I'm giving you part 1, or to put it dealing with "mild" self-absorbed people. We are uncomfortable with these kinds of persons because we dont understand, or they are too far gone and have pushed you away negatively to have any relationship with them. And we get upset ourselves as well. They are here on this earth, we might as well educate ourselves and learn. I know I'm STILL trying to, as well.

Think of feelings as a pie chart. You have a percentage of this and that. We would just love to equalize it, but as humans and some being more sensitive (like myself) than others; it's hard! Communication and understanding. Like mechanics wanting to fix, fix, fix, and fix until the car runs perfectly.

Times have changed, even though work can has made us feel like we shouldn't do anything when we get home, well...we still need to communicate better and spread it out. Get it done! Especially, with your partner and understanding that it can get overwhelming with only 1 person doing it.

Leave that shit behind in 2019! It is a new year! Make it your best, or at least the best YOU can!! Set what you want for yourself and make it happen!

Trauma is such a hard thing to get over and some of us cant, but we can cope and get stronger. You're not weak; fight them!

As men and women, we ALL are different and we ALL do things differently. How we do it and in the manner of. Give grace for the credit, what credit is due. Love, communication, trust, and faith. Practice it.

Not only used for the benefit of a relationship with a spouse/partner, but a family member, or close friend. Quick fix these small things before they build up into something...irrational where there is nothing but conflict.

Holidays have become a rush more than a hush, hush. Please remember: materialism isn't everything your loves ones are and people you cherish! Try your best with kindness and giving as well as feeling the cheer! Happy Holidays, to all, and goodnight!

We can't look what you want! We are beautiful the way we need to be for ourselves, and people who "love" us! Love shouldn't be one-sided and toxic! You have what you have! You get what you get!!!

Every day, little or big, stress is everywhere. We cannot out run it, but figure out how to cool it down. Human...that's what and all we are. We can't change it, but better the outcome! I'm not perfect, your not perfect, NOONE WILL EVER BE PERFECT! There. Is. No. Such. Thing. As. Perfect. Let's attack this messy stress; ANY stresses! Amour on! Ready! And....ATTACK!