Audio – Shiurim of Rav Aaron Lopiansky

Delivered Motzei Shabbos 2/17/24 at Bais Yaakov Machon Ora

21:27 Shidduch Photos

27:13 Going out just to please the shadchan

29:11 Choosing a seminary based on shidduchim

32:30 Not giving up on ideals or being too picky

35:20 Support

37:06 Singles Events

38:58 Bashert

44:17 Allowing a younger child to go out before an older one

47:08 Essential criteria to give a yes

47:27 Family backgrounds in shidduchim

51:50 Taking a break from dating

53:05 Being tolerant of vices

55:48 Considering a shidduch based on future growth

57:39 Becoming a professional to support your husband vs. being home with the children

58:08 Saying no because of a smartphone

1:00:59 Pre-nuptial agreement

1:03:04 Parents pushing their child to meeting professional shadchanim

1:06:04 Closing Remarks

Delivered in YGW Motzei Shabbos Tzav 5784

For more on R’ Yaakov Pollak and Polish Jewry, check out this recording, part of our Journey to our Past Series.

Shiur is sponsored l’eilu nishmas פעסל בת נחמן

And l’refuah sheleimah  יהודה אריה בן צירל

המאכלות האסורים מונעים מהנפש קדושה והשראת השכינה

ספורנו (pg. 633)

בעלי החיים האסורים באכילה מזיקים לאדם, והמותרים מועילים לו

רמב”ן (pg. 634) [11:15]

העופות הטהורים מורים על תמות, והטמאים על רוע ואכזריות

רבנו בחיי (pg. 635) [24:23]