It is easy to point the finger & place the responsibility for what you feel like you're lacking onto someone else. Complaining and blaming another person for not being *fill in the blank* is never going to effectively influence them to shift in your favor. They may shift, but not because they love, respect, & support you more, but because they don't want to deal with your complaints! I am here to remind you that whatever you want more of is up to YOU to be. Want more love? BE loving. Want more respect? BE respectable. Want more support? BE supportive! Not only will you influence others to shift, but you will find that everything you experience is up to you to create from within. 

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