Ava Devine's Bad Advice

Ava Devine's Bad Advice

Download on the App Store

Ava Devine's Bad Advice episodes

  • Erotica Divine: From Drag Queen To Trans Adult Star, Surgery, Sex & Finding Confidence

    Send us Fan Mail

    Why do some men desire trans women behind closed doors but refuse to love them in public?

    In this special Halloween episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with transgender adult entertainer, drag performer and activist Erotica Devine for a conversation about trans attraction, fetishization, dating, gender identity, cosmetic surgery, adult entertainment and the difference between being sexually desired and genuinely accepted.

    Erotica grew up facing bullying and rejection because of her sexuality. She found an escape through theatre and dance, eventually attending the Las Vegas Academy of the Performing Arts before studying gender and sexuality at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas.

    But it wasn't until college that she began to understand her own identity as a transgender woman.

    Erotica explains how learning about queer history helped her recognize herself, why drag became an important part of her identity, and how she went from being rejected by performing arts programmes to sharing a stage with Kesha.

    We also discuss her transition, the cosmetic surgeries she's undergone, and why she initially struggled to feel comfortable pursuing adult entertainment before becoming more confident in her appearance.

    Erotica opens up about the realities of dating as a trans woman, including men who fetishize her body, promise romantic relationships and disappear after sex. She explains why sexual attraction doesn't always translate into acceptance, and why she's looking for a partner who values her beyond her appearance.

    She also takes us behind the scenes of her growing adult-entertainment career, including the pressure of performing for professional studios, navigating expectations around her body and learning to establish herself in an industry where appearance and sexuality are part of the business.

    We discuss the differences between drag and adult entertainment, the role of trans representation, the challenges of navigating identity within the LGBTQ+ community, and why Erotica refuses to make herself smaller to satisfy other people's expectations.

    For Erotica, being desired isn't the same as being loved. And being visible isn't always the same as being accepted.


    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Erotica Divine
    IG: @thatbitcherotica
    X: @bitcherotica

    52 min
  • Adult Star Karen Fisher: Why Bigger Boobs Changed EVERYTHING About Her Career

    Send us Fan Mail

    Karen Fisher spent years trying to establish herself in adult entertainment. Then she made one physical change, and suddenly the industry started paying attention.

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with veteran adult performer Karen Fisher for a conversation about breast implants, the MILF industry, bisexuality, body image, aging, adult entertainment in the 2000s and what it takes to stay relevant after more than two decades.

    Karen began her career as an exotic dancer in Oregon before landing her first modelling job with Score Magazine. But breaking into mainstream adult films wasn't easy. Between expensive trips to Los Angeles, cancelled bookings and unpredictable pay, she struggled to make the business financially worthwhile.

    Everything changed after she moved to California and increased the size of her breast implants.

    Karen reveals how directors and companies who previously overlooked her suddenly began pursuing her, why she viewed cosmetic surgery as a business decision, and how her image evolved from a young performer into one of the industry's recognizable mature stars.

    We also discuss her early experiences with bisexuality, how adult entertainment helped her become more comfortable with her sexuality, and the boundaries she's maintained throughout her career.

    Karen takes us behind the scenes of the adult industry before creator platforms, including inappropriate behaviour she witnessed, long shooting days, and the changes she's seen in professionalism and performer protections.

    She also explains why fans now value personal interaction as much as adult content, how she handles criticism about her age and appearance, and why having a life outside the industry has helped her maintain her career.

    After more than 20 years, Karen is still adapting, building her own business and considering a return to more studio productions.

    We talk about what keeps her going, why she no longer lets strangers define her worth, and the lessons she wishes newer performers understood before entering the industry.


    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Karen Fisher
    IG: @karenfisher4u
    X: @sexykarenfisher

    40 min
  • Tyler Faith: Why I WALKED AWAY From Adult Entertainment — And Why I Came Back

    Send us Fan Mail

    What happens when an adult star walks away from the industry, only to realize she's not finished?

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with veteran adult performer Tyler Faith for a conversation about the golden age of adult entertainment, Jill Kelly Productions, contract stars, relationships, consent, career burnout and making a comeback on her own terms.

    Raised in a strict Italian household in Boston, Tyler was determined to live differently. She began exotic dancing at 18, entered adult films through Pleasure Productions and eventually stepped away from the industry for a relationship that left her feeling suppressed.

    Everything changed when Jill Kelly offered her a contract.

    Tyler takes us inside the era when adult performers signed exclusive studio deals, appeared in magazines, travelled for feature dancing and starred in elaborate productions with scripts, storylines and creative control. She explains how Jill Kelly became both her mentor and lifelong friend, and the most important lesson she taught her: you can always say no.

    We discuss the realities of working in adult entertainment before VIP Channels, how much freedom contract performers actually had, and why Tyler believes today's newcomers shouldn't feel pressured to do everything to become successful.

    Tyler also opens up about launching her own production company, navigating relationships that became intertwined with business, and the burnout that eventually led her to leave Los Angeles and return to Boston.

    After years away, she made her comeback.

    Now, Tyler explains why she prefers controlling her own content, choosing her collaborators and working on her own schedule rather than returning to the demanding studio system she once knew.

    We also talk about the difference between Tyler Faith the performer and the woman she is away from the cameras, the changing business of adult entertainment, and why knowing your worth matters more than any paycheck.

    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod
    YouTube: Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast

    Follow Tyler Faith
    IG: @tylerfaithofficial
    X: @Tylerfaith4real

    49 min
  • Becoming Blake Lovely: Transitioning, Adult Entertainment & Making Music & Refusing To Be Controlled

    Send us Fan Mail

    Blake Lovely spent years trying to make it in music while hiding a part of herself she had understood since childhood. Eventually, she reached a point where she couldn't do it anymore.

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with musician, adult performer and director Blake Lovely for a conversation about transitioning, the music industry, adult entertainment, identity, rejection, creativity and building a career on your own terms.

    Before entering adult entertainment, Blake moved to Los Angeles to pursue music. She recorded albums, toured with her band Animal Sun and eventually earned recognition for her work. But behind the music was a much more personal story.

    Blake opens up about writing "Girl in Blue" about her desire to transition, why meeting transgender fans after shows affected her so deeply and the moment she decided that living authentically mattered more than protecting the career she had built.

    Blake discusses the reaction from people around her, the challenges she says she experienced in the music industry and why adult entertainment eventually became a place where she found something she hadn't expected: community.

    Some of the transgender performers Blake once watched and admired eventually became her friends, mentors and co-stars.

    Within a few years, she went from performing music on an awards stage as the only transgender person in the room to returning to that same venue to accept an award for her work in adult entertainment surrounded by people she felt understood her.

    But Blake didn't want to remain only in front of the camera.

    She opens up about moving into directing, creating Once Upon a TS Summer and her goal of bringing cinematic storytelling back to adult films at a time when much of the industry has shifted toward creator-driven content.

    We also discuss her latest project, Nobody Walks In Clean, why she assembled a cast of prominent transgender performers and her ambition to push transgender adult entertainment further into mainstream storytelling.

    Blake also talks about learning to stop chasing perfection, navigating body image during transition, rediscovering music and refusing to let one label define who she is.

    For Blake, being a musician, transgender woman, performer, director and artist aren't competing identities. They're different parts of the same person.

    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Blake Lovely
    IG: @Blakelovely_
    X: @_blakelovely_

    59 min
  • Lauren Strong & Krystyna Lauren Teach You How To Be Sexy On Command | Sexxy: The Show Vegas Dancers

    Send us Fan Mail

    What does it actually take to be sexy on command?

    Behind the costumes, choreography and confidence of a Las Vegas showgirl are years of auditions, rejection, competition, body pressure and learning how to walk onto a stage and perform even when you don't feel your best.

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with professional dancers Lauren Strong and Krystyna Lauren from Las Vegas' Sexxy The Show for a conversation about professional dance, burlesque, bodybuilding, body dysmorphia, confidence, rejection and what really happens behind the scenes when being sexy becomes part of your job.

    Long before becoming Vegas showgirls, Lauren and Krystyna were already accustomed to high-performance environments.

    Lauren spent years in professional dance and cheer, performing across the NFL, NBA and NLL worlds while experiencing firsthand how competitive auditions can be. She opens up about making an NFL team, being cut the following season and learning how quickly your identity can become attached to the career you've worked so hard to build.

    Krystyna spent years auditioning for professional dance opportunities while also building a career in competitive bodybuilding, fitness and coaching.

    Together, they open up about something both worlds taught them: when your body becomes part of your profession, it can become very difficult to stop evaluating it.

    Krystyna discusses struggling with body dysmorphia, analyzing her body even when she didn't need to and eventually stepping away from bodybuilding competition to figure out whether she still wanted that life.

    Lauren reveals that she experienced body pressure from both sides. While bodybuilding rewarded one physique, professional cheer told her her upper body had become too muscular and needed to look more feminine.

    Eventually, both women found themselves entering a very different world: burlesque. And something unexpected happened. Performing in Sexxy The Show didn't make them more critical of their bodies. It began helping them become more accepting of themselves.

    We also talk about rejection, perfectionism, burnout, aging as a professional performer, female friendship, competition and why learning to separate your identity from your achievements may be one of the hardest lessons for a high performer to learn.

    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Lauren Strong
    IG: @laurenbstrong

    Follow Krystyna Lauren
    IG: @krystyna.lauren

    Follow Sexxy: The Show
    IG: @sexxyshowlv

    57 min
  • Ava Devine Goes To Pole School With Claudia Renée | She Talks Confidence, Sensuality & Her Journey

    Send us Fan Mail

    Pole dancing has spent decades being dismissed because of its connection to strip clubs and erotica.

    But what happens when women stop seeing sensuality as something they perform for somebody else, and start discovering it for themselves?

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with international pole dancer, instructor, and Team Basework founder Claudia Renee to talk about pole dancing, confidence, sensuality, strength, body image, sexual independence, and what really happens when women discover what their bodies are capable of.

    What started as a birthday gift eventually became a career that has taken Claudia around the world, teaching thousands of women from different backgrounds and ultimately building Team Basework, her virtual pole dancing community with instructors from around the world. But Claudia's approach to pole goes far beyond learning tricks.

    She explains why pole dancing can transform the way women see themselves, how physical strength can translate into emotional confidence and how she has watched women begin asking for what they want after discovering a different side of themselves through movement.

    We also talk about something Claudia refuses to separate from the conversation: where pole dancing comes from. Pole has increasingly entered the worlds of fitness, competitive sport and mainstream entertainment, but Claudia believes respecting the art also means respecting its relationship with erotic dancers and spicy workers.

    She takes us behind the scenes of training Constance Wu for Hustlers, the controversy she witnessed surrounding the production and why she believes pole dancers, midnight ballerinas, and spicy workers should be supporting each other rather than fighting over who is allowed to participate in the art form.

    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Claudia Renée
    IG: @itsclaudiarenee

    Follow Team Basework
    IG: @teambasework

    Follow Basecamp
    IG: @base_by_teambasework

    1 hr
  • Mia Isabella: The Fullness of Her Freedom, The Tyga Scandal, Trans Identity & Taking Her Life Back

    Send us Fan Mail

    For most of her life, Mia Isabella refused to let other people decide who she was allowed to be.

    Long before becoming one of the most recognizable transgender performers in adult entertainment, Mia was an artist, fashion designer, student, caregiver and young woman trying to build a life entirely on her own terms.

    Then fame came.

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with Mia Isabella for an intimate conversation about her childhood, transgender identity, race, family, fashion, adult entertainment, relationships, fame, the Tyga controversy, depression and what it actually means to live freely.

    Mia takes us back to growing up in East Tennessee, where she says she understood herself as feminine from the age of five despite having no concept of what being transgender meant.

    Raised by powerful women who encouraged her to tell the truth about who she was, Mia says she never learned to view being different as something that should limit her. But her childhood was also complicated by race, family conflict, and eventually discovering prejudices within the people she loved most.

    As a biracial child growing up between different sides of her family, Mia opens up about confronting racism and colorism, becoming estranged from her grandmother for nearly a decade and eventually learning that loving someone doesn't mean accepting everything they believe.

    She explains how she helped create an image of transgender women that went beyond reducing them to their bodies: full glamour, fashion, femininity and fantasy. But behind the public persona was a much more complicated private life.

    Mia opens up about relationships with powerful and wealthy men, getting married extremely young, living what appeared to be an extraordinarily privileged life and eventually realizing that money, houses, jewelry and security could still become a cage.

    She describes the moment she finally chose freedom over that life, leaving almost everything behind, driving to Las Vegas and rebuilding herself as Mia Isabella.

    Then we talk about the controversy that changed everything.

    Mia addresses the Tyga scandal, what she says actually happened when the story exploded online, the impersonation accounts she says helped ignite the controversy and why she believes the public narrative reduced an entire career to one sensational story.

    She also explains why she has never wanted to publicly discuss the intimate details of her relationships with famous men. For Mia, those relationships were between human beings, not headlines.

    But the consequences of public scrutiny were very real.

    She explains how the scandal damaged the career she had spent years building, affected her relationships and professional opportunities, contributed to a deep depression, and ultimately led her to retreat from interviews and public attention for nearly a decade.

    Now, she is telling her story from a very different place.

    1 hr 5 min
  • Victoria Vale: Aging, Plastic Surgery & Why Your 40s & 50s Might Be Better Than Your 20s

    Send us Fan Mail

    Society has an unwritten rule for women: youth is beauty, beauty is value, and eventually you're supposed to become quieter, less desirable and less visible.

    Victoria Vale completely rejected that narrative.

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with adult performer and model Victoria Vale for an honest conversation about starting over later in life, aging, confidence, beauty standards, plastic surgery, sexuality, career reinvention and why women do not have an expiration date.

    Long before becoming Victoria Vale, she lived two very different lives.

    She began dancing while putting herself through college before eventually leaving the entertainment world, completing graduate school and building a successful corporate career in HR. For roughly two decades, she lived what she describes as a normal suburban corporate life.

    But part of her never forgot the freedom and excitement she had experienced before. Years later, Victoria decided to explore that part of herself again.

    What initially began as a bucket-list opportunity to model eventually became something much bigger: a complete reinvention of her life in adulthood.

    Victoria opens up about returning to an appearance-driven industry at an older age, becoming comfortable in front of the camera, entering adult films later in life and discovering that getting older didn't make her less confident.

    Chapters

    00:00 Women Do NOT Have An Expiration Date

    00:01:05 Starting Over Later In Life

    00:01:58 Who Was Victoria Vale Before Adult Entertainment?

    00:02:42 Dancing Her Way Through College

    00:04:27 Why Victoria Chose Corporate Life

    00:05:07 Living Two Completely Different Lives

    00:05:54 Did Victoria Ever Feel Like She Truly Fit In?

    00:06:40 Shame & Growing Up Without Guilt

    00:07:23 Education vs. Real-World Experience

    00:08:07 What Adult Entertainment Taught Victoria About Men

    00:08:58 Why Victoria Believes The Industry Can Empower Women

    00:09:54 Why Victoria Returned To Adult Entertainment

    00:10:36 Sex Appeal In The Corporate World

    00:12:13 Does Appearance Affect How People Treat You?

    00:12:56 The Glamour Standards Of The Feature-Dancing Era

    00:14:52 The Opportunity That Brought Victoria Back

    00:15:34 Working A Corporate Job While Modeling

    00:16:18 Victoria Vale's Glamorous Aesthetic

    00:17:04 How Ava Helped Victoria Enter The Creator Economy

    00:18:32 Why Women Should Help Other Women Succeed

    00:19:24 Why Leading With Kindness Matters

    00:20:08 How Victoria Got Her Big Break

    00:20:49 Why She Didn't Immediately Jump Into Adult Films

    00:21:31 Victoria's First Experience Filming With A Partner

    00:22:26 What People Don't Understand About Filming Adult Scenes

    00:23:22 Why Staying Camera-Ready Gets Harder With Age

    00:24:27 The Pressure Of Seeing Your Body On Camera

    00:25:21 "I Feel Better Than I Did In My 20s"

    00:26:12 How Victoria Transformed Her Health

    00:26:58 Why Aging Made Her More Grounded

    00:27:47 The Physical Demands Of Adult Entertainment

    00:28:32 Protecting Mental, Emotional & Spiritual Health

    00:29:36 Finding Balance Between Work & Real Life

    00:30:37 How Victoria Deals With Online Hate

    00:32:01 Aging Naturally vs. Plastic Surgery

    00:32:50 Why Women Should Choose How THEY Want To Age

    00:33:36 Why We Freeze Women In Their Younger Image

    00:34:55 Victoria Vale On Plastic Surgery & Extreme Glamour

    00:35:47 Why She Refuses To Apologize For Her Look

    00:36:35 "My Body, My Choice"

    00:37:31 Why Plastic Surgery Makes Victoria Feel More Confident

    00:38:33 The Impossible Beauty Standard Women Face

    00:39:23 "I'm Stronger Than I Was 20 Years Ago"

    00:40:07 Why Women Are Judged No Matter How They Age

    00:41:37 Is Ageism Still A Problem In Adult Entertainment?

    00:42:32 Why Victoria Loves Being A Mature Woman

    00:43:25 Victoria Vale's Advice For Women Of Every Age

    00:45:10 "You Couldn't Pay Me To Be In My 20s Again"

    00:45:57 What Victoria Is Proudest Of

    00:46:53 What Women In Their 40s, 50s & 60s Need To Hear

    00:47:44 "It's Never Too Late"

    00:48:43 Why Your Life Doesn't End When You Start Over

    00:49:34 Finding What Brings You Joy

    00:50:34 Victoria Vale's Final Bad Advice

    If there is one thing to take away from this episode, it's this: your life does not have an expiration date.

    56 min
  • Sassee Cassee Gets Real About Her Height, Dating, Fetishization, Self-love & Her Love For Dancing.

    Send us Fan Mail

    People have spent Sassee Cassee's entire life noticing what makes her different. But there is far more to her story than what people see.

    In this episode of Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with entertainer, feature dancer and content creator Sassee Cassee for an honest conversation about confidence, dating, fetishization, self-worth and learning to live without needing validation from other people.

    Sassee takes us back to a childhood where her mother made the decision not to shelter her. She talks about being bullied in school, learning to defend herself, becoming a gymnast and developing the resilience that would eventually follow her into adulthood.

    Then an unexpected opportunity changed everything.

    After appearing on The Jerry Springer Show, Sassee began travelling, performing and eventually built a career as a touring feature dancer before joining Micro Maidens, an all-women burlesque show featuring little people.

    But behind the performer is a woman who has spent much of her life navigating the difference between being seen and being objectified.

    Sassee opens up about what dating is really like when you constantly have to question someone's intentions, how she separates genuine attraction from fetishization, why being attracted to a little person shouldn't be considered taboo, and the boundaries she refuses to compromise in her career.

    ## Chapters

    00:00 Meet Sassee Cassee

    00:00:33 The Mother Who Refused To Shelter Her

    00:01:17 Growing Up With A Minister For A Sister

    00:02:00 Family, Faith & Spicy Entertainment

    00:03:14 How Spirituality Helps Sassee Handle Negativity

    00:04:05 What Growing Up Different Was Really Like

    00:04:45 The Bullying That Changed Her

    00:05:37 How Sassee Learned To Handle Haters

    00:06:22 From Gymnastics To Jerry Springer

    00:07:18 Why Sassee Felt She Had To Prove Herself

    00:08:02 Searching For Acceptance Through Self Love

    00:08:54 Sassee Cassee On The Jerry Springer Show

    00:09:38 Moving To California & Chasing A Bigger Career

    00:10:15 What Dating Is Really Like For Sassee

    00:11:03 How She Spots Men With The Wrong Intentions

    00:11:38 What Sassee Actually Looks For In A Man

    00:12:24 Attraction vs. Fetishization

    00:13:06 Why Attraction To Little People Isn't Taboo

    00:13:55 When Attraction Becomes Fetishization

    00:14:47 Dating Younger Men & Learning What She Wants

    00:15:39 Sassee Opens Up About Her Attraction To Women

    00:16:33 How Sassee Built A Career As A Feature Dancer

    00:17:31 Inside The Micro Maidens

    00:18:14 How Sassee Joined Micro Maidens

    00:18:56 Feeling Celebrated vs. Feeling Exploited

    00:19:37 The Performance Sassee Refused To Do

    00:20:28 What Respectful Entertainment Looks Like

    00:21:09 What Happens At A Micro Maidens Show?

    00:21:45 The Gymnastics Skills Behind Sassee's Performances

    00:22:39 What Actually Defines A Little Person?

    00:23:44 Would Sassee Date Another Little Person?

    00:24:33 How Sassee Entered The Creator Economy

    00:25:28 Becoming Comfortable With Her Body & Sexuality

    00:26:18 "Treat Me Like A Human Being"

    00:26:50 Why Sassee Lets Children Ask Questions

    00:27:37 "People Don't Look At Me Like I'm A Person"

    00:28:14 The Airport Interaction That Made Sassee Speak Up

    00:28:50 How Her Response To Ignorance Has Changed

    00:29:35 Sassee Opens Up About Body Image

    00:30:27 Why She Chose To Control Her Own Content

    00:31:04 Building Her Career On Her Own Terms

    00:31:58 The Boundary Sassee Refuses To Cross

    00:32:39 Who Is Sassee Cassee Beyond The Persona?

    00:33:28 What's Next For Sassee Cassee?

    00:35:13 What Sassee's Friends Know That Fans Don't

    00:36:08 The Unexpected Thing That Makes Her Laugh

    00:36:52 The Money Lesson Sassee Wishes She Learned Earlier

    00:37:44 "I Don't Need A Man To Be Happy"

    00:38:47 Where Sassee Sees Herself In Five Years

    00:40:25 Sassee Opens Up About Drug Addiction & Recovery

    00:41:16 Sassee Cassee's Final Bad Advice

    If there is one thing to take away from this episode, it's this: you are more than the assumptions people make about you.

    Her story isn't about proving that she's just like everybody else.

    It's about reaching the point where she no longer feels like she has to prove anything at all.

    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Sassee Cassee
    X: @sassee_cassee
    IG: @sasseecassee89

    Follow Micro Maidens
    X: @micromaidens
    IG: @micromaidens

    49 min
  • Katie Kush: Working At A School, Modern Adult Entertainment & How To Actually Survive The Industry

    Send us Fan Mail

    Most people see the finished product of adult entertainment. They don't see the business decisions, long hours, rejection, boundaries, social media restrictions, relationships, mentorship, and discipline required to build a career that lasts.

    This week on Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with adult performer and entrepreneur Katie Kush for a conversation about what it really takes to build a career in the modern adult entertainment industry.

    Before becoming Katie Kush, she worked at a school supporting children with special needs and behavioural challenges. After a relationship ended and she found herself financially responsible for a home on her own, Katie began camming while continuing to work at the school.

    Eventually, she faced a decision: continue pursuing a career she loved or take a chance on adult entertainment.

    Her mother gave her one piece of advice that would shape the way she approached her career: treat it like a business.

    And that's exactly what Katie did.

    We talk about her transition from amateur content into professional films, why it took her more than a year to fully commit to the industry, what happened when her school discovered her adult work, and how veteran performers helped teach her how to navigate the business.

    Katie also explains the massive shift she has witnessed from the traditional studio system to today's creator economy, and why she believes performers now have more control over their careers than previous generations.

    This is a conversation about adult entertainment, the creator economy, consent, social media, work ethic, mentorship, confidence, burnout, and what building a sustainable career actually looks like behind the scenes.

    Chapters

    00:00 Meet Katie Kush

    00:00:51 Why Ava Wanted A Gen Z Performer On The Show

    00:01:35 Katie Kush's Business Approach To Adult Entertainment

    00:02:16 Who Was Katie Kush Before Adult Entertainment?

    00:02:57 From Special-Needs Assistant To Camming

    00:04:12 Trying To Keep Her Two Lives Separate

    00:05:25 Choosing Between A Traditional Career & Adult Entertainment

    00:05:59 What Happened When Katie's School Found Out

    00:08:00 Katie Kush's First Adult Film Experience

    00:09:27 How Veteran Performers Helped Katie Build Her Career

    00:10:47 Learning From Adult Entertainment Veterans

    00:11:24 Studios vs. Creator Platforms

    00:12:06 How Creator Platforms Changed Adult Entertainment

    00:13:46 Why Katie Still Works With Studios

    00:15:03 Katie Kush Tries Exotic Dancing

    00:15:47 Her First Day At A Strip Club Went Very Wrong

    00:16:54 The Reality Of Rejection In Feature Dancing

    00:18:11 What Katie's Feature Shows Are Really Like

    00:19:31 How Competitive Dance Shaped Her Adult Career

    00:20:52 How Katie Plans Creator Collaborations

    00:22:08 Being A Switch & Understanding Power Dynamics

    00:23:34 What Katie's Fans Request Most

    00:25:44 Why Katie Loves Performing At Clubs

    00:27:05 Social Media's Impact On Her Career

    00:27:50 Why Adult Performers Get Flagged Online

    00:29:58 The Mental Gymnastics Of Social Media Censorship

    00:30:35 Losing Access To Payment Platforms

    00:31:16 How Katie Deals With Hate Comments

    00:32:37 Why Online Criticism Kept Katie Away From Podcasts

    00:33:43 Mental Health In Adult Entertainment

    00:35:10 How Katie Protects Her Sanity

    00:35:47 Burnout & Learning To Say No

    00:36:30 The Unexpected Hobbies That Keep Katie Grounded

    00:37:11 Separating Adult Entertainment From Real Life

    00:38:32 Does Katie Mentor New Performers?

    00:40:02 Katie's Advice For Anyone Entering Adult Entertainment

    00:40:41 Creator First vs. Traditional Studio Career

    00:41:27 How To Find The Right Adult Industry Agent

    00:42:53 Why New Performers May Need Representation

    00:44:13 Finding Your Niche In An Oversaturated Industry

    00:45:35 What Makes Katie Kush Successful?

    00:46:14 Consent & Knowing When To Speak Up

    00:46:48 How Katie Learned Her Personal Boundaries

    00:47:23 Studio Shoots vs. Creator Content

    00:48:10 Katie's Biggest Turn-On & Turn-Off

    00:48:59 Katie Talks Sexuality & Relationships

    00:50:53 The Best Career Advice Katie Ever Received

    00:51:35 Is Adult Entertainment Empowering?

    00:52:26 What Fans Would Be Surprised To Learn About Katie

    00:53:51 Separating Work From Private Intimacy

    00:57:01 Katie Kush's Final Bad Advice

    00:57:46 Where To Follow Katie Kush

    Follow Ava Devine
    Instagram: @theoneandonlyavadevine
    TikTok: @1avadevine

    Follow Ava Devine's Bad Advice Podcast
    Instagram: @avadevinesbadadvice
    TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice
    X: @avadevinespod

    Follow Katie Kush
    X: @Katiekushxx2
    IG: @katiekushxx2

    58 min

About Ava Devine's Bad Advice

From the publisher's feed

Welcome to my show, Ava Devine's Bad Advice

On this podcast, I explore sex, relationships, self-image, the taboo and healing through honest, unfiltered conversations. Drawing from my own…

More shows like Ava Devine's Bad Advice

Brian Windhorst & The Hoop Collective by ESPN, Omaha Productions, Brian Windhorst

Brian Windhorst & The Hoop Collective

3,911 Listeners

This Past Weekend w/ Theo Von by Theo Von

This Past Weekend w/ Theo Von

28,064 Listeners

Club Shay Shay by Shay Shay Media & Playmaker

Club Shay Shay

7,392 Listeners