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Attachment Styles in Action: Why We Push Love Away (or Cling to It)


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Ever wonder why you pull back just when things get close—or why you fall harder than you should?

In this episode of Love Science Today, we break down how attachment styles silently shape your dating behaviour. Drawing from developmental psychology, neuroscience, and relationship science, we reveal the hidden emotional patterns driving your connection style—and how to stop them from sabotaging real love.

You’ll discover:

  • The four major attachment styles (and how to spot yours)

  • Why avoidants often feel smothered in good relationships

  • Why anxious types mistake intensity for intimacy

  • How secure attachment actually feels (hint: not butterflies)

  • Real-life examples of how attachment clashes look in action

  • Practical strategies to move toward emotional security

This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever asked:
Why do I keep repeating the same relationship patterns?

It’s not just chemistry. It’s conditioning.

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