BDSM educator, Casey Carter, welcomes us back from our summer hiatus on episode 95 of American Sex podcast. Casey tells us about diving into the kink & leather world after the age of 40 when an unexpected divorce forced her to reexamine a sexual part of herself he had abandoned years before. She gives us important tips about exploring kink and tells us why understanding what's behind our reluctance to talk to partners about fantasies is crucial for a satisfying sex life. We discuss the upsides and downsides of being one of the few black, dominant, female BDSM educators in our field plus Casey gives us ideas for pervertibles you have right in your own home that you can use tonight.

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Episode 95 Links

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