In this episode of Awakened Intimacy, we’re naming something many couples regularly feel but rarely have the capacity to articulate… although staying busy CAN keep a relationship 'functional', it will also quietly dissolve emotional connection, erotic charge, and the sense of “us”.

We explore why date nights often don’t work, why couples get stuck trying to fix surface-level problems, and what actually creates intimacy again: attunement, embodiment, repair, and meeting the deeper need underneath the story.

We also introduce a new segment: Greer reacts in real time to a viral relationship reel about polarity, submission, and “being led”… and we unpack what’s true, what’s oversimplified, and what matters most underneath it all.

In this episode, we cover:

- Why “being busy” is often an avoidance strategy (even when it’s understandable)

- Why date nights can become another form of doing and performing

- The power of micro-moments over grand gestures

- Fixing vs attuning; how helping can accidentally miss the moment

- The difference between story and feeling; and why the body is the doorway

- The core teaching: the surface problem isn’t the problem… the unmet need is

- Why couples avoid slowing down; fear of what’s been swept under the rug

- Repair as a learnable skill; a simple framework that takes minutes

- How avoidance creates roommates instead of lovers over time

- Polarity without rigid gender roles; safety as the foundation for desire

- Why “information” isn’t the medicine; lived practice is

If you’re a couple who:
- feels like housemates
- only talks about kids/work/logistics
- avoids hard conversations because it feels too hard
- wants intimacy, but doesn’t know how to get back there

…this episode is for you.

Work with us:
If this resonates and you want support to rebuild connection and depth, the best place to start is with our "Relationship Clarity Call" available on our website @ www.intimacyforcouples.com