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Bad sex can destroy a loving relationship, but good sex cannot save a bad relationship. During a Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, Joe Kort, PhD, psychotherapist and certified sex therapist, spoke with his guest Barry McCarthy, PhD, a clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist and author of 14 books and 100 professional articles on sexuality. The topic: rekindling desire. Although sex should be a positive experience for couples, it often is not, Barry finds. Conflict, avoidance, lack of spontaneity, and not knowing each other’s expectations or sexual style all contribute to a power struggle that can ruin the sexual experience and the relationship. Sex is not a pass or fail experience, he explains. Men feel they “pass” if they have an erection, and women feel they “pass” if they have an orgasm. If this doesn’t happen, they believe the sexual encounter “failed.” Too often, they think it is intercourse or nothing. They need to talk openly about sex, what they like, what pleasures them, and learn their sexual style. Shame, embarrassment, resentment and blame should never be on the table. Couples should work together as a team to minimize guilt and maximize intimacy. Be a wise couple, not an emotional couple, he urges. Barry also finds men get too caught up in having an erection. They feel if they don’t have one, they are not good enough. They see sex as power and their penis is their power. They feel it is a measure of their skill as a lover to give a woman an orgasm during intercourse. If this doesn’t happen, they often experience erectile disappointment. This thought process can be destructive for men. In this podcast, Barry also discusses good enough sex, which replaces the pass/fail perfect intercourse model. Good enough sex affirms the multiple roles, meanings and outcomes of couple sexuality. It emphasizes variable, flexible, positive and realistic sexual responses and expectations. If the encounter does not end in intercourse, instead of panic, anxiety, apology or avoidance, the couple should celebrate the pleasure they experienced.

How To Guarantee Failure, Part 2 Show Notes In this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast I’m going to give you sure fire habits that will ensure failure! And I’m also going to be giving listeners a FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE! Stay tuned! CAN I TRY IT REALLY QUICK? INTRODUCTION What is up people? The Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is here in the Podcast Detroit Northville Studios. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast. I am David Wright and with me is my producer Matt Fox. FIND ME: My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcast My social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gA Twitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypno Instagram: motorcityhypno If you would like to contribute financially to the show, you can find me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/motorcityhypno?fan_landing=true FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE https://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guide Please also subscribe to the show and leave a review. (Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!) This episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is brought to you by Banner Season. Online marketing is saturated and people rarely open their emails. Are you in sales or does your business market to customers? How do you connect with family, friends, and clients? Banner Season takes your marketing into the “real world” by delivering kindness and thoughtfulness directly to your client’s physically. Imagine the excitement of your family, friends and customers as they receive personalized cards and gifts in their mailboxes. Go to bannerseason.com/fantastic and begin today to express kindness and make connections with others. https://bannerseason.com/FANTASTIC WINNER OF THE WEEK; Operation Restaurant Rescue https://www.gofundme.com/f/operation-restaurant-rescue?utm_medium=copy_link&utm_source=customer&utm_campaign=p_lico+share-sheet SO BACK TO IT! How To Guarantee Failure! *Fail to plan for your future. This will guarantee no direction and chaos in your life *Blame everyone else for everything bad that happens in your life *Don’t ever focus on your own physical health and wellness *Make goals that are general and have no time-frame *Just do the same thing each and every day *Demand that everyone else change to accommodate your needs and wishes *Be resentful and always stay angry *Complain to others and yourself constantly *Never do anything new or challenging *Believe in overnight success *Give up whenever you meet resistance or difficulties *Make excuses for everything that is wrong in your life *Always talk about what you are going to do…it’s easier than actually doing it! *Date someone who is married or dating someone else *Spend all of your time with negative and toxic people *Constantly focus on the flaws of other people *Under promise and over deliver *Procrastinate…always put yourself against the wall *Absolutely refuse to ask for help when you need it *Quit immediately if something doesn’t work *Spend all of your free time online or watching TV. Don’t learn a new skill or take up an interesting hobby. Don’t read books or socialize with successful people. *Be dishonest and betray people’s trust in you Join my Empower Your Mind For Success Private Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/345625973445594 Free Hypnosis for Confidence https://bit.ly/2FIxxhd NEXT EPISODE: How To Guarantee Failure, Part 2 Change your thinking, change your life! Laugh hard, run fast, be kind. David R. Wright MA, LPC, CHT The Motor City Hypnotist

Why So Serious? Part 2 Show Notes In this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast we are going to discuss anger. ARRRRGH!! How to know if you have an anger problem and tips to address it. And I’m also going to be giving listeners a FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE! Stay tuned! INTRODUCTION What is up people? The Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is here in the Podcast Detroit Northville Studios. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast. I am David Wright and with me is my producer Matt Fox. FIND ME: My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcast My social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gA Twitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypno Instagram: motorcityhypno If you would like to contribute financially to the show, you can find me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/motorcityhypno?fan_landing=true FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE https://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guide Please also subscribe to the show and leave a review. (Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!) This episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is brought to you by Banner Season. Online marketing is saturated and people rarely open their emails. Are you in sales or does your business market to customers? How do you connect with family, friends, and clients? Banner Season takes your marketing into the “real world” by delivering kindness and thoughtfulness directly to your client’s physically. Imagine the excitement of your family, friends and customers as they receive personalized cards and gifts in their mailboxes. Go to bannerseason.com/fantastic and begin today to express kindness and make connections with others. https://bannerseason.com/FANTASTIC WINNER OF THE WEEK; Brian Alldridge, David Exler, Jimmy Choi https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/tiktok-users-rallied-to-design-a-better-pill-bottle-for-people-with-parkinsons/ Anger Management Clues that there’s more to your anger than meets the eye You have a hard time compromising. You view different opinions as a personal challenge. . You have trouble expressing emotions other than anger. Be aware of your anger warning signs Pay attention to the way anger feels in your body • Knots in your stomach • Clenching your hands or jaw • Feeling clammy or flushed • Breathing faster • Headaches • Pacing or needing to walk around • “Seeing red” • Having trouble concentrating • Pounding heart • Tensing your shoulders Identify your triggers Stressful events Negative thought patterns that can trigger anger Common negative thinking patterns that trigger and fuel anger include: • Overgeneralizing. • Obsessing over “shoulds” and “musts.” • Mind reading and jumping to conclusions. • Collecting straws • Blaming. Learn ways to cool down quickly Focus on the physical sensations of anger. Take some deep breaths. Get moving. Use your senses. Stretch or massage areas of tension. Slowly count to ten. Give yourself a reality check When you start getting upset about something, take a moment to think about the situation. Ask yourself: • How important is it in the grand scheme of things? • Is it really worth getting angry about it? • Is it worth ruining the rest of my day? • Is my response appropriate to the situation? • Is there anything I can do about it? • Is taking action worth my time? Find Healthier Ways To Express Your Anger Always fight fair. Make the relationship your priority. Focus on the present. Be willing to forgive. Take five if things get too heated Know when to let something go. Stay calm by taking care of yourself Manage stress. Talk to someone you trust. Get enough sleep. Exercise regularly. Be smart about alcohol and drugs. Use humor to relieve tension Recognize if you need professional help Anger management classes Therapy, Change your thinking, change your life! Laugh hard, run fast, be kind. David R. Wright MA, LPC,

How To Guarantee Failure, Part 1 Show Notes In this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast we are going to talk about sure fire ways to guarantee failure! And I’m also going to be giving listeners a FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE! Stay tuned! INTRODUCTION What is up people? The Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is here in the Podcast Detroit Northville Studios. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast. I am David Wright and with me is my producer Matt Fox. FIND ME: My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcast My social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gA Twitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypno Instagram: motorcityhypno If you would like to contribute financially to the show, you can find me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/motorcityhypno?fan_landing=true FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE https://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guide Please also subscribe to the show and leave a review. (Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!) This episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is brought to you by Banner Season. Online marketing is saturated and people rarely open their emails. Are you in sales or does your business market to customers? How do you connect with family, friends, and clients? Banner Season takes your marketing into the “real world” by delivering kindness and thoughtfulness directly to your client’s physically. Imagine the excitement of your family, friends and customers as they receive personalized cards and gifts in their mailboxes. Go to bannerseason.com/fantastic and begin today to express kindness and make connections with others. https://bannerseason.com/FANTASTIC WINNER OF THE WEEK; Bransen Jackson https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/fishermen-risk-walking-on-frozen-lake-to-rescue-baby-deer/ How To Guarantee Failure! *Fail to plan for your future. This will guarantee no direction and chaos in your life *Blame everyone else for everything bad that happens in your life *Don’t ever focus on your own physical health and wellness *Make goals that are general and have no time-frame *Just do the same thing each and every day *Demand that everyone else change to accommodate your needs and wishes *Be resentful and always stay angry *Complain to others and yourself constantly *Never do anything new or challenging *Believe in overnight success *Give up whenever you meet resistance or difficulties *Make excuses for everything that is wrong in your life *Always talk about what you are going to do…it’s easier than actually doing it! *Date someone who is married or dating someone else *Spend all of your time with negative and toxic people *Constantly focus on the flaws of other people *Under promise and over deliver *Procrastinate…always put yourself against the wall *Absolutely refuse to ask for help when you need it *Quit immediately if something doesn’t work *Spend all of your free time online or watching TV. Don’t learn a new skill or take up an interesting hobby. Don’t read books or socialize with successful people. *Be dishonest and betray people’s trust in you Join my Empower Your Mind For Success Private Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/345625973445594 Free Hypnosis for Confidence https://bit.ly/2FIxxhd NEXT EPISODE: How To Guarantee Failure, Part 2 Change your thinking, change your life! Laugh hard, run fast, be kind. David R. Wright MA, LPC, CHT The Motor City Hypnotist

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Why So Serious? Part 1 Show Notes In this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast we are going to discuss anger. ARRRRGH!! How to know if you have an anger problem and tips to address it. And I’m also going to be giving listeners a FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE! Stay tuned! INTRODUCTION What is up people? The Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is here in the Podcast Detroit Northville Studios. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast. I am David Wright and with me is my producer Matt Fox. FIND ME: My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcast My social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gA Twitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypno Instagram: motorcityhypno If you would like to contribute financially to the show, you can find me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/motorcityhypno?fan_landing=true FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE https://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guide Please also subscribe to the show and leave a review. (Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!) This episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is brought to you by Banner Season. Online marketing is saturated and people rarely open their emails. Are you in sales or does your business market to customers? How do you connect with family, friends, and clients? Banner Season takes your marketing into the “real world” by delivering kindness and thoughtfulness directly to your client’s physically. Imagine the excitement of your family, friends and customers as they receive personalized cards and gifts in their mailboxes. Go to bannerseason.com/fantastic and begin today to express kindness and make connections with others. https://bannerseason.com/FANTASTIC WINNER OF THE WEEK; James Anderson https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/hero-plumber-helps-10000-families-for-free-during-pandemic/ Anger Management Understanding anger Effects of anger • Physical health. • Mental health. • Career. • Relationships. Myths and facts about anger Myth: I shouldn’t “hold in” my anger. It’s healthy to vent and let it out. Fact: While it’s true that suppressing and ignoring anger is unhealthy, venting is no better. Anger is not something you have to “let out” in an aggressive way in order to avoid blowing up. In fact, outbursts and tirades only fuel the fire and reinforce your anger problem. Myth: Anger, aggression, and intimidation help me earn respect and get what I want. Fact: Respect doesn’t come from bullying others. People may be afraid of you, but they won’t respect you if you can’t control yourself or handle opposing viewpoints. Others will be more willing to listen to you and accommodate your needs if you communicate in a respectful way. Myth: I can’t help myself. Anger isn’t something you can control. Fact: You can’t always control the situation you’re in or how it makes you feel, but you can control how you express your anger. And you can communicate your feelings without being verbally or physically abusive. Even if someone is pushing your buttons, you always have a choice about how to respond. NEXT EPISODE: Why So Serious, Part 2 Change your thinking, change your life! Laugh hard, run fast, be kind. David R. Wright MA, LPC, CHT The Motor City Hypnotist

In his Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, host and certified sex therapist Joe Kort, PhD, talked with Richard Sprott, PhD, about kinky sex and self-exploration. Dr. Sprott is directing a research project that looks at social saturation, the postmodern self, and identity development. He has conducted extensive research on alternative sexualities and non-traditional relationships with a special emphasis on kink/BDSM sexuality, and polyamory or consensual non-monogamy. Dr. Sprott finds that the field of kink has really exploded over the past few years as more and more people are exploring it as a way to express their sexuality. Kink is considered the umbrella under which you will find power, internal sensations, sensation play, role play, and exploring your own erotic landscape. Kink often is thought of as the extreme sport of sex. People do something and push it a little further than they normally would; they are looking for a different kind of intense sensation. In the realm of sexuality, kink and personal growth can be connected, Dr. Sprott has found through his research. Those in kink subcultures are trying to explore their sexuality, which ultimately can lead to their own personal growth. They are learning more about themselves and their relationships, and they are learning to trust another person. As this trust deepens, so too does the understanding of the person they are. Kink is a very intimate act that requires a lot of trust and a lot of communication. It’s about finding the place where you can surrender to someone else. Some therapists with little or no sex therapy training believe kink is a result of childhood or abuse or trauma, however, research shows no connections between kink and childhood experiences. This is a common myth with no supportive evidence. In fact, he has found “vanilla” sex and kinky sex have a lot of similarities because the people involved want the same experience – arousal and pleasure. Kink and fetish can be a way to explore our gender expression, our gender identity.

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