My guest today is Sidney Kumar, former Singapore Rugby Player, Educator, Coach, Husband, Father and Podcast Host.
Even though we’ve known each other a short time and I am 7 years older, the fact that he plays a team sport and that we share the same alma mater, makes everything so much more relatable.
Sidney shares how not one knee injury but 2 knee severe injuries left him almost not being able to fulfil his dream of representing Singapore at the SEA Games. An excellent narration of his life in the sport of Rugby and how this has not just shaped him as a player, but also as a teacher, coach, father and husband.
3.00 Sidney introduces himself
6.00 Tough times playing rugby in secondary school with no achievements
7.30 Looking at playing rugby at a higher level after junior college
8.00 Took it upon himself to go for trials even though was not called up
9.15 Fueled by desire to play more and to play for Singapore
10.40 Made is to the under 19 Singapore team at 17 years old
12.10 Eye opening experience with first international experience
13.22 National exam and National Service was a break from rugby
15.45 Playing club level rugby from post-army university and drafted into the National team
19.10 Broke his leg during a game
22.15 Extent of injury
23.45 Fell into a depressive state of loss and reflection
26.40 Being optimistic about the injury recovery period to prepare for the 2015 SEA Games
29.30 The road to recovery entering a new work environment as well
32.20 Resigned to the fact that he would not make the team but stayed on to support the team
34.45 Set goal to play in the 2017 SEA Games
37.00 Tore MCL on the “good” leg
39.00 Played well in competition and knee held up
40.10 Devastated because was told that he would not make the 2017 SEA Games team
42.00 Training camp overseas despite not making the team
44.00 Suddenly got called up to fly in to join the team in Malaysia
48.00 Finished with a silver medal and happy ending
49.00 Multiple rejections
50.10 Having a goal made that defining difference
53.00 Discipline in a team sport helped spread the load and responsibility
54.00 Growth mindset which allows the mind to explore possibilities being endless despite challenges and setbacks