My parents were terrified I’d fall into a cult.
It was the 1970s — Jonestown, Manson, and the Moonies filled the news.
In trying to protect me, they created their own small one at home.
In this episode of Authbition, I read a deeply personal essay about growing up in a Catholic family ruled by fear of outside influence — and how that fear quietly mirrored the very control it tried to prevent.
I explore Steven Hassan’s BITE model of cult influence — Behavior, Information, Thought, and Emotional control — and how even loving families can pull the same levers without realizing it.
This isn’t a story of blame. It’s one of awareness — about learning to lead with presence instead of fear, and to guide with love, not levers.
If you’ve ever questioned where structure ends and control begins, this one’s for you.
Read the essay on Medium:
https://medium.com/the-narrative-arc/my-parents-fear-of-cults-made-them-act-like-one-96afaba4a2f6?sk=eeb5ad0b8786a842138ac3a97724d2b3
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