ALT-love's podcast

Toxic Masculinity is a phrase that - in my opinion - is being thrown around so much that the meaning is almost being lost. Yes toxic masculinity is an issue in todays world - just like toxic feminism - but why is masculinity being considered so toxic? In this podcast we talk about really the two different types of toxic masculinity: the over macho alpha masculine and the new over feminine masculine. Both have their own issues and both are highly driving by todays culture. 

Recently Daddy and I had two experiences just weeks apart from one another that inspired this podcast. Warning! If you are a new age "wok" kid and/or feminist theres a chance you will get triggered at some point during this podcast. We partook in conversations with two different women about ours and their relationship/sex life. Each had their own story with similarities including their opinion of us i.e. judgement, intrigue, discuss, amazement, curiosity, and admiration. We are all for strong, independent feminine energy however when women demand to stand in the masculine and feminine spot in the relationship is when toxicity comes in. Stay tuned for the following podcast talking about good vs toxic masculinity. 

I can hardly believe my transwoman crush Eden Raynes joined me on my podcast. She is a force to be reckoned with and I am ecstatic to have her share her story with me and my listeners. She reveals details of her childhood, family life, growth, and transition from a birthed male to a strong, confident, beautiful woman. We even touch on the controversial topic of what should parents do if their child wants to transition. Then of course Daddy had to jump on the recording to put his two sense and slide in a quick pick up line or two. 

This is a pretty intense episode as I have Daddy and Milfy with me to talk about both of their experiences with their sexual personal lives being -- literally -- judged thanks to nasty custody battles. If you have listen to mine and Daddy's podcast talks before you have probably heard us talk about how his ex wife took away his rights to see his son over our personal sex life and public sex education personas. Milfy has had a similar experience with her baby daddy. Listen in as we talk about how they dealt/are dealing with this struggle, thoughts on sex education and judicial system in America, what actually makes a good parent whether monogamous or not, and how we refuse to back down on what we believe in. You don't want to miss this!

My good friend Meesh came to me with the question a couple of her clients have brought up to her: "Can I partake in BDSM if I dont have any trauma?" First and foremost yes, and secondly in todays age we all have some form of trauma we still carry around with us (not all trauma is sexual). We get into this narrative that society has once again drilled into us about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies, and how we need to change that narrative. We talk about the different avenues that drive people into the wonderful, exciting, cathartic world of kink. As well as, both of our personal kink journeys and working through our personal past traumas. Whether you have fantasies/kinks due to serious trauma, are working through your trauma, or just simply enjoy the kink for the kink this is a podcast you dont want to miss.

Christopher Marcus of FreekShow Podcast and PlayHouseMedia joins me to talk about throwing/attending play parties. Chris started throwing parties at age 19 and now ten years later he shares with us some of the lessons and tricks he has picked up. He explains his cocktail mix recipe for play parties from the vibe, themes, and a strict vetting process, to over eagerness, consent, newbies, and party rules. As well as the best way to find people and parties in the LifeStyle. Theres a lot of good information and a lot of laughs you dont want to miss. 

Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent the number one FDA approved premature ejaculation treatment. It is a topical spray for me to help them last longer in the bedroom rodeo. We go over what exactly PE is and its causes, as well as what differentiates. Promescent from other treatments of PE. Jeff continues on to give us the unexpected emotion tale of how he found himself in the sex improvement business. He even divulges the secret to sex enhancement business. Funny and informative, Jeff Abraham, is someone anyone would love to chat with. 

I am so excited to finally have my girlfriend Allie on with me. I have been dying to do this podcast with her to talk about her unique family life. This twenty year old has a very unique view on relationships, monogamous and non. She is 3rd generation swinger! Her parents are swingers and polyamorous, her Dad's parents are swingers, however, her mom's side are extremely religious. She might be young, yet she is one of the most self aware and sexually liberated young women I have ever met. She is definitely someone you want to hear her stories and listen to her view point. 

On this episode I am joined with Alexa Martinez (aka thatsexchick) and her partner/fiance Jordan Maurice Bowditch (aka conscious.bro). This is a powerhouse couple when it comes to overcoming social conditioning and #RelationshipGoals. They are spiritual, realistic, and relatable. We talk about consciousness within oneself (ie who you are), your day to day life, sexually, and in relationships. They explain how they are able to make their relationship flourish from understanding that the other person is not their "everything" so they seek help and sounding boards with friends as well as their own coach, to having weekly relationship board meetings, to scheduling sex. Sometimes you just have to "fuck this out real quick to return the relationship back to neutral."

This one is for the ladies (but guys you should listen too). This episode I was lucky enough to have someone I very much look up to, Arja Hendrikx, join me from half way around the world. She is a vastly experienced Tantra practitioner and teacher who has dedicated her life to helping others get in tune with their body, spirit, mind, energy, and the universe around them. Arja speaks on her journey to Tantra and how it helped her connect with herself, her femininity, and her orgasm. She gives all of us ladies some great tips on how to do the same from going off hormonal birth control, ditching vibrators (yes you read that correct), and taking ourselves on pleasure dates. Ladies this is one podcast you don't want to miss.