Ayodele Live

This will be my last show - at least for the foreseeable future. I thing it’s time to try out other stuff. You might call it being defeatist, but I don’t see myself that way. I have done all sorts; written books, written blogs, hosted events (MC), and host this, and other radio shows. I have even been interviewed on TV twice. But there comes a time when reality needs to come in. And this is usually done by being true to one’s self. So – this show is about being true to yourself.

As usual, it will be fun, entertaining and there is something to learn from it.

There are some people who you need to avoid - SIMPLES! 

This doesn't mean that you have to cut them from your life entirely - but sometimes limiting (or controlling) your interaction with these set of people will do you a whole lot of good. And they are everywhere. They are at work, at school, in Church, in the gym, at the Community Centre, in the barber's shop, on TV, at the Railway Station (or on the Underground), and even on the football field. 

Listen to this show and I will tell you who these people are, and why you need to avoid them

In about 24 hours from when you read this, you will be about 24 hours older. It's not the most facinating thing to hear - but one of the few things we cannot control is getting old. To make matters worse, we are reminded that we are aging all the time. Filling out forms, completing surveys, applying for loans, getting on the housing ladder. These are all subtle ways of reminding you that you are not as young as you used to be. But saying that, can you at least slow the process down a bit and enjoy your youthfulness a bit longer? Of course you can.

All you need to do is listen to this show - and you will sonn find out how.

There are ways things are meant to be done. There are some things that simply have to be done in a particular way or manner. What if you can do things within convention but with a bit of unconventionality? What if you can obey the rules, but still remain true to who you really are? What would you need to do in a very conventional world to stand out, yet blend in enough to remain relevant?

These are the issues that this show will be highlighting in detail.

We introduce ourselves to other people, or have other people introduced to us on regular basis. That's how we get to meet and know other people. This is how our scope of influence increases. This is how we get to expand our horizons a bit more. Getting introduced is a vital part of life for anyone who wants to develop relationships with other human beings.

How about introducing yourself to yourself?

There are bits about you that you probably don't even know. These 'unknown' aspects of your being, or of your life might be the key to even more happiness and the lead to a better life. But how do you get to know yourself better? That's what this show is all about

Nothing beats the feeling of knowing that you are being true to yourself. In a world where too many people have one reason or the other to want to be 'like' someone else, it's a sign of strenght when you can always remain true to yourself. But how can you do that? It can be harder than it sounds to do, especially if you assume that the best way to fit is by 'belonging'. This show is about being true to ourselves.

There are things that you should never ever tolerate. This is not about being arrogant – but about knowing what you want out of life and pursuing such. When you tolerate things that you shouldn’t, you get slowed down. So what are those things that you should never ever tolerate? All will be revealed during this broadcast.

One of the key ways of standing out in our overcrowded world is by being interesting. Let us face it, most people are not interesting. Spend a few minutes with them - and you're done. On the contrary, don’t you love spending time with people who make you laugh, make you smile and are generally buoyant? These people are generally liked because they are fun to be around. How can you be just that – be that person who others would want to spend their time with?

This show will give you useful tips on how to be more interesting.

You cannot always live your life according to what other people think.

I am all up for taking advice and submitting to words of wisdom. But when almost every decision is about what others might think, then it becomes something that needs serious addressing. And during this show, we will be looking at reasons why some of us tend to subject ourselves to opinions of otthers, and how we can address this serious flaw.

We will also be addressing the issue of mental strength, and how this is important in enabling us achieve our goals despite challenging situations.

There are so many things that you really can do without. Things that weigh you down unnecessarily and become a burden rather than a blessing. These things should leave your life as quickly as they become part of it otherwise you might be slowed down needlessly. 

Clutter is something that can creep up on you and strangle life out of you if it is not dealt with quickly. This is the subject that is discussed in detail during this show. We need to look at what these clutters are, and come up with practical ways of getting rid of them.