Why do you suppose it is so hard to meet the need of attention with someone who needs it so badly?
Do you struggle with someone (or someone's) who are always seeking attention?
Sure, the answer is to give them attention when they aren't outwardly demonstrating the need for it, but that doesn't come easy or ever seem to satisfy. So then, what is one to do?

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