In this episode of Thuli Talks, we unpack the relationship and self-help advice that was sold to us as empowerment but quietly taught us avoidance, emotional dishonesty, and fear of vulnerability.

We were told to ghost instead of communicate.

To act unbothered instead of being honest.

To play hard to get instead of showing genuine interest.

But was it confidence… or self-protection dressed up as power?

This episode is for the people who are tired of performing indifference, tired of pretending they don’t care, and ready to unlearn survival habits that sabotaged real connection.