It is a human thing to want to be heard, but do we grant people that same grace?

Enjoy.

Why is there such a stigma attached to not getting it right the first time? or the second time? or even the third time.

We glamourize starting strong and finishing gracefully but when will we have conversations about failing? about having to go back to the drawing board? about having to try again?

In this episode of Banter and Chill, Ini baby analyses the importance of taking breaks and pausing if you need to before coming back to finish what you started.

Listen and let me know if this is the sign you need to take that big break. XO XO

Do you believe the rod of correction is what it would take to make your child straight?

Or do you believe dialogue is the way while they figure out their sexuality?

In this episode of Banter and Chill, join Ini baby and a host of others as we share our opinions on questions surrounding children and the topic of sexuality.

Have you ever been going through anything and someone tells you, "there is light at the end of the tunnel"?

I can relate to how much you feel like rolling your eyes at that statement. There's too much emphasis on the light at the end of the tunnel and very little emphasis on how you cope in the tunnel.

In the new episode of the Banter and Chill podcast, I give my own tested and tried (aka amateur) ways to cope during depressive episodes in your life.

Listen and let me know if this helps you in any way.

Music by Music_Unlimited and  AudioCoffee from pixabay.com

Are you your baby's baby or should I mind my business?

But, would it really be a podcast without unsolicited opinions? In this episode, I talk about one-sided relationships, red flags, and the signs that you are about to see shege with that your favorite person.

Listen and enjoy.

Some things are better left unsaid but what if you do need to say them? We all have those conversations that we avoid and put off until the very last minute when things are starting to really go bad. Just in case no one ever told you, leaving things unsaid does not always make you the bigger person. Sometimes, all it does is make your chest swell like garri from holding in all the anger and hurt.

In this episode, I will be discussing difficult conversations and how to navigate them. Listen and let me know if this was the motivation you needed to talk yo shit afterward! Xo Xo.

When life gives you lemons, you gather them and proclaim yourself a pro on all things lemon!

For my first three episodes, I am doing something similar to this. I have reminisced on the past 22 years of my life and put together 22 things I have learned.

You really cannot do this life thing for 22 years and not call yourself an expert at it. So listen, enjoy and tell me if I have been learning nonsense.

Music by Music_Unlimited and  AudioCoffee from pixabay.com

When life gives you lemons, you gather them and proclaim yourself a pro on all things lemon!

For my first three episodes, I am doing something similar to this. I have reminisced on the past 22 years of my life and put together 22 things I have learned.

You really cannot do this life thing for 22 years and not call yourself an expert at it. So listen, enjoy and tell me if I have been learning nonsense.

Music by Music_Unlimited and  AudioCoffee from pixabay.com

When life gives you lemons, you gather them and proclaim yourself a pro on all things lemon!

For my first three episodes, I am doing something similar to this. I have reminisced on the past 22 years of my life and put together 22 things I have learned.

You really cannot do this life thing for 22 years and not call yourself an expert at it. So listen, enjoy and tell me if I have been learning nonsense.

Music by Music_Unlimited and  AudioCoffee from pixabay.com

Banter & Chill is a deep dive into the most random and somewhat deep conversations from the lens of a Nigerian woman living in Nigeria. This is a place to find laughter, thought-provoking topics, and the most random relatable gists.

If this sounds like your thing, hop in. 

Music by Music_Unlimited and  AudioCoffee from pixabay.com