There are two motivators in life, pain and pleasure.  Most people don't change until they're forced. Resisting change is a very painful process. Wouldn't it be nice if you could bypass the pain and go right to the very thing you want? Doing so requires you to get better acquainted with your desires, rather than your fears. This episode I share the story of Michael, a former bonds trader who contemplated suicide, before making a drastic lifestyle change, as well as, questions to guide you on your journey.