Every spiritual practice, one way or another, eventually brings us back to our own good hearts and to the love the shines forth from within. We may not join a yoga class because we want to soften our hearts. We may not begin meditating because we want to cultivate goodwill. But in some lovely and mysterious bit of spiritual magic, practitioners often end up saying that the greatest gift of their practice has been the lovely ways it has transformed them into kinder, more compassionate human beings.
The Buddhist practice of lovingkindness, or metta meditation, offers an explicit pathway to cultivating good heart. In lovingkindness meditation, we call up images of people, creatures and even places we know, and then we send wishes for happiness and wellbeing in their direction. We may not know for sure whether these wishes change others, but we very quickly learn that they can change us in profound ways.
In this 19-minute guided practice, we’ll explore a variation of the traditional Buddhist practice of lovingkindness meditation. This contemplation is a little more improvisatory and free-form than the traditional practice, but I hope it brings a smile to your face nonetheless.
So sit or lie down, and settle into your own good heart. Rest and breathe and be. And then follow along as we befriending the world, one heart to another.
I’ve written lots about the gifts of lovingkindness on my website, and I hope you’ll find something there that deepens your understanding of the practice. Several years ago, I wrote this essay about how metta helped me through a hard parenting moment. And this essay offers a gentle reminder of ways we can live each moment from a place of tenderness. And finally, this letter to my friends shares how lovingkindness can serve as a secret superpower, during the pandemic and beyond.
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