Bawdy Storytelling by Dixie De La Tour

September 01, 2024 Episode 299: ‘Both My Vaginas’ (Sara Lederach)

Is Sex one of your favorite ways to meet people? Sultry midwest feminist and sex-positive realtor Sara Lederach is a mother and wife who had squished herself small to serve others, but everything changes when she opens up her failing marriage, gets on Tinder, and meets the love of her life, Chuck. So when Sara reveals that she has fully functional diphallia, he rewards her bravery with the ultimate in fantasy fulfillment: a custom DP. Because isn't that what love is, really?

Song: ‘Believe in Yourself’ (Shirley Gnome)

About the Storyteller:

Long time Bawdy listener, first time Bawdy story submitter Sara Lederach is an artist, mama and realtor based in Nashville, TN. Sara is a big fan of creatively designed lives, which she feels plays into the spaces we live in and the way we relate to one another. In her free time you can find her hiking, sequestered in her studio with piles of fabric, or digging through dead people's things at estate sales. Being a sex-positive realtor is Sara’s of my greatest delights; her first couple of transactions originated in that space. Sara is your go-to if you need exposed beams for suspension play or if you just need more space because your polycule is changing.

Uterine Didelphys l Double Penetration l Threesome l Fantasy l Open Relationship l Hotel Room l Septum l 2 Vaginas l Google Spreadsheet l Abortion l Bang l Filet O’Fish l Menstrual Blood l Blindfold l Country Music l Musician l Favorite Vagina l Masturbate l Pandemic l Speculum l Connection l Home l Flight Attendant l Nashville l Vulnerable l Apologize l Isolation l Russian Nesting Doll l Partnership

Episode links:

Bawdy Storytelling Live Shows: We’re On Tour!

September 6th, 2024: CHICAGO, IL

Tickets at

https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024

This Friday, Bawdy will on the Heath MainStage, at the beautiful Den Theater in Chicago! (I’m so excited about this one)

Performers include

Non-binary Speaker, Author & Therapist Rae McDaniel
International Mr Leather Den Daddy Miguel Torres
Queer & Genderfluid Best of Bawdy Winner Tanya Gilstrap
Moth Slam Winner & Psychotherapist Mary Hoefler
Music by Clara & the Great Goddamn
Prizes from Magic Wand, Aneros, Uberlube, Fun Factory & more!

September 10th: PHILADELPHIA, PA

I’m hosting First Person Arts’ 4th Annual SexFiles storytelling show in Philadelphia!

Happening at 7 PM EST at World Café Live in Philly

Tickets at

https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie

October 18th: PORTLAND, OR

A 2 show Night! Our curated mainstage Bawdy Storytelling, followed by BawdySlam (where YOU can get onstage to win prizes).

Plus it’ll be Livestreamed!

Tickets at

https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024

November 1st: SEATTLE, WA

Theme: ‘Le Petit Mort’

(This show is already halfway sold out)

It’s happening at my dream venue, the gorgeous Century Ballroom

Tickets at

https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024

WORKSHOPS:

’How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling - learn Dixie’s complete 5-Step System & Learn the Craft of Sexy, beautifully told Stories from Award-winning Story Coach and Professional Storyteller Dixie De La Tour.

Have you ever listened to a story at a live performance or on a podcast, and wished that you could share your own personal stories in such a well-crafted, relatable way? It's easy, if you have a System...and Dixie De La Tour has one. She’s taught thousands of new and experienced storytellers to tell their story at Bawdy Storytelling. And now YOU can learn her simple system, too.

Join Dixie for her all new workshop: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling’. You'll engage in group & solo exercises in a sex-positive, community-based environment as you find & refine your own stories under Dixie's expert direction. Try out your own most intimate stories in a positive, supportive setting.

'How to Be Bawdy' includes special topics in sexuality, kink and gender-related storytelling, to help you articulate your stories clearly.

With live sessions, weekly office hours, best practices for NSFW stories, performance tips, storytelling-related neuroscience, a custom workbook, coaching from Dixie - and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends.

ONLINE Mini-Workshop:

September 7th, 5 PM EST for First Person Arts in Philly

I’ll be teaching my ‘How to Be Captivating’ 2 hour workshop for First Person Arts

More info at

https://bit.ly/HowToBeCaptivatingFPA

6 Week ONLINE Workshop:

Starts on Sept 16

With weekly Office Hours to try your hand at Bawdy storytelling

A 6 Week Online Storytelling Workshop, where we’ll come together to work on our Bawdy stories - plus I’ve added optional Office Hours so that you can work with me and get custom coaching each week.

WHEN: Mondays, Sept 16th - October 21st

Time: 5:30 - 7:30 PM PDT (8:30 - 10:30 PM EDT)

PLUS

Wednesdays, 5:30-7:30 PST

With Optional weekly hours for custom coaching, Q&A, story advice & more)

WHERE: Online, so that you can attend from anywhere in the world

https://HowToBeBawdyVirtual.eventbrite.com

PORTLAND: October 20th

In Person: I’m offering a full day ‘How to Be Bawdy’ storytelling Intensive on Sunday, October 20th - In Portland, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at

https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyPortlandOR

SEATTLE: November 3rd

In Person: I’m offering a full day ‘How to Be Bawdy’ storytelling Intensive on Sunday, November 3rd - In Seattle, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at

https://bit.ly/HTBBawdySeattle

Other Links:

The Dixie Ramble: My Substack ’The Dixie Ramble’ is starting next week. Substack is a great way to receive audio, video and written work from me. You can subscribe to The Dixie Ramble at

https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour

Ongoing Support for the Podcast:

Folks, I’m still considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. That means there’s just a couple of episode left. If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. This decision will affect both of us. And if you listen, please make a One-time or Ongoing Donation to keep the Podcast going.

Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.

It’s at

https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy

Sign up now and get the Replay of the Portland BawdySlam! (Plus the Portland curated show is up on Patreon, waiting for you)

One Time Donation links are at:

Venmo:

@BawdyStorytelling or

https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling

CashApp:

https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour

Paypal:

paypal.me/bawdystorytelling

Zelle:

https://www.zellepay.com/

Email address is [email protected]

BuyMeACoffee:

buymeacoff.ee/bawdy

Ko-fi :

Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy

Private Coaching with Dixie:

Sexuality and Kink Coaching: I’m available for sexuality and kinky coaching, and story coaching. If you’ve always wished that you had someone to talk to openly, I’m here to support you (and give advice, if you want it - you decide what role I play. I’m a great listener, and a coach with many years of experience in this world.

Story Coaching: I’d love to work with you on your personal story, because Storytelling is essential to your work, dating and social life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, storytelling for job interviews, etc). I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, landing your dream job, and discovering what makes *you* tick - storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you.

Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, opening up your marriage, embracing a new identity or finding your way to a new, more authentic life, I can help.

Email me at [email protected]

and let’s make it happen.

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Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise