Bad Marriage 4 Life Podcast

By Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom

Welcome to "Bad Marriage 4 Life" podcast, the unfiltered podcast where Jenny and Vic share their raw and honest experiences as a couple. They hold nothing back.

With Jenny's 25 years of radio experie... more

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Bad Marriage 4 Life Podcast episodes:

June 22, 2025 We Called Off the Wedding (Temporarily). This Is Why
In the kickoff episode of Season 2 of Bad Marriage 4 Life, hosts Jenny and Vic delve into the tumultuous year that delayed their return to the podcast. Newly married, they reflect on their engagement, wedding planning, and the considerable personal hardships they faced, including their daughter's battle with addiction and a close friend's cancer diagnosis. The couple also recounts the chaos and lessons learned from their engagement party, setting the stage for a candid and heartfelt season ahead.
00:00 Welcome to Season Two!
00:53 The Engagement Journey
01:20 Wedding Planning Woes
03:24 Family Struggles and Support
13:17 The Engagement Party
18:19 The Engagement Party Dilemma
18:41 The Cost of Attendance
19:06 Gift Expectations and Etiquette
21:33 The Speech Controversy
24:51 Post-Party Reflections
33:19 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward
34:20 What's Next
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28min
April 04, 2024 Who Started It? The Never-Ending Mystery of Couple Fights (We Both Lose!)
Jenny and Vic, who have been together for over 20 years and share five children, openly discuss a recent loud argument they had, reflecting on the recurring nature of their fights despite the longevity of their relationship. They consider their progress in handling disputes, including the use of a therapist-recommended 'password' to take breaks during heated moments, which they admit to forgetting in the heat of the moment. The discussion delves into the impact of their arguments on their children, the importance of setting a good example, and the emotional aftermath of such disputes. Vic and Jenny also touch on insecurities and fears of separation, while humorously navigating through their differences and shared moments. The conversations highlight the complexities of long-term relationships, the challenge of communication, and the ongoing effort to improve and understand each other better, all within the tapestry of family life and love.
00:00 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument
00:15 Reflecting on Relationship Dynamics and Arguments
01:40 The Impact of Arguments on Children
02:35 The Struggle with Communication and Resolution
08:02 Revisiting the Argument: Who Started It?
09:08 Post-Argument Actions and Reassurances
09:52 Dealing with Trust and Infidelity Concerns
12:10 Maturity and Moving Forward
12:53 Opening Up About Personal Struggles
13:02 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument
13:51 Finding Humor in Neighborly Observations
14:59 The Reality of Couple Fights and Communication
15:54 A Public Argument and Its Consequences
20:24 Reflecting on Respect and Communication in Relationships
23:04 The Importance of Shielding Children from Arguments
24:25 Understanding Emotional Needs and Communication in Relationships----Across the Web----

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26min
March 28, 2024 Depression, Debt & The Weight of Expectations
Jenny and Vic discuss their spontaneous intimate moments, Jenny's depression despite life's successes, and the challenges of balancing career pressures with family life. They delve into the disparities in handling emotional support within their relationship, with Vic providing unwavering support despite Jenny's admission of likely failing to reciprocate in difficult times. They also touch upon the struggle with financial pressures, particularly student loans, and the existential crisis of aging without feeling accomplished. The conversation shifts towards the importance of finding happiness within, despite external stresses, with Vic highlighting his gratitude for life given his rough upbringing. They conclude with plans for overcoming Jenny's depression, including walks and a surprise trip Vic has been wanting, underlining the continuous effort to find joy and satisfaction in their long-standing relationship.
00:00 Welcome to Bad Marriage for Life
00:14 A Spontaneous Encounter
01:02 Navigating Depression and Support in a Relationship
04:04 The Struggle with Financial Dreams and Realities
06:23 Reflecting on Success, Family, and the Desire for Wealth
08:55 Facing the Reality of Aging and Seeking Happiness
16:40 Finding Joy in the Small Things and Planning for the Future
20:08 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans----Across the Web----

🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music):
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22min
March 07, 2024 Couples Therapy: Navigating Financial Differences & Compromises in Marriage
Jenny and Vic discuss the challenges and insights from their ongoing couples therapy sessions. Vic surprises Jenny in therapy by expressing concern over Jenny's handling of a situation with one of their children, leading to a broader discussion on accommodation and financial planning within their relationship. Jenny questions how much she should compromise for the relationship's success, especially regarding financial decisions and their impact on personal happiness. They delve into their differing attitudes towards money, with Vic prioritizing financial stability over luxurious spending due to his financially strained upbringing. The episode highlights their journey to understand each other's perspectives better, the importance of budgeting for a healthy relationship, and the challenges of balancing personal desires with joint financial responsibilities. The conversation also ventures into topics like marriage, compromising for happiness, and the peculiarities of planning vacations and dealing with the psychological aspects of spending.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Start
00:17 Discussing Therapy and Relationship Dynamics
01:38 Financial Responsibilities and Relationship Compromises
03:44 Planning a Family Trip and Financial Disagreements
06:17 Exploring Personal Spending Habits and Financial Management
08:39 Contemplating Relationship Compromises and Financial Independence
11:46 Reflecting on Personal Desires and Relationship Expectations
14:38 Discussing Marriage and Financial Expectations
16:07 Gratitude for What We Have
16:33 Growing Up Without a Male Role Model
17:22 Building a Family and a Comfortable Life
18:03 Counting Blessings and Future Plans
18:35 Love for Work and Compromises
19:13 Living Life to the Fullest
20:22 Financial Stress and Desire for More Experiences
23:52 Polyamory and Compromises in Marriage
27:39 Bad Marriage for Life Podcast and Giveaway----Across the Web----

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29min
February 29, 2024 Fear of Abandonment
In the 31st episode of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life', the co-hosts, Vic and Jenny discuss the theme of the fear of abandonment and its impact on their relationship. Jenny opens up about her personal fear of being alone and how it has played into her decision-making process in relationships and influenced how she deals with friendships. Vic shares his differing perspective on being alone. They reflect on their past experiences and why they decided to stay together after turbulent times, attributing their ultimate decision, in part, to their fear of being alone. They also touch on their upcoming marriage and the societal misconceptions and expectations that come with it.
00:00 Introduction and Role Reversal
00:26 Discussing Fear of Abandonment
01:57 Reflections on Past Relationships
03:16 Confronting Past Mistakes and Fears
07:48 Understanding Each Other's Perspectives
10:21 The Impact of Past Decisions on Present Relationships
12:23 Learning from Therapy and Personal Growth
14:47 Regrets and Reflections on Parenthood
15:42 Looking Forward: Engagement and Future Plans
21:36 Dealing with Assumptions and Judgements
21:59 The Annoyance of Unwanted Commentary
22:22 The Misconceptions of Late Marriage
23:22 The Journey of a Long-Term Relationship
24:03 The Misunderstandings of a Large Family
25:21 The Misinterpretation of Honesty in Marriage
26:11 The Importance of Timing in Relationships
26:52 The Etiquette of Responding to Engagement News
30:18 The Unwanted Advances in a Couples Resort
31:54 Closing Remarks and Upcoming Contest Announcement----Across the Web----

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33min
February 22, 2024 Unveiling the Dark Side of Alcohol in Relationships
Jenny and Vic delve into the detrimental effects of alcohol on relationships, drawing from their own experiences. They open up about recent arguments exacerbated by heavy drinking and discuss Jenny's symbolic act of removing her wedding ring during rough patches. Both hosts reflect on how excessive alcohol consumption has led to verbal abuse, health issues, and strained social interactions. Vic shares personal anecdotes highlighting the negative consequences of drinking, including violence and weight gain. Despite the challenges, Jenny commits to six days of sobriety in an effort to improve their relationship. The episode also touches on the difficulties of serious conversations amidst alcohol use, the truth serum effect, and the unpleasant experiences of drunk sex. Reflecting on their past drinking habits, the hosts acknowledge the need for change and express hope for a healthier future together.
00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter
00:10 The Issue of Yelling and Arguments
00:36 The Symbolism of the Missing Ring
00:51 The Night Out and Drinking Habits
02:38 The Aftermath and Verbal Abuse
02:58 Family History of Alcoholism
03:17 The Consequences of Drinking
04:06 The Drinking Process and Its Effects
04:35 The Double Standards in Jokes
09:47 The Issue of Addiction
10:38 The Impact of Drinking on Relationship
12:48 The Struggle with Serious Conversations
14:44 Committing to Sobriety
15:11 Reflecting on Drinking Habits
16:24 The Struggles of Drinking and Calculating Tips
16:48 Pledging to Stay Sober for Six Days
16:58 The Consequences of Drinking: Violence and Weight Gain
17:14 Recalling Past Drinking Experiences
17:44 Body Positivity and Self-Love
18:11 The Worries of Blackouts
18:34 The Aftermath of a Night Out
18:53 The Truth Serum Effect of Alcohol
22:19 The Ugly Side of Drunk Sex
24:12 A Birthday Night to Forget
28:15 Closing Remarks and Future Plans----Across the Web----

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30min
February 08, 2024 Parenting and Therapy
In episode 29 of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life,' hosts Jenny and Vic offer engaging insights into their family life and discuss their ongoing journey through couples therapy. They introduce each of their children: youngest son Max who is navigating teenage life and gaming addictions, Sasha who is pursuing a modeling career in New York City, Summer - an environmental science graduate considering law school, Olivia who has overcome addiction and is making strides in her recovery, and Tom with whom Vic is currently estranged but hopes to reconnect. Jenny and Vic express their hope that through therapy, they can become better parents with improved communication skills. The episode also hints at the launch of the 'Bad Marriage for Life Mix Tape Volume two' on Valentine's Day.
00:01 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:07 Discussing Our Children
01:46 Concerns About Screen Addiction
04:24 Updates on Our Children's Lives
09:36 The Impact of Therapy on Our Lives
13:53 Promoting Our YouTube Channel and Mixtape----Across the Web----

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15min
February 01, 2024 Our Biggest Relationship Struggles
Jenny and Vic go deep into their marital matters. They start discussing their recent tensions, focusing on Vic's delay in addressing household chores, specifically the situation of their cable bill. Their conversation covers the complexities and frustrations of changing cable packages, as well as Vic's approach to problem-solving, which aggravates Jenny. This leads to a general discussion on how men and women handle household issues differently. They also focus on their sex lives, the challenges they face in maintaining intimacy, and the changes their sex life has gone through over time. Rather than just highlighting their differences, they also toss around potential solutions and ways to improve their relationship.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Start
00:42 The Cable Bill Dilemma
01:59 The Unfulfilled Promises
02:07 The Art of Imitation
02:50 The Cable App Conundrum
05:13 The Importance of Downtime
05:56 The Meeting Culture
06:21 The Decline of Intimacy
08:17 The Joy of Dry Humping
08:33 The Dream of a Homeless Shelter
10:41 The Need for Better Communication
13:30 Conclusion and Episode End----Across the Web----

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15min
January 25, 2024 Retirement, Lifestyle Choices, and Growing Old Together
Bad Marriage 4 Life - S2, E27: Retirement, Lifestyle Choices, and Growing Old Together
In this episode of 'Bad Marriage 4Life', couple Jenny and Vic discuss their daily lives, including their dog's issues and their reactions to them. They also discuss Vic's sickness and Jenny's efforts to comfort him, which leads them to consider their roles as caretakers for each other. They express concerns about getting older and being reliant on each other in their old age, with Vic suggesting they hire a live-in nurse instead. They bring up their different life experiences and how they've shaped their perspectives. Jenny speaks about speaking at a high school and educating teenagers about career choices and college, emphasizing the importance of doing something you love. They reflect on the reality of people retiring after spending their whole lives working, leading Jenny to express her desire to have fun in their old age. Vic agrees, suggesting a traveling lifestyle. Finally, they touch upon their future plans of retiring and joke about who will take care of who.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:19 The Challenges of Pet Ownership
03:08 The Struggles of Dealing with Illness
05:31 Reflections on Caregiving and Relationships
10:54 Planning for the Future and Retirement
16:20 The Importance of Enjoying Life
29:30 Conclusion and Farewell----Across the Web----

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31min
January 18, 2024 Therapy, Tequila & Timeouts: Bad Marriage 4 Life is BACK!
Jenny and Vic return for Season 2 of the Bad Marriage 4 Life podcast. They discuss their holiday season break, revealing that they spent most of it fighting but found a therapist to help them. The therapist provided techniques to handle their arguments effectively, including a secret word or phrase that signals a break for an hour.
The conversation takes a humorous turn as they discuss Jenny's drinking habits and the therapist's comments on it. They also share a funny incident during Jenny's birthday weekend where Vic falls asleep in various public places due to excessive drinking.
Despite the challenges, they express gratitude for the therapist's guidance and the positive impact it has had on their relationship. The episode concludes with an announcement of Season 2 exploring various relationships, including interviews with other couples and individuals.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back
00:21 Finding a Therapist and Learning to Fight Effectively
00:45 The Struggles of Continuous Arguments
01:10 The Lighter Side: Cartoon Comparisons and Age Discussions
01:45 The Importance of Therapy and Techniques Learned
04:37 Addressing Drinking Habits and Its Impact
07:25 The Birthday Weekend Getaway
14:11 The Casino Night: A Tale of Overindulgence
20:48 Reflections and Looking Forward to Season 2----Across the Web----

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FAQs about Bad Marriage 4 Life Podcast:

How many episodes does Bad Marriage 4 Life Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 35 episodes available.