What is the difference between BDSM and Abuse? If you dont already know listen to this podcast and youll learn there are many distinct differences. We talk through 4 major bullet points of pain vs pleasure, protection vs fear, power given vs power taken, and open communication vs no communication as well as aftercare. We even talk about our own experiences navigating through BDSM to make sure there was no abuse and hope to help others keep both eyes out for the red flags and to stay safe and pleasure filled.