The 21st Century Creative

Avoiding the Advice Trap with Michael Bungay Stanier


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Michael Bungay Stanier is a leadership coach and bestselling author whose earlier work, The Coaching Habit, has sold over three quarters of a million copies and helped leaders use coaching to unleash creativity in their teams.

In this final episode of Season 5—Episode 50—Michael returns with his new book, The Advice Trap, to show you how to tame your inner Advice Monster and transform the way you lead and communicate.

‘Our advice is not nearly as good as we think it is.’ – listen to the full conversation.






Episode summary
Michael Bungay Stanier

Michael Bungay Stanier is a coach and author who teaches leaders how to move from rushing to solutions towards being curious a little longer. His first book, The Coaching Habit, became a modern management classic, and his new follow-up, The Advice Trap, tackles the hidden costs of our default advice-giving habit.

Big ideas in this conversation
  • The advice-giving habit – defaulting to solutions can target the wrong problem, disempower others and exhaust you.
  • The Advice Monster – your urge to tell, save or control undermines autonomy and creativity in your team.
  • Stay curious a little longer – delaying advice invites deeper insights and reveals the real challenge.
  • Questions over answers – asking ‘What’s the real challenge?’ and ‘What else?’ surfaces better solutions.
  • Advice worth hearing in full
    • ‘What’s the real challenge here for you?’ – a four-step script to uncover the true issue before advising.
    • ‘What’s your first idea? And what else?’ – a habit to slow the Advice Monster and empower your team.
    • Frame advice as possibilities – offer suggestions tentatively and check if they’re useful.
    • Where next?

      Explore the Advice Monster questionnaire at theadvicetrap.com and find Michael’s free resources, including The Year of Living Brilliantly course, at mbs.works.

      About The 21st Century Creative podcast

      Hosted by creative coach and award-winning poet Mark McGuinness, The 21st Century Creative podcast helps you succeed as a creative professional amid the demands, distractions and opportunities of the 21st century.

      Each episode features insights from Mark and interviews with outstanding creators – including artists, writers, performers, commercial creatives, directors, producers, entrepreneurs and other creative thought-leaders.

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