How we’re taught to love when we’re little is how we will love when we’re adults. The insecure attachment styles we develop are all based on a common theme: fear. As we grow and learn to become more secure on on our own … we also build more compassion for those who enter our lives with less than perfect security on their own path to love. The more you know about yourself, the more you’ll be able to understand when you need to ebb and when you need to flow on your quest to love.