Who says connecting with your partner has to be serious all the time? How about we have some fun, play true or false? How about we focus on zodiac signs.  Whether you believe zodiac signs are a bunch of BS or live and die by your sign, take a look into what it’s all about.

Zodiacs are just another source to dig deeper into who you and your partner are.  Sure, some of what is out there isn’t all accurate. I bet a high percentage is. 

Don’t believe me, find out for yourself. 

Let us know what you find out!

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Have you heard the saying, “If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything.”?

You can embrace differences and try to find balance all you want, however if you don’t take inventory of your core values you will most likely have some unsuccessful relationships. 

Here are three questions we address:

What are core values?

Why is having core values important?

 How do you apply them to your relationship?

We will get into how our personal core values impacted our relationship and how we created additional values together.  

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We’ve all heard the phrase, opposites attract.  Some of the strongest relationships are between two very different people.  From the outside it looks like the making of an arranged marriage, however, look closer.  The strength and weakness of each person in the relationship may be the exact opposite of their partner.  This creates an amazing balance, where one is soft one is strong, allowing the relationship to be solid and steady. 

Look into the key areas of difference to find the balance:

1.     How you each love and communicate it.

2.     How do you each respond to adversity and struggle.

3.     How do you each spend your down time (hobbies).

In this episode we teach you how to recognize and accept the differences, while finding ways to stop focusing on the areas the other may not change. Instead, we want you to focus on the ways you can build the other up while learning to lean on your partner when you are at your lowest.  There is love to be found in the balance of embracing your differences.

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Relationships are hard! Why make them harder with continues mistakes? We will go over our top 5 mistakes to avoid for a happy and healthy relationship. Let us know if any of these are on your top 5 as well.

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The ultimate trifecta in a marriage: friendship, laughter and orgasms…who wouldn’t want that?!

You want that in your relationship but how do you get there?

What if you had all three but life got in the way and you don’t know how to find your way back. 

You’ll need to do some soul searching and cut the bullshit, but it’s possible! We will give you some tips and tricks that have worked for us, and they just might work for you too.

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Everyone has a story.  There are moments of sadness and moments of triumph.  All stories leave an imprint on your life, whether they be positive or negative.  The problem many individuals face is ignoring the negative effects these events have had on them.  Unhealed people hurt others.  It’s not always intentional, sometimes people just aren’t self-aware enough to understand themselves.  Be warned if you ignore your problems they won’t go away. 

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What do you do when you wake up one morning and everything has changed? How do you learn to move on from unimaginable heartbreak? Jade opens up about a part of her story that has long been held close to her heart. There are many tears but this story is for any survivor of trauma or loss.

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Growing pains are tough! Not just physically but also emotionally. Individuals never grow and evolve at the same speed or even in the same direction. When you are in a relationship how do you allow yourself and your partner the freedom of change without feeling like you are being left behind?  How do you keep these struggles from causing a rift in your relationship or worse, ending it entirely? We grew up together as children, teens, young adults and now a married couple pretending to have their shit together.  Trust us, we’ve struggled.

Everyone in your life has an opinion and they will constantly try to persuade you to their side.  When it comes to marriage everyone and their damn dog will give you the secret to a long and happy marriage while whispering to their best friend, “there is no way those two will ever last”.  Whether you start out with a strong, healthy relationship or maybe jumped into saying “I do”, before you were ready, learn to tell all those Karen’s to mind their own damn business!