September 10, 2026, at 11:26 p.m. Eastern—and it’s revealing where you learned to change yourself to be loved, chosen, or accepted.

When you abandon who you are, you waste time chasing relationships, money, success, and freedom in ways that were never aligned with you. This new moon is helping you recognize that pattern, release the emotions keeping it alive, and stop looking outside yourself for your worth.

In the full audio transmission, I break down the astrology, the lesson coming through, and how to align with this energy so you can reclaim your power, trust your gifts, and create a life that actually feels like yours.

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The Aries New Moon landed at 27 degrees, and the Sabian symbol said everything: a large, disappointed audience. Not as a warning. As a mirror.

In this episode, Rachel unpacks why so many of us reach the goal we worked so hard for — and feel nothing when we get there. Why we perform our way toward the life we want instead of living our way into it. And what it actually takes to stop.

This one goes deep. We’re talking Chiron conjunct this New Moon (the wound underneath your willpower), Uranus at the final degree of Taurus (the last push to raise your standards before everything shifts), and the real reason your manifestations either don’t land or don’t last.

Rachel also shares her sexual healing journey in depth, and links to the full article she wrote on it below. What happened when she held the line even when it was terrifying. What came into her life as a side effect of that. And why the things she’d always wanted arrived not from visualizing them, but from staying true to herself long enough to let them.

If you’ve been grinding toward a goal that doesn’t feel good anymore. If your manifestations keep coming in flashes and then collapsing. If you suspect the root of the problem isn’t strategy this episode is the one.

Links mentioned:

* Rachel’s sexual healing journey article

* My Certainty Oracle: $47 now, price goes to $222 on May 3rd. Click here.

The Astrology of Mid April 2026: Aries season is firing up more authenticity.

In this episode, Rachel sits down with her partner, Ryan Sprague, for a conversation that takes that cosmic weather and brings it way beyond the stars.

We’re talking about the raw, messy, and sometimes brutal reality of stepping into your true identity.

With this Aries energy blazing and Saturn demanding some structure, this episode is a masterclass in why being a little “selfish” is actually the highest form of love you can offer the world.

Ryan drops some heavy truths about breaking out of the “people-pleasing” matrix, sharing stories from his hardcore coaching days that will make you rethink every time you’ve been afraid of being “annoying.”

Rachel gets incredibly vulnerable about her year-long experiment with stepping into “the b***h” persona just to prove to her nervous system that the world won’t end if she stops performing for people.

If you’re tired of contorting yourself to fit into everyone else’s box, or if you’re terrified of saying “no,” this is the episode you need to hear. Grab a notebook, leave your ego at the door, and let’s get into it.

What We Discuss:

* [00:00] The goofball mentality: Setting the tone and managing Pierre the dog’s absolute chaos.

* [03:20] The power of Aries Season: Why being selflessly selfish is the key to deep connection.

* [05:25] Venus in Taurus: How to stop shape-shifting and start demanding life meets you where you are.

* [09:00] Ryan’s journey out of the victim mentality and why taking “messy action” beats perfect planning every single time.

* [14:18] The “Stove is Hot” method: Why making mistakes is the fastest way to learn your own boundaries.

* [19:30] Rachel’s year-long experiment: Embracing “the b***h” inside her to cure chronic social anxiety and people-pleasing.

* [24:00] Emotional Slavery: Ryan tells a wild story about his coach Angelo and why other people’s emotions are notyour responsibility.

* [31:00] Why “No” is a complete sentence (and a mandatory life skill).

* [34:40] The ultimate truth: Why speaking your unfiltered mind in a relationship feels like a natural MDMA high.

* [44:40] Micro-dosing boundaries: How to start small by saying no to the little things.

Resources & Links:

* Astrology Magic Tools: Track Your Lunar Return using My Certainty Oracle so you can become aware of & heal— your deepest triggers each month using your birth chart.

* Connect with Ryan Sprague: Catch him on Instagram @TheRealRyanSprague.

Welcome back to the Astrology Magic Podcast!

If you read my Part 1 article on making Lunar Return’s specific on Substack, you know we are completely done with vague, useless astrology.

Today, we are taking your Lunar Return to the next level with Part 2: Aspect Layering.

To read the article version of this podcast, click here.

In this episode, showing you exactly how the specific degrees and planets in your monthly Lunar Return chart have direct conversations with your birth chart to trigger your lifelong lessons right now— And create hyper specific guidance for your month ahead.

Using my own upcoming Lunar Return as an example, I pull back the curtain on how a major T-Square activation, a Jupiter trine, and a Venus square literally predicted my week. I share the exact real-life business and personal hurdles I faced—from tech blackouts to setting boundaries with my dad—and how I used my chart to step into my authority instead of repeating old, painful patterns.

Stop guessing and start leading your life. Let’s get into it!

Grab my Certainty Oracle while it’s only $47 here.

If you don’t know what a Lunar return is: You can read the article on the basics of Lunar return’s here.

The Astrology Magic podcast is back & with a new special, guest: Ryan Sprague— Rachel’s soul mate & life partner.

If you’re feeling lost n the sauce right now, this podcast is your path home.

Rachel breaks down the astrology of the collective moment we’re all in right now. Venus, Saturn, and Neptune are converging in Aries — and the pressure you’re feeling to strip back, stop comparing, and figure out what’s actually true for you isn’t random. It’s written in the sky.

Neptune is the oneness — the fabric we all come from before we’re born into individual bodies with individual lessons. We are literally all the same consciousness getting pushed into different shaped structures, like a 3D printer popping out new forms from the same material. Saturn is those structures, the contrast and friction that teaches us what love is by showing us what it isn’t. Aries brings it all back to the self first. Together these three are asking one question: can you stop measuring your path against everyone else’s and trust what your own energy is telling you?

Rachel is joined by her life partner Ryan, who brings it into real life without needing to know astrology to feel it — how he rebuilt his relationship with guitar by making his only goal one second a day, why letting his calendar go empty led him somewhere he couldn’t have planned, what riding his bike over every inch of his driveway at six years old taught him about what it feels like to move from genuine inner aliveness versus proving something, and how his body stopped breaking down the moment he stopped forcing it into a structure built from fear instead of love.

The through line of the whole conversation: Saturn finds its boundaries not by planning the perfect path but by going all in, falling on its face, and learning what’s actually yours from what never was.

Offerings:

* Check out My Certainty Oracle, lunar return AI here.

* Get your free deep dive birth chart reading to heal your moon & connect to your souls truth here.

In this episode of the Astrology Magic Podcast, I’m diving into the spicy astrology of the week: Mercury Kazimi in Leohappening July 31st at 8pm ET.

This is the moment in a Mercury retrograde where things click. Insight drops in. The truth gets illuminated. But with Leo energy and Pluto involved? It might feel intense — like an ego death, a truth bomb, or something that radically shifts how you see yourself.

Here’s what I get into:

* What a Mercury Kazimi actually is and why it’s a game changer

* Why secrets from last September might finally be coming out now *This is because last September is when Jupiter in gemini (ruled by mercury) squared Saturn in pisces*

* A real-world example: how Blake Lively’s 15° Leo Rising is getting lit up 👀

* How the new moon in Leo ties into all of this

* What an ego death really means and how to know if you’re having one

* The astrology behind public exposures (like that CEO caught cheating 😬)

* What this means if you have planets or nodes between 3°–15° Leo or Aquarius

* Why Pluto in Aquarius + Moon in Scorpio = major emotional truth reveals

* The empowering side of this energy and how to reclaim your truth

Want to use Astrology to deeply transform your life? Apply for 1-1 coaching with me, Rachel, here.

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We’re entering a powerful week of asserting yourself in a new way, shedding perfectionism, and finally being seen for who you truly are.

In this episode, I share a vivid story to help you feel the energy of the week, plus a breakdown of Mercury retrograde in Leo, Mars conjunct the South Node, and Chiron activations that could shift your relationships—and your self-trust—BIG time.

By the end of the week, you may feel a deeper sense of grounded self-ownership, knowing you don’t have to change who you are to be deeply respected and loved.

Want deeper support?

* Book a birth chart reading with Rachel here.This is not your average birth chart reading, these are deep and transformation centered for a life and energetic upgrade.

* Snag Higher Self Healing codes here. Your self-paced course to align with your birth chart and the Astrology every single day.