Welcome back to BACKDOOR B.O.I.N.K., the show where we ask the questions your parental figure hopes you never think of and your group chat is too afraid to ask out loud.

Today Isis is joined by Devyn Stone—author, educator, community organizer, Leatherman, dominant, and all-around expert in navigating power, consent, and relationships.

Devyn has been practicing authority transfer dynamics since 2004 and teaching since 2014. He's the author of The Affirming Handbook, Why I Don't Own Them...Yet..., and Recalculating: Navigating the BDSM Community

He's also the founder of Pragmatically Kinking, Executive Producer of THRIVE, and co-founder of EDGE.

Today we're talking kink education, neurodiversity, authority transfer, and building stronger communities. So grab your favorite beverage and join us as we welcome Devyn Stone to BACKDOOR B.O.I.N.K.

For more about Devyn, visit devynstone.com.

For upcoming events and more from us, visit www.boink-ed.com.

Hey campers! 🎪

Today, Isis and Em-Jay are back at it again—but this time they’ve dragged Riven and Fiber😬 into the chaos. Why? Oh, just to casually (not casually) talk about a “little side project” Isis and Riven have been cooking up… that somehow made it into year two. No big deal. Totally not a shameless plug. Nope. Not at all. 😏

But wait, there’s more! They’re also spilling some behind-the-scenes tea about what really goes down at—drumroll please—“Kinky Kamp.” Yes, that’s exactly what it sounds like, and yes, they’re going there. Expect stories, laughs, and maybe a few “did they really just say that?” moments.

And whatever you do, don’t leave early—because at the end, things take a turn when Isis steps away from the mic to help a customer in the shop… and let’s just say, it’s giving bonus content nobody asked for but everyone will enjoy. 🎤💥

Be sure to check out their website at:

www.goBoundless.us - "Discover New Horizons" or do you prefer "For Everyone" ?

and then don't forget to swing by www.boink-ed.com where you can get classes, workshops & bedroom accessors to help you "Feel Good and Be Naughty!"

Today, Isis, Riven, Fiber, Hobbs—and Sassy, who shows up fashionably late—gather for what starts as a deep, thoughtful discussion about kindness. You know, light topics like where it comes from, how society messes with it, and whether being “nice” is just kindness in a cheap disguise.

Somewhere along the way, they also unpack how all of this shows up in their own lives and in the kink community (because of course it does). And just when you think it couldn’t get deeper, they casually wander into religion, personal beliefs, and upbringing—because nothing says “fun chat” like questioning your entire moral framework.

It’s heartfelt, a little chaotic, occasionally philosophical, and definitely not as serious as they pretend it is.

Do you remember what we did last summer? Honestly, we’re not entirely sure either—but we’re about to find out together.

Join Isis and Em-Jay as we attempt to piece together the highlights, share a few stories, and give you a quick rundown of our adventures. Think of it as a slightly foggy—but very entertaining—trip down memory lane. We hope it makes sense… but no promises.

Hey folks — we’re back!

Sorry for the long break! Since our last recording, we’ve had some unexpected (and exciting!) things come up that kept us busy.

Em-Jay here. First, I want to apologize for the sound quality, background noise, and editing on this episode. I’m a little rusty, and we recorded in a new space that we’re still figuring out — but we’re getting there!

Thanks for sticking with us. Take a listen to catch up on where we’ve been and what we’ve been up to. We’re so glad to be back!

So this week may be a little rough. We've been busy and M.J. hasn't edited anything in a while, but we had fun as you can tell. In this episode we chat about an experiment we tried "For Science" and that made us decide to talk a bit about food play. What's your take yes, no, maybe? Drop us a comment and let us know.

Join us for an intimate conversation with Mr. Peter and Pup Scout, two prominent figures in the leather community. In this episode, we delve into the rich history, culture, and vibrant community surrounding leather. Discover the significance of contests, the camaraderie among members, and the ongoing evolution of this fascinating subculture. Get ready for a candid and insightful discussion that sheds light on the world of leather.

Of all things that should be equal, healthcare should be one of them. Minority status and gender play a strong role in the treatment you might receive. For better or worse, let's take a look at some examples and how you can protect your health and wellness.

We're back for more silly sexual wellness! Catch up with where we've been and where we're going.

What're the social norms vs. the kinkster norms? What do these customs - handshakes, hugs, physical contact without permission, and more - have to say about our cultural behaviors? How do we balance our needs in the face of a society so worried about being rude or disrespectful?

We're not sure we have the answers, but there are some suggestions here and at least some food for thought! Take a listen.