Update.
We all carry pain. Physical and mental. My left knee has issues. The middle of my shoulders is always tight & sometimes it hurts a lot. I feel hurt when I think about my dad or how neglected I was as a teenager. It doesnt hurt everyday but we all have pain stored in our body and trauma in our mind.
  Wanting to have a baby and it taking extra steps is frustrating more than painful-but there is pain; a tug on my chest, when i think about my teenage pregnancy. Id have a lot more pain if i was a poor single mother so i don’t  regret a thing. 
Doesn't mean there isn't pain. Every big decision comes with a major pros and cons and you might feel bad either way but which decision will negatively impact you more? Choose wisely.