Is your weight stopping you from having a meaningful relationship with a man or is it something else? If it's your body size hindering you, why are so many women who are "fit" and not overweight being abused, misused, lied to, cheated on and killed hundreds of times each day? Listen and learn the real reason why you are single. Learn how to be happy anyway. Your weight and how you look might determine how many men physically lust after you, but it does not guarantee that you will be cherished, respected, loved, admired... Furthermore, what's going to happen if your "looks" change?