Be The Leader with Jeramiah Solven

Feel stuck no matter how hard you work? Army veterans Jeramiah and Charyce Solven share how they each got unstuck over the last couple of years — and the framework that explains why most high performers stay stuck: Bloom's Taxonomy, the six stages of real learning.

In this episode: why radical honesty comes first, why remembering isn't learning, why affirmations without action make you "feel really good about going nowhere," the mental checklist and nightly review that change behavior, the minimum effective dose, internal vs. external drive, why to take the photo after the work — and why sometimes the answer is doing less.

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This episode includes a discussion of mental health, including PTSD. If you're struggling: in the US, call or text 988 or chat at chat.988lifeline.org. Veterans: dial 988 then press 1, or text 838255 (veteranscrisisline.net). Outside the US, contact your local emergency number.

What happens when you hit every goal you set and still feel like something is off? In this episode of Be The Leader, Jeramiah Solven turns 40 and takes apart the way he measured success for two decades — achievement after achievement, each one supposed to fill a hole that only got bigger. As Seneca put it, life is long if you know how to use it.

Jeramiah walks through the Conquer Wheel of Life, the nine-dimension framework he has used since 2013 and refined through Ranger Regiment commands and years of coaching high performers: health and fitness, finances, friends and family, romance, spirituality, business and career, wisdom and personal growth, the art of living, and materialism. For each one he gives the single lesson he never wants to forget, with the stories that taught it — the operation that broke him, the mentor who put him back together, the boy and the puzzle, and the funeral test he uses to decide what actually matters.

The trap he names is the one most high achievers never see: achievement in your strong areas masks the areas you are neglecting. Chasing more in business can hide the fact that you are failing in your marriage. Whether you are 30, 40, or 50 and winning on paper while something underneath feels off, this episode gives you a way to grade every area honestly and fix the flat spoke that is slowing everything else down.

Take the free Conquer Wheel of Life Audit: https://conquer-wheel-of-life.netlify.app

What happens when you're successful on paper but still feel like you're failing? In this episode of Be The Leader, Jeramiah Solven goes deeper than the external story he shared last time and into the internal one - the inner fight that quietly decides the quality of your life. As Tony Robbins said, success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure, and this episode is about closing that gap for good.

Jeramiah opens up about the last 10 years: a PTSD diagnosis he carried undiagnosed for far too long, the depression and mental challenges that came with it, and the decision to stop reliving the story and start fixing the problem. Mental toughness pulled him through the hardest seasons of his life - until he realized the very thing that built him was breaking him. Out of that came three rules for winning the war within: radical accountability, self-discipline that starts with your self-talk, and protecting your momentum so the change actually lasts. He breaks each one down with the exact tactics he uses every day.

Whether you're a founder, a veteran, or anyone who looks like they're winning but feels stuck underneath it, this episode will challenge you to stop tolerating the life you've settled into and take ownership of the one you actually want. Win the inner fight, and everything else follows.

Between 2023 and 2025 I went through the hardest season outside military service.

I went all in on the vision — and I paid for it. Lost friends. Lost money. Got diagnosed with PTSD. Marriage took the hit.

And I never stopped building.

This isn't a teaching episode. This is what actually happened, what it cost me, and the seven lessons I'd hand to anyone who feels like they're failing even though they're showing up.

If you're in the middle of your own hard season, this one's for you.

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⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 — A decision I'd been putting off
03:00 — Going all in: the August 2023 workout that flipped the switch
08:00 — What happened: friends, money, PTSD, marriage
18:00 — The 7 lessons that came out of it
30:00 — The tracker that wouldn't let me lie to myself
33:00 — The habits I built in the hardest season
35:00 — Where I am now
38:00 — One thing I want you to do today

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📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aCRrxVcwE7g
📱 Instagram: @jeramiahsolven

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Never quit on yourself.

Most men think they need to survive struggle.

But the real test?

Can you survive success without falling apart?

In this episode, I sit down with Danny—a man who’s been through the streets, prison, and real darkness—but now faces a quieter, harder war: structure, discipline, and becoming the man he says he wants to be.

We break down the mindset that keeps high-potential men stuck in survival mode… even after the chaos ends.

You’ll learn:

    •    Why peace exposes the undisciplined

    •    Why most men only move when life hurts

    •    And what it really takes to lead yourself without pain or pressure

Danny is showing what it takes to stop settling, take command, and finally break free from the identity that was built to survive—but not built to win.

If you’ve ever sabotaged your growth the moment things got stable… this episode is your mirror.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve failed too many times to succeed, this episode is the reminder you need that it’s never too late to rise. I sit down with Cody Sechelski, a man who went from addiction and prison to becoming a purpose-driven leader in both business and life. Through deep faith, personal accountability, and spiritual growth, Cody transformed not only his future—but who he was at his core.

This conversation dives into what true redemption looks like: how aligning with God’s purpose can reshape your identity, how discipline and vision can rebuild a broken life, and why spiritual development is the missing piece for so many high performers. Cody also shares his bold perspective on the future of construction, leadership, and the role of spirit-led innovation in today’s evolving world.

If you’re searching for a breakthrough, stuck in your past, or ready to step into the next level of your purpose, this episode will meet you where you are—and challenge you to lead from who you’re becoming, not where you’ve been.

Follow Cody at:

IG- @codysechelski

In this episode of Be the Leader, Jeramiah Solven sits down with business consultant Antonio Garcia to dive deep into the raw, unfiltered realities of scaling a business. From the mental toughness required to handle stress as a leader to the critical role of accountability in both business and family life, this conversation will challenge your perspective on success.

Antonio shares lessons from his journey—growing up in Alaska, facing rock-bottom moments, and eventually consulting for top brands and entrepreneurs. They unpack strategies for business optimization, leadership development, and even the personal growth needed to sustain high performance.

Plus, a brief insight into Antonio’s work with influential leaders, including his appearance on a show with negotiation expert Chris Voss. If you're looking to scale your business, manage stress like a pro, and lead with integrity, this episode is for you.

Welcome to the first episode of 2025, where we dive deep into the transformative power of identity and commitment. This episode of Be the Leader is all about cutting through the noise of New Year’s resolutions and getting to the heart of real, sustainable change. We tackle the toxicity of "New Year, New Me" and offer actionable strategies to break free from the cycle of false promises and temporary fixes.

Together, we discuss how to set meaningful goals, the importance of aligning with your ideal identity, and the hard truth about what it takes to create lasting personal transformation. From understanding the dangers of chasing short-term results to embracing consistency over intensity, this episode equips you with the mindset and tools needed to conquer 2025 and beyond.

Whether you're striving for better health, financial freedom, or stronger relationships, this episode will challenge you to let go of the old and fully commit to becoming the person who achieves your ultimate goals. It’s not just about what you do—it's about who you become. Tune in to start your year off with clarity, purpose, and the courage to transform.

In this explosive episode of Be the Leader, Jeramiah Solven sits down with Trung B. Nguyen—a former Army Ranger, SWAT officer, and now the visionary CEO of We Go Home, an apparel and supplement company with a mission to inspire excellence. Trung’s story is one of resilience, transformation, and relentless pursuit of purpose. From escaping post-war Vietnam as a child to serving on the frontlines in Iraq and later thriving as an entrepreneur, Trung’s journey is nothing short of extraordinary.

Trung and Jeramiah dive deep into the realities of life, leadership, and success. Trung recounts his early days growing up in a rough Chicago neighborhood, witnessing violence firsthand, and ultimately finding his way into the elite ranks of the Army Rangers. He opens up about the struggles of transitioning from military service to civilian life, battling personal demons, and finding purpose again through faith and fitness.

This conversation also tackles the crisis of modern masculinity, where comfort and complacency are eroding discipline and integrity. Trung shares powerful insights on what it means to be a high-value man, emphasizing the importance of steadfast character, mental toughness, and living by principles. He explains how hardship and suffering are essential for growth and offers practical advice for anyone feeling stuck or searching for their purpose.

The episode takes a raw and unfiltered look at Trung’s time in SWAT, the harsh realities of tactical law enforcement, and how those experiences shaped his entrepreneurial journey. Trung reveals why he created We Go Home to set a new standard for supplements and apparel, and how his products reflect his personal commitment to excellence and resilience.

This isn’t your typical feel-good podcast—it’s a wake-up call for anyone who wants more out of life. Trung and Jeramiah don’t shy away from hard truths, delivering an inspiring and actionable roadmap for building discipline, confronting adversity, and leading with purpose.

If you’re ready to push past your limits and transform your life, this episode is for you. Share it with someone who needs a dose of inspiration and start leading from the front today.

You can find Trung on Instagram at @trungbnguyen and @wegohome, and online at https://wegohomesupps.com/.

In today’s episode of Be The Leader, Jeramiah Solven dives deep into one of the most pressing and controversial topics of our time—masculinity. Inspired by the Tim Kennedy quote, “My family will never know the amount of violence I’ve done to understand how soft and gentle I am to them,” Jeramiah explores the balance between strength and compassion, aggression and gentleness.

Joined by his wife, Charyce, they tackle societal perceptions of masculinity, the impact of suppressing a man’s natural drive, and the dangers of toxic labels. They discuss how embracing your “savage self” can lead to true self-mastery, emotional intelligence, and a fulfilling life.

This episode isn’t just for men—it’s for anyone seeking to understand the masculine energy and its role in creating a balanced, thriving society. Whether you’re a man looking to reclaim your authenticity or a woman curious about what shapes true masculinity, this episode will leave you thinking deeply about leadership, strength, and humanity.

Resources:
If you or someone you know is in crisis, call the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 988. It’s free, confidential, and available 24/7.