Bar Talk With Jay

We explore if you found something new about people or yourself. Did find out the true character of people around you? Did figure that humans had lower lows than you expected or did you find that there is still faith in humanity. So many things changed but did they or did they get amplified.

So you have someone you feel like is the one? How long did take you to feel like that and how long did it take for you to know you needed to commit to that person?

So who cheats better? Is it men or women? First, what is better? Getting away with more or not getting caught for longer? This can go either way. but to really know you have to look at the way each side cheats. Most will say Women have more emotion tied into their cheating while men cheat more for the opportunity when loyalty is absent. Where do you fall?

Can you put it all on the "table"? This week on the podcast we will talk about entanglements, but really we are here to talk about the ability to bare it all with the one you are with. It’s one thing to talk about what happened before you ever together, it another thing to talk about anything that happens in the course of the relationship. Jada and Will came to the Red Table Talk to show how real it is. Can you sit at your table and do the same?

When you noticed your relationship isn't where you want out to be? Is the fire not there? How do you deal? Do you encourage a change or do you move on? You tell us

We all, for the most part, an inherent desire to do better and be better. At some point in our lives, people who are close to us will want to do the same and they may not be far as yourself. They may even ask you to help them get closer to where you are. So where is your line? Is it money or are you willing to go all the way and supply infrastructure to support the intended desire. Our families have people that come along with a variety of characters and some of them could really use our help while others may look to take advantage of your kindness. It’s always more than meets the eye in most situations and you don’t know until your close. Thanks for listening!

Maybe it’s social media or maybe its just facts but the perception that Father’ Day is a second rate holiday next to Mothers’ Day isn’t that false. The question is why? Why do men feel like this and why is the perception seem to be so universal? We have come to realize that men have a lot of issues and in society have been the dominant species for some time. Is there some resentment going on subconsciously? That’s a wide look. What about the individual? We talk about women having “daddy issues” but it some men have the same issues because they seem to lack examples when it comes to love and being a father. So who really has the “daddy issues”? As men start to look at their own mistakes we start to build better men and if we can start reaching out we can starter to building stronger as a whole. Thanks for listening!

Managing Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318)

Do you have a preference when it comes to dating age? Before we go in the wrong direction, let's focus on the way that grown people are supposed to work. Going in different directions on the age spectrum can give you pros and cons depending on where you are in your life. It could be stability, it could be to grow or maybe just to have fun and enjoy life. Whatever your preference, age usually plays a factor in our bias of expected behavior and what compromises we are willing to make because of those behaviors. The larger age discrepancies seem to draw the most ire from others. When you look at the situations where people frown upon or may assume dysfunction based on known ages of the parties.(i.e. Tiger King).

Whichever way you fall on the side of age preference whether it be older or younger, you understand for the most part what the fundamental differences are. The thing people see to struggle with is when the age difference causes a difference in lifestyle choices. This friction is much more apparent after cohabitation. After a mistake or two an individual builds a profile based on their life and easily avoids the wrong type of individuals in a given age group.

In the last week since the out right murder of George Floyd, protest are starting to pop up not only in Minnesota, not just America, but the world! We continue to protest in numbers and in some cases riot. It’s beyond the comprehension of some why people are acting the way they are and some are asking what can we do? On tonight’s episode. We explore that and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

Leaving relationships always comes with some scars, some lessons, and some new expectations because there is always something new we will not put up with in the future. There can be a line that some of us can cross where some of these lessons and scars can turn a small reminder into a full PTSD episode. Some of the negative feelings around certain areas of our relationships can cause avoidable situations and can even go as far as ending a relationship all together

Have you gotten accused of treating your new boo like your ex? Do you have wounds that cause you to get labeled unreasonable? Maybe the shoe is on the other foot. You may be dealing with someone you are really into but they keep me showing things that they are not over from the past. Whichever roll you may play, you can agree that for the most part, baggage in this form is unhealthy and should be left at the door.

Thanks for listening!