There’s this Japanese thing called Kintsugi. When a bowl breaks, they fix it with gold. The cracks aren't hidden—they’re actually what makes it expensive and beautiful.
In our 30s, we have enough life experience to be "gold-mended." You’re actually more valuable now because you have resilience. You have empathy. You know what it’s like to hit the floor, and that makes you way more "safest pair of hands" than someone who’s never failed.