Before you can build healthy relationships with others, you have to know who you are!

In this episode, we dive deep into self-awareness, identity, authenticity, and the impact they have on every relationship: romantic, platonic, professional, and even the relationship you have with yourself. We explore how social media shapes our sense of self, why chemistry isn't always alignment, and the practical work required to become the healthiest version of yourself.

If you've been on this journey with us throughout Season 1, this conversation is the perfect conclusion.

Everyone seems to be talking about intentional dating these days—but what does it actually mean?

In this episode of Balanced Chaos, Jroc and Lady Elle are joined once again by dating and relationship coach Chad Scott as they unpack the growing conversation around dating with purpose. Together, they explore whether intentional dating is simply about being clear on what you want, or if it requires a deeper shift in mindset, expectations, and the way we approach relationships altogether. Join them for an honest and thought-provoking discussion on what it truly means to date with intention in today's world.

On this week's episode of Balanced Chaos, Jroc and Lady Elle welcome dating & relationship coach - Chad Scott back to the show for an honest conversation about today’s growing obsession with validation, clout, and performative relationships in the social media age. From viral dating conversations to influencer controversies, the crew breaks down how likes, views, and online attention are influencing the way people date, communicate, and even measure their self-worth.

In this episode, J and Elle take a moment to pause and reflect with a mid-season recap; highlighting the wins, the lessons, and the unexpected moments along the way. They also dive into this week’s hottest topics, offering candid perspectives, spicy reactions, and the signature chaos listeners enjoy. It’s fresh, insightful, and full of raw energy!

What if the dating chaos isn’t just “them”… but us too? 👀

This episode of Balanced Chaos gets real as we ask the question: “Ladies, Are We The Drama!?! From dating patterns to communication habits, we’re unpacking the role women play in today’s relationship struggles and how accountability can shift everything.

We’re joined by Whitney Gigi Gilbert - Artist, Author, Empowerment Coach & Behavior Therapist who is bringing insight, honesty, and a little tough love to the conversation. Expect unfiltered takes, personal stories, and the kind of dialogue that challenges growth, not just comfort.

Tap in if you’re ready for self-reflection, real talk, and a fresh perspective on love and accountability.

#dating #love #marriage #marriageadvice #nyc

In a world that glorifies options, attention, and endless dating, this episode flips the script because when it comes to love, quality will always outweigh quantity.

Choosing the wrong partner doesn’t just waste time… it can delay the kind of love, peace, and alignment you truly deserve. So how do you avoid settling, repeating patterns, or entertaining connections that aren’t meant for you?

Special guest Marvin “Marbo” Lewis, better known these days as Mr. Pop The Balloon, joins us to share his thoughts about a quality man is looking for a quality woman. And that goes beyond surface-level traits. It’s about prioritizing spirituality, integrity, character, and alignment in how you both move, think, and love.

We’re diving into what it really means to choose right from recognizing values and emotional maturity to understanding how your decisions in love directly impact your future.

Are you choosing from a place of clarity or convenience?
Do your standards reflect your worth or your fears?
And how do you break cycles that keep leading you to the wrong people?

This episode is all about intentional dating, accountability & protecting your time, energy, and heart.

#love #dating #relationships #god #reality

What’s really going on in today’s dating pool?

In this episode of Balanced Chaos, we sit down with special guest Chad Scott, certified dating & relationship coach, to have an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, shifting standards, and the realities people are facing when it comes to love, relationships, and everything in between.

From confusing expectations to mismatched intentions, we’re breaking down why dating feels different today & what both men and women might be getting right (and wrong). Whether you’re actively dating, taking a break, or just observing the chaos, this episode is packed with real perspectives and honest dialogue.

In this episode, we discuss:
• The current state of the dating pool
• Why dating feels more complicated than ever
• Common frustrations men and women experience
• Standards, expectations, and accountability
• What people actually want vs. what they say they want

This isn’t about choosing sides, it’s about understanding the landscape and having real conversations that push us toward better connections.

#BalancedChaos #dating #datingadvice #relationshiptalk #love #marriage

Welcome to Balanced Chaos with Jroc & Lady Elle

In this pilot episode, we’re setting the tone for everything this podcast stands for: real conversations, unfiltered perspectives, and finding balance in the middle of life’s chaos. From entrepreneurship and personal growth to love, dating, and navigating relationships in today’s world, nothing is off limits here.

We dive into who we are, how we met and what led us to create this space together. Expect lots of honesty, lots of humor, and lots of moments that might just have you reflecting on your own journey.

This is more than a podcast. It’s a vibe, a safe space, and a conversation you didn’t know you needed.

Please share your thoughts in the comments. This is a safe space & without different opinions and perspectives, there can be no growth or evolution.

​Remember, Balance isn’t about having it all together. It’s about moving with purpose through the chaos.

#love #dating #relationships #entrepreneurship #singlelife #blacklove #podcast #balancedchaos