We get to a certain age and time in life where the pressure is on to get married and have kids. Your friends, relatives, tv, magazines, the doctor, your body and even your parents are pushing for you to do this. When you do and you have problems with your kids, you need help, or can't cope they tell you “ if you can take care of your kids, don't have them.” how about we flip it on them, and use that very statement to get out of ah ing kids?