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I am very excited to finally get this episode with Dr. Cat Meyers up! Dr. Cat is a licensed sex and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, published researcher, and international speaker all with in the pursuit of helping people come back to their hearts and their bodies to create erotically inspired lives through sex, love, and yoga. Dr. Cat joins me on this episode to talk about sex, relationships, ketamine, and psychedelics. She talks about how ketamine can be used as medicine and a tool that can help us understand and communicate our emotions which leads to us experiencing what it feels like to be vulnerable and to be received. You can find out more about this goddess Dr. Cat Meyers, her courses, her podcasts, and book at her website sexloveyoga.com and her IG @sexloveyoga. 

Oh this one is going to make the new age feminist so mad and I'm excited for it. We are talking about traditional vs modern women and wives! I'm fascinated by the clash going on between women who follow the modern script that women must want a full time career over all else and the women who are sick of constantly being masculine and instead want to go back into their feminine where they are a homemaker. I talk about my personal struggle of being raised by society to think that success and happiness lie in a career, but I am happiest when I am a wife who supports and looks after my husband and home. We are all for the women who choose on their own accord to be bad ass boss bitches but we are also all for the women who choose to celebrating the natural feminine strengths characteristics. 

We're talking threesomes! They are all the rage and honestly have been for years and years, it just seems to be talked about more out in the open. Though threesomes can happen with any and all sexualities we are mainly talking about hetero/bisexual threesomes here. What we are here to discuss is how people/couples go about having threesomes. We tend to meet a lot of people who think of threesomes as only ffm (female-female-male), which is great if the females are bisexual and truly only want a threesome that way. However, what we dont agree with is when the female does have a desire to be in a threesome with two males. Listens in to find out why. 

In this episode I am joined by Findom Onxy Muse. She opens up about her path of becoming dominatrix and to the world of open sexuality. Starting off as a regular model and going into a monogamous relationship, to opening said relationship up to another woman, to going to her first play party. Eventually we learn how she got out from under the controlling wing of the person who taught her about being a dominatrix and making it on her own. She has a wild story to tell that you dont want to miss. 

This episode Daddy and I are discussing cucking! If you dont know, cucking is the act of "forcing" your partner (typically the man) to watch you have sex with someone else. The cuckhold is typically not allowed to partake or even touch. This is one of Daddys favorite play time activities even when he was the Dom in our relationship, as he would tell me to go play with someone else while he was away traveling. This too is a form of cucking, where the cuckhold is not at all precent but later gets a detailed description of the sexual act. Find out more about cucking and our stories playing out cuck scenes in this episode!

People around the world heard about the sticky muddy situation that happen at Burning Man 2023. Unfortunately most of those people who were not in attendance were told ridiculous news stories, by reporters who were also not on the playa, that is was horrific, people were stranded, that it was the apocalypse.  All of that could not be further from the truth and we’re going to tell you about Daddy’s and mine experience at Muddy Man. It started not great, we really thought it was going to be our last burn, and then the rain came. When so many people thought it was going to ruin their burn it actually heighten the experience for so many people, Daddy and myself included. We were lucky enough to have been camping at Orgy Dome for the first time and I do not think I have ever been more impressed with a group of people. As the burned turned to a party in place mentality the people at Orgy Dome did not disappoint not only with the partying but with keeping the love and community spirit of Burning Man alive.

Don’t listen to all the negative news stories saying how horrible burning man was because everyone who stayed at least until the man burn would say it was the best Burning Man ever. For Daddy and myself it went from being our last burn to a dedication that we will forever come back home.

I have the amazing Amber Hull, DO. on to talk about her new Artemis Luxury Wellness experience. She is bringing together physicians, therapist, and sex professionals together to facilitate and lead discussions of human sexuality and relationships. Amber went through the whole American medical schooling, training, and career to come to the position she is in now with a private pediatric practice of her own. She then realized she also had a passion for human sexual education, as well as, the need for sex education in the professional medical community. Through Artemis, Amber wants to bring together people who are knowledgeable in all aspects of relationships and sexual health: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Artemis is to provide an environment that allows people to ask questions, and share vulnerabilities in a place that is playful, open minded, and fun.

If interested in the Artemis Luxury Wellness Experience check out the link below

https://artemisluxurywellness.com/

This episode is brought to you from Cap d’Agde in the South of France. Daddy and I spent almost three full weeks in the naturalist (nudest) village where we stripped down to our birthday suites, which also helped us to strip away our resentments, defenses, and blockages within our relationship and our communication. We talk about how you need to be honest about your desires and where your energy is otherwise you, as well as your relationship/s, will not balance. We even chat about long term relationships, cheating, and how no matter how well you lie to your partner, they can feel it because energy does not lie. By exposing our physical self we also exposed so much more stuff buried deep inside ourselves. Listen in to find out how radically honest and transparent communication is where the magic happens.

Daddy and I had some amazing breakthroughs about our relationship while on holiday during some very deep and vulnerable "fun" therapy/fuck sessions. I have taken a pretty big break from podcasting as we -- in my opinion -- were not in a place in our relationship/lives to be giving others sex, love, and relationship advice. There had been a few major needs I tried to get Daddy to hear but it never landed. Now it has landed. It has landed on him that I need my independence and though his words supported me his energy very clearly did not. He would hold onto very specific expectations of our relationship and sex life, he was not fully surrendering to me as my submissive, and he didn't fully trust me that I always had his best interest at the top of my heart. We were finally both able to let go of our baby step rules, let each other be who we truly are, and loving all of each other. We realized our life circumstances have not changed but our love has grown and our communication has improved, which has decreased our stress. Surrender, surrender to trust, surrender to the relationship. 

Were back and were kicking off with Cobra Cummander talking about pegging and anal play. We talk about the bliss that both men, women, and all in between can receive from anal. However, for men, especially straight men being the recipient of butt play can be a challenge to admit due to societies judgements. Yet, why would you turn away from something that brings you pleasure (without harm to others) just because others judge you? We talk about the best ways to start down the anal trail, the different ways to prep for the adventure, and why everyone should at least try the back door. Daddy and I also tell one of our more hilarious first time pegger stories. We're back and you dont want to miss this bum chat.