Audio recording of the article Online Dating and the Man/Woman Game: My Story, available on the blog at http://authenticsinglesdating.com/online-dating-and-the-man-woman-game/

This article is also the first chapter of my next book, as such it has a bit of a “marketing flavor” or maybe “persuasion piece”.  However it is a pretty tight summary of my developmental system for dating and man/woman relationships and gives much practical advice for both men and women.  Enjoy!

In this inaugural edition of the Authentic Singles Dating podcast, I am interviewing Steven Fearing, author of the “Mating Straight Talk” blog, on his decades of research on evolutionary psychology and mate selection science, and the impact of this research on man/woman dynamics in the 21st century. This has been a most delightful conversation for me, in part because Steven and I are some kind of intellectual soul brothers, not to mention aging horny dudes, and in part because we were able to find large correlations between my work as both a philosopher of love and sex and now a dating coach and trainer, and Steven’s research in evolutionary psychology.

We cover too many topics to summarize in this introduction to the podcast, but I will say we go quite deeply into this paradox of female sexual attraction called the “double bind”, which is that women tend to be attracted to alpha males, or dominance, but they also want their men to be kind and present and generally serve them or take care of them. We also talk quite personally about some of mine and Steven’s mentors that include David Deida, Victor Baranco, Nicole Daedone, Esther Perel and others.

I hope you enjoy this podcast and if you do, please leave us a review on iTunes!