Awesomely Off-Topic: Books, Brands, Business and Everything Else We’re Not Supposed to Say Out Loud

The calendar is telling us to celebrate everything, everywhere, all at once and it is getting ridiculous. One day we are meant to read books and co-work, the next we are meant to do nothing, then we are juggling elephants, left handers, financial awareness, geocaching, roller coasters and rum. We ask the real question behind the jokes: has the awareness day calendar become content noise, or can it still be a smart tool for small business marketing when you use it with intent?

From there we go properly bookish. We share the business and mindset books we actually rate, why audiobooks count, and how reading can be part of your work when you are researching, editing, proofreading, or writing. We also talk about books that challenge your view of modern power, including an insider account of Meta, plus the harder ethics of platforms and creators: where you show up online, what you fund, and how you make values-based choices without disappearing from the places your clients hang out.

Then we get personal about burnout and creativity. We explore why escapist fiction can be a genuine reset for your brain, how writing “just for fun” can unlock new ideas and new offers, and why co-working and body doubling help when motivation is low, especially for neurodivergent people. We finish by turning the silliest prompt of all into something practical: how “lizards” can become content about environment, resilience, focus, and growth.

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We answer listener questions with equal parts tenderness and bite, moving from how we stay grounded in tough times to how we build visibility for a business without chasing hollow shortcuts. Along the way we share personal stories from our home, challenge lazy myths about ADHD and autism, and talk about what keeps a relationship strong when you live and work side by side. 
• grounding when life feels tough through breath, nature, movement and perspective 
• asking what’s needed and reaching out for support when you cannot shift it alone 
• the objects in our home that hold meaning and teach us strength 
• the horse-sized duck question and why we would try to make it an ally 
• organic business visibility through usefulness, PR, local media and consistent effort 
• networking as relationship building and being visible where clients already are 
• what to say when someone claims “we’re all a bit ADHD or autistic” 
• the one question we would ask to get a true answer 
• how we avoid big fallouts while living and working together 
• how shamanic teachings called one of us in through curiosity and experience 

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We celebrate one year of Awesomely Off-Topic and share what we’ve learned from 60-plus episodes, surprising global listening stats and a few glorious tangents. We talk honestly about consistency, titles, tech nerves, listener feedback and why real conversation matters more than chasing perfect numbers. 

• celebrating the one-year milestone and why we kept it low tech 
• looking at downloads, countries, cities and the Apple Podcasts spike 
• why consistency builds habits and growth comes in steps 
• what topics get traction including ADHD, neurodivergence and Q&As 
• why podcast titles and headlines matter for discovery 
• what listener messages mean to us and how they shape future topics 
• sharing the microbook programme details and how it helps creators 
• lessons on tech confidence, community and being yourself on mic 
• opening the Awesomely Off Topic hotline for listener voice notes

• This is also the episode where we kept calling Octavia Spencer Olivia. Oops. Sorry Octavia!  

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Over-explaining, avoiding eye contact, doodling through meetings, asking a relentless stream of “why” questions… these can look like bad manners or insecurity, but they can also be signs of a neurodivergent brain working hard to connect, regulate, and be understood. We talk candidly about the moments that get misread most often, and how quickly a well-meant attempt at clarity can be mistaken for defensiveness or “making it all about me”. 

We also get into the hidden mechanics of masking and “performing listening” versus actually listening. If you’ve ever been told you look bored while you’re concentrating, or you’ve felt pressure to nod and maintain eye contact at the cost of processing what’s being said, you’ll recognise this. We share why fidgeting, stimming, looking away, or even quietly crocheting can help attention, and how a simple shift in interpretation can make workplaces, friendships, and group spaces far more accessible. 

Then we move into success amnesia, the frustrating experience of remembering your achievements as facts but not being able to feel them as confidence. We explore how rejection sensitive dysphoria, criticism, and old shame can become “doom leaders”, why this is not the same as imposter syndrome, and what actually helps: keep your evidence visible with a brag file, a praise jar, or our favourite idea, a “brag flag”. If any of this hits home, subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs a kinder lens, and leave us a review to help more people find the show.

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We were going to say the neurodivergent behaviours you've got all wrong, but it was a bit too long for the title space on our graphic! :D

This started out as an exploration of the things neurotypical people often misunderstand about ADHD and autism... it grew from a conversation we were having on the sofa.

For instance: interrupting can ruin a conversation in seconds, but what if the person doing it is trying to connect rather than compete? We get properly honest about one of the biggest flashpoints between neurotypical and neurodivergent communication: the mid-sentence jump-in, the sudden personal anecdote, the “I promise I’m listening” blurting that lands like rudeness.

We unpack what’s going on under the bonnet: empathy expressed through shared stories, the urge to be relatable, and the working memory panic that makes a thought feel like it’ll disappear if it’s not said now. That leads us into the messy reality of meetings and networking, where you can either speak up and get judged, or stay silent and lose the insight you actually bring. We also share practical tools that help in the moment, from quick notes and voice notes to setting expectations with the people around you.

Then we widen the lens to other neurodivergent traits that get misunderstood all the time: oversharing, info dumping, going quiet, delayed replies, rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD), blunt honesty, eye contact extremes, and processing delays. We keep it real, we keep it funny, and we aim for something useful: language you can use to explain yourself, and empathy you can offer others without lowering standards.

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Everything can be going perfectly fine, and then suddenly the land is double booked, the schedule collapses, half your plan becomes impossible, and someone is shouting at your people in the heat. We’ve just lived that reality at one of our retreats, and what still amazes us is this: it ended up being one of the most magical, grounding, transformational weekends we’ve ever held. So we’re unpacking the real work of staying calm when things go wrong, and what “going with the flow” actually looks like when clients, logistics, and emotions are all in motion.

We share the practical tools we lean on when stress starts to rise, including our go-to question “What’s needed?” and the surprisingly effective “change body, change state” approach for emotional regulation and nervous system reset. We also talk about dropping expectations, how arguing your point can make everything worse, and why humour can be a pressure valve when used with care. Along the way we swap stories about flat tyres, wrong turns, late-night football pacing, and the kind of cosmic timing that makes you laugh even when you’re exhausted.

The deeper takeaway is about leadership and psychological safety: people don’t always need fixing, they need space. We explore how asking “What do you need right now?” helps you show up as a friend, coach, manager, or simply a steady presence, whether you’re running an event, leading a team, or navigating everyday life. If you want better resilience, calmer decision-making, and a more grounded way to handle chaos in business and relationships, press play, then subscribe, share, and leave us a review so more people can find the show.

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Ever noticed how the second you feel uncertain, you suddenly want everyone’s opinion? We’ve both done it, and it can turn one simple choice into a messy tangle of voices, pros and cons, and “helpful” advice that drags you away from what you actually wanted. We talk about the decision making trap: why the urge to ask a 17th person is often a sign you’ve lost touch with your own clarity, not a sign you need more information.

We pull examples from real life and work, from book feedback and beta readers to branding, logos, websites, and the endless tinkering that shows up as “fixing” your LinkedIn bio every few weeks. We also look at the uncomfortable bits: asking people who love you but cannot help you, mistaking loud confidence for expertise, and quietly trying to hand someone else the responsibility so you can blame them if it goes wrong.

Then we go deeper into what sits underneath chronic indecision: fear, insecurity, and the way a “wrong” outcome can get fused to identity. For neurodivergent listeners, we explore why self trust can be harder to build, how ADHD decision fatigue makes even tiny choices feel impossible, and how RSD can trigger catastrophising spirals. We finish with practical tools you can try straight away, including journalling before you ask anyone, the 10-10-10 rule, noticing fear versus intuition in the body, and setting a decision deadline.

If this lands, hit follow, subscribe, and share it with someone who is stuck in overthinking. Then leave us a review and tell us: what decision are you avoiding right now, and why?

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Someone can sit in the same room as you, hear the same talks, and still walk away with a completely different turning point. On the drive home from Atomicon in Newcastle, we debrief the moments that actually changed things for us, not just the speaker notes, but the conversations before and after, the little realisations that land when the adrenaline drops.

We dig into the pressure to niche down and why we prefer to “niche through”: building one clear thread that runs through confidence work, storytelling, book publishing, podcasting, personal brand coaching, and speaker training. If you’re neurodivergent, multi-passionate, or you have ADHD tendencies, that connected ecosystem can be your strength, not your flaw. We also talk about what “clarity” really means in marketing for small businesses, and how being a generalist can be an advantage when you know how to simplify a message and make it land.

Then we go into the messy bit: what happens when you realise someone has taken what you taught them and sold it on, and why that hits so hard when trust is already a tender subject. We unpack rejection sensitive dysphoria, boundaries, and how to turn that emotional punch into a smarter response. We also look at pricing strategy and visibility: if someone else is charging five times more for something similar, is it because they’re better, or because they’re louder and easier to find?

We finish with a reminder we both needed: go ahead, underestimate me. If you’re ready to show up more, charge with confidence, and stop being the best kept secret, press play. Subscribe, share this with a business friend, and leave a review so more people can find Awesomely Off Topic.

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An AI handed us a list of “Ask Me Anything” questions and we made the bold choice to answer them cold. That’s how you end up trying to explain bingo to an alien anthropologist, debating why angling feels like a bizarre human ritual, and wondering which completely normal thing should have gone extinct by now. It’s fast, messy, and very us. 

We bounce from the ridiculous to the oddly revealing: pointless expertise (card making, macramé and all the hobbies people will defend to the death), conspiracy theories invented purely for entertainment, fictional characters who would be unbearable in real life, and the historical eras that live in our heads rent free. Along the way we hit the big British cultural references, the comfort-watch obsessions, and the strange niche knowledge you collect without meaning to. 

Then the chat gets more grounded. We talk neurodivergence, including ADHD and autism, and why open-plan workspaces can feel like sensory torture. We also go seriously into animal welfare, vegan convenience food that still sneaks in eggs and milk, and why breeding brachycephalic dogs and cats to struggle for breath is heartbreaking. If you like a funny podcast that can pivot into real principles without losing pace, this one will land. 

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PS: It's time gor a human AMA episode! What question would you ask us next?

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We walk into the studio doing what we do best: trying something new with zero guarantees it will go smoothly. Two dogs under the desk, a new bit of kit rolling, and a very real reminder that life rarely waits for a perfect plan. From there, we get honest about why “winging it” has become a put-down, and why we think it should be a badge of competence rather than a confession of failure.

We pull apart the myth that professionalism equals scripting everything. Whether you’re speaking on stage, running a workshop, pitching a client, or building a business, you can’t control the third-party variables. What you can control is your message, your expertise, and your ability to respond. We talk about how over-rehearsed talks can feel soulless, why the best speakers keep their key points but never repeat a story the same way twice, and how authenticity often lives in the unscripted moments.

Then we take it into the practical stuff: planning versus plans, and why rigid structure can be actively counterproductive, especially with ADHD and the need for autonomy. We share how we plan together in a responsive way, what we do with our overflowing notebooks of ideas, and how to avoid the “great ideas graveyard”. We also go on a small social media rant: scheduling can help, but broadcasting the same post everywhere kills trust and connection. Finally, we tackle comparison spirals and the simplest energy-protection move you can make: temporarily unfollow the accounts that drain you.

If you’re ready to stop waiting for perfect conditions, hit play, then subscribe, share it with a fellow overthinker, and leave us a review so more people find Awesomely Off Topic.

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