Attractively Different Podcast

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  • Ep. 37 | How To Learn And Get Good At Anything

    Did you know that your mind immediately rejects brand new information. This may information in itself may be new to you, and I wouldn't be surprised if you brain said, "that's not true."

    Well … that proves the point.

    In today's episode, I want to talk about the six stages of learning, and how you can use it to enhance your learning process. God set it up so that the purpose of life is continual growth, and that's definitely the case when you're pursuing your life purpose. With that being the case, learning how to learn is arguably one of the greatest skill sets that you can acquire.

    Being aware of the learning process can act as a continual source of encouragement as you take the journey to becoming the best version of yourself and impacting the world around you.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Your brain immediately rejects new information if it doesn't align with what you already know and believe
    • Knowing the learning process will help you not get discouraged in your results and help others
    • Trying to learn "all the skills" at one time will sabotage your success
    • The two biggest obstacles of learning are thinking that you already know or thinking that you cannot learn
    • Additional Resources:

      • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
      • 25 min
      • Ep. 36 | How To Make Quicker, Better Decisions When You Want To Do What's Right

        Making the "right" decision is not always easy or clear cut and can cause you to feel stuck or paralyzed in your decision making. This is especially true when you are focused on succeeding in your life purpose.

        In today's episode, I want to talk about an alternative to thinking through the lens of right and wrong, and how this framework of thinking can empower you and give you confidence as you purpose the purpose of life. We’re going to explore the mindset that Jesus had and how you can apply it to your own life.

        Key Takeaways:

        • The parable of the Good Samaritan teaches us how we should think in terms of life and death versus right and wrong
        • Seeking to justify yourself is an indication that you're operating in a mindset that can be destructive to your relationships
        • Right and wrong creates judgment toward others and brings death and destruction. 
        • When you make decisions that bring life to others it's magnetic and attractive. People will be drawn to your faith and curious about what you have.
        • Additional Resources:

          • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
          • 21 min
          • Ep. 35 | The Evidence of Mature Faith

            Do you ever feel like you have to prove your thoughts or beliefs to others? When you are trying to win the approval of others it can be a sign that you're not fully persuaded in your beliefs.

            In today's episode, we're going to talk about when you know you've removed the burden of pleasing others and able to operate in your life purpose. When you feel like you need the approval of others there is a constant cycle of doubt, feeling judged, and a spirit of criticalness or cynicism.

            What would it take for you to not be impacted by the thoughts and beliefs from others. What could be possible for you if it was just feedback and could be received or set aside? The purpose of life involves serving others but it's all about winning the approval of everybody. You were designed and created to succeed in your life purpose, but winning the approval of others will take you

            Key Takeaways:

            • When you know that you're walking in mature faith
            • When you're full of doubt or double minded it's evidence that you're not fully persuaded in your thought or belief
            • How Abraham's faith in God helped in operate within God's promises
            • Operating in a "fully persuaded" state allows you to operate in purpose more effectively
            • Additional Resources:

              • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
              • 19 min
              • Ep. 34 | Money Is Easy: Stop Making It So Hard

                "Making money, it isn't easy and it sure won't make you happy. So I think it's funny, we're so concerned with making money."

                Do you believe that crap?

                These are song lyrics from Ben Rector's song "Making Money."

                In today's episode, we're going to talk about the importance of making money is an important skill set to growing in your life purpose. If you're someone who believes believe that making money is a selfish thing where you taking from others then you will limit your impact and growth. What if learning how to make money inevitably taught you how to improve your relationship?

                There's plenty of evidence that points to the fact that God created the world to be ever expanding. Don't let it society convince you that money is taking and reducing your chances of success. You were designed and created to succeed in your life purpose. God has set it so that the purpose of life can be found when you become the person that He created you to be.

                Key Takeaways:

                • Believing that making money is a selfish activity will undermine your success
                • We're made in the image of God and it's part of our identity and nature to create. When we do everyone benefits and everyone grows.
                • Those who stay stuck are the one's who view business and people making money as "taking" instead of giving.
                • Charging someone gives them an opportunity to sow into a field where they can reap 30, 60, 100 fold
                • Additional Resources:

                  • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                  • 25 min
                  • Ep. 33 | Why You're Failing To Receive Your Life Purpose

                    It can be difficult to receive. Compliments, gifts, and blessings are desirable but why do we push them away at times? Are you pushing them away out of humility or is it really arrogance?

                    In today's episode, we're going to talk about the importance of knowing how to receive in order to succeed in life purpose. If you're someone who struggles to receive … a gift, compliment, or blessings in general … you it can be damaging your relationships and holding back your purpose of life. Don't stay in the same cycle that will produce the same results because you will always produce the environment around you that you cultivate within you.

                    Don't let it be an environment full of shame and insignificance.. You were designed and created to succeed in your life purpose. God has set it so that the purpose of life can be found when you become the person that He created you to be.

                    Key Takeaways:

                    • The epiphany I had about myself when I stopped giving compliments to certain people
                    • Why I believe lottery winners are more likely to go bankrupt than the average person.
                    • Stop identifying with a slave and start identify as a son
                    • What Jesus meant when he said he came to give us life to the full
                    • Additional Resources:

                      • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                      • 20 min
                      • Ep. 32 | How To Revive Your Personal Growth Once It Flatlines

                        Has your personal development flatlined? It's true, you are putting in the effort to change. You're listening to all the podcasts, downloading all the free resources from the gurus, and buying all the books … yet still can't push past a certain point. Honestly, there's not much more frustrating that having the desire to grow and see a change but consistently falling flat with all your efforts. Friend, there's a simple fix.

                        In this episode, I talk about what to do when you've invested into personal development and still not seeing a high dollar transformation you desire. This may be one of the most valuable lessons you can learn. Don't spend the rest of your life missing out on growth and amazing opportunities because feeling like something wrong with you and you just can't get it.

                        That's simply not true. You were designed and created to succeed in your life purpose. God has set it so that the purpose of life can be found when you become the person that He created you to be.

                        Key Takeaways:

                        • The change that occurred when I invested $15,000 into my growth
                        • The power of making an investment that is slightly outside your comfort zone
                        • You pay attention when you pay
                        • Money is seed … and those who sow sparing will also reap sparingly
                        • Additional Resources:

                          • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                          • 46 min
                          • Ep. 31 | What To Do When The "Old You" Runs The Show

                            What do you do when the old version of yourself comes back to throw you off your progress? If you're someone who is working toward their life purpose, making progress, but continuing to get derailed due to self-sabotage then you'll want to listen to today's show.

                            In this episode, we talk about how there are triggers that will pull you away from the purpose of life and into a place where you respond out of the "old version" of yourself. When this happens it can be easy to feel discouraged and hopeless. Yet, the worst part is the shame you feel about note being able to move past this cycle despite your efforts.

                            You have so much to offer and God is setting you up to be used in a mighty way to enhance His kingdom.

                            Key Takeaways:

                            • How walking into a horse barn instantly took me back to the old version of me
                            • Staying stuck can be a result of remaining in the same levels of thinking you used as a child
                            • Identifying how your self-sabotage is serving you
                            • Removing the shame so you can address the underlying feelings
                            • Additional Resources:

                              • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                              • 18 min
                              • Ep. 30: Be Like Water: Adapt and Overcome (Part 2 of 2 with Sal Baldovinos)

                                This is part two of our two part interview with Sal Baldovinos. Sal is married to his wife Cassandra and the have 6 kids. They enjoy homesteading and have 12 acres and a variety of animals. Sal is a web designer/developer and President of Ariel Digital Marketing.

                                We continue our conversation on what you can do when you feel stuck in your goals. Last episode we discussed how the obstacle is the way to your life purpose, and how you can embrace those obstacles as opportunities to see progress.

                                In this episode, we get into how your experiences are stepping stones to the bigger purpose of life, and how important it is to surround yourself with the right people who will help you move forward. Sal continues to share truth that will help you live a life of fewer regrets and truly step into the life purpose that God has for you.

                                Key Takeaways:

                                • When you know that you need to move on to the next stage of your purpose
                                • Finding people in your life that speak truth over you and your purpose
                                • How to break the limited beliefs that get propagated from generation to generation
                                • You get the life that you tolerate
                                • Additional Resources:

                                  • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                                  • Listen to this episode where I discuss the structure of story
                                  • 26 min
                                  • Ep. 29: Be Like Water: Adapt and Overcome (Part 1 of 2 with Sal Baldovinos)

                                    Do you have big vision for their life but seem to keep getting stalled in your goals. Feeling stuck can be frustrating when it comes to your seeing progress in your life purpose, but also create a paralyzing fear due to feeling like you might have to validate your efforts by proving yourself to others. It's easy to lose hope and begin to question the purpose of life think that their your goals and dreams are not going to happen.

                                    If you've ever felt this way then this episode is for you. This is part one of a two part interview with Sal Baldovinos. Sal is married to his wife Cassandra and the have 6 kids. They enjoy homesteading and have 12 acres and a variety of animals. Sal is a web designer/developer and President of Ariel Digital Marketing.

                                    In this episode, we talk about the mindset of "the obstacle is the way" and how it will help you find the solution when feeling stuck. Fear will always be present and will manifest in multiple forms, but when you have a vision you have a clear destination that will pull you forward in your vision. Sal shares truth's that will help you live a life of fewer regrets and truly step into the life purpose that God has for you.

                                    Key Takeaways:

                                    • How wanting to be the next George Lucas lead Sal into web design
                                    • The difference of listening to respond and listening to understand
                                    • How your obstacles will lead you to your vision
                                    • The "Here I am" attitude that leads to purpose
                                    • Additional Resources:

                                      • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                                      • Listen to this episode where I discuss the structure of story
                                      • 33 min
                                      • Ep. 28 | Stop Giving God Your Best (...do this instead)

                                        Do you have a pattern of diminishing what you've accomplished in life? If you've ever felt discontentment, insignificant or feel like what you've done doesn't really matter then you'll want to listen to today's show.

                                        In this episode, I'm going to how God wastes nothing and wants ALL OF YOU to grow His kingdom … not jus the best parts of you. God has a specific assignment for your and wants you o be clear on the purpose of life. He is constantly looking to use the people who are fully devoted to Him. I share a powerful story how God magnified skills that I diminished and used them to empower others with hope and life purpose. He took my discontentment and turned it into meaning and significance.

                                        There is hope, peace, and purpose found in the areas of your life that you have diminished. Listen to see how God can transform your "leftovers" and leverage them for His Kingdom work.

                                        Key Takeaways:

                                        • God wastes nothing and can use the areas of life that create discontentment
                                        • The overlooked lesson found in the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000
                                        • What your brain is doing when you diminish your accomplishments
                                        • How life coaching is a part in operating in your life purpose
                                        • Additional Resources:

                                          • Check out your free life coaching resource, Life Purpose Roadmap PDF, and learn how to prosper in your purpose.
                                          • 22 min

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