What does it really mean to become a man?
For many men, the journey begins without a blueprint — no clear guidance, no model to follow. Just expectations: be strong, lead well, provide, and somehow figure life out along the way.
In this episode of Becoming A CEO, I sit down with Lawrence Shuruma for a deeply honest conversation about manhood, responsibility, and the silent pressures many men carry.
Lawrence shares what it was like growing up without his father, the question he still wishes he could ask him, and how father absence can shape identity, leadership, and self-belief.
In this episode, we explore:
• The emotional impact of growing up without a father
• The one question he wishes he could ask his dad
• How setbacks and injuries can redefine confidence
• Why many men struggle silently with responsibility and expectations
• The importance of building yourself before building relationships
• What it truly means to believe in yourself — even when doubt is present
• How to confront fear and move forward anyway
This isn’t a motivational speech.
It’s a real, grounded conversation about identity, healing, responsibility, and the intentional work required to become the man you were never taught how to be.
Because before you can lead others,
before you can build a family,
before you can build a life —
you must first become someone you can stand on.
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